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#1277391 - 11/28/07 12:43 AM Re: King of Pain, 2 [Re: NoCodeBlues]
Yoyowife Offline
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Registered: 03/20/07
Posts: 5666
NC,
Children are such a blessing. You would think with the difficulty you and W had conceiving they would be that much more special that she would do anything to protect them.

I don't mean to say that those of us that had chilren easily love our children less, sometimes when things come difficult to us we appreciate the gift even more. I know what I'm trying to say, but can't get it out. We all love our children no matter what.
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#1277393 - 11/28/07 12:46 AM Re: King of Pain, 2 [Re: Yoyowife]
LL44 Offline
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Registered: 06/19/07
Posts: 5643
I agree, I am so blessed to have my kids. The one thing during all this mess is that I have grown even more appeciative of them.

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#1277400 - 11/28/07 12:54 AM Re: King of Pain, 2 [Re: Yoyowife]
NoCodeBlues Offline
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Registered: 08/28/07
Posts: 2580
Loc: North Carolina
Yoyo,

My W is so lost in the fog that she has projected her own angst and hurt onto our children, saying she can never live with me again for the harm it brought to our 2 S's. She rationalizes her breakup of our family as being less for her own selfish interests but for the sake of S6 and S3.

No, I don't buy that load of manure.
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Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.

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#1277402 - 11/28/07 12:56 AM Re: King of Pain, 2 [Re: NoCodeBlues]
Yoyowife Offline
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Registered: 03/20/07
Posts: 5666
That is a freight train full of manure!
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