An example of how W shows her irritability with me.
She is an optimist by nature, I am a pessimist according to her. I see myself as a realist. S8 left an item behind in a shop worth £5. W decides to go back to shop. I say it's probably gone by now - realist. She says she has faith in human nature. Of course she goes to shop and finds the item. She wins and I am a pessimist.
Then later we had talked about inviting friends over for Xmas dinner. I say they have probably got plans by now but they might come round for a drink. She says have you asked yet. I say no ' but yesterday I was busy all day' ...she tuts...ill do it.... I say no ' I'll ring them now'
Of course our friends accept our invite and W wins....I am a pessimist.
Later she is quite happy to accept a shoulder and foot massage. Earlier she was happy to do me a favour getting to railway station.
Time to step back a little as I am away until Friday.
Mr Bond/Sandi - any comments on my sitch
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
