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yeah I know Im 100% irrational and thats cuz my emotions are in control, but Its hard to get back into being more rational when she keeps playing mind games..


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To be fair - this was all brought on by you...


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Originally Posted By: Matt777
To be fair - this was all brought on by you...


what exactly? and how? and what should I start doing different?


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You texted her first. She responded pleasantly and now you're confused.
But there was no need to text her to begin with. You just wanted to establish contact...show that you "care"


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but why does she keep asking unnecessary questions.
she knows im working, when she asked me at the beginning of the week If I was going to pick my d2 up when she knew I couldn't and that was without me initiation contact. like how can I not get confused


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Because her world is CHAOS.
If you encountered the Tasmanian Devil, would you grab on and try to analyze which direction you were being spun?


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And I keep letting her spin me around like nothing.!!


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idk but sometimes I feel paranoid that she is reading all my post.! is it me or u guys get the same feeling once in a while?


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ok she just asked me if Im going to go have dinner at her moms
should I Accept? I already rejected yesterdays invite from my father in law.

Last edited by desp13; 07/18/15 09:01 PM.

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ok so I picked up my daughter this morning to take her to the seaquarium and had an amazing time with my d2, went to drop her off at her mom and she asked me to go with her to buy some food for the sunday bbq that they always do at her parents house so ok I went with her and the first thing she asked when we got inside the car was " soo what new with you"? I didn't know how to answer I just said " nothing everything its good everything the same(in a very optimistic tone) the whole ride I tried to sound happy and grateful about the things that are going on in my life.. (new car, my job) try to keep it plain and not too detailed opposite of what she did, she told me that she is going back to blonde, and she told me pretty much everything that she does during the week. I listened and and didnt comment anything on it try to show no interest, also she wanted to come with me to the gym w/o me inviting her, but she changed her mind. idk if its a progress of anything or its just one of her roller coaster moods.. ohh also while I was with my d2 at the seaquarium she asked me for pictures and how she was behaving I only sent her one picture. I was like u chose not to make part of this anymore so might as well not see how exited my d2 was even in pictures..


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