Here's a link to my story:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...826#Post2592826

Is it normal to feel like everything is my fault? I feel like I am blaming myself 100% for the affair. I know this might not be the case but I can't help but feel this way. It's really messing with me. I even spoke the words "I'm sorry for putting you in that position".

How can I overcome this feeling of blame? Can anyone relate?