Well STBX will be transferring the first 25k into my account tomorrow. I have a date tomorrow night with my now healthy again...fire fighter. Lol Looking to book Mexico with SD and my D in July. My son is coming from the UK this Summer and I am going over to see him in Sept! Live is moving folks...full steam ahead.
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
M 53 W 44 D25 D20 S22 PA 10/95 BD abt 2k EA BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05 DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005 XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005 Remarried 12/28/07 BD 12/18/14 Sep living together
I sent my STBX a void cheque so he can transfer the money into my account so fingers crossed! It's funny how truly detached from him I feel now. I don't worry at all about anything I ask, text or write as I am no longer attached or invested in the out come. It's strangley.......freeing.
I had my fourth date tonight with the Fire fighter. It was a bit of a catch up date as we hadn't seen each other in almost three weeks between him being sick and our work schedules. We had no problem keeping the convo going. I do find him attractive but feel the chemistry is a bit low. Partially because it has been so long between our dates and he does take his time. I am not one to rush and had not intended to have any real intimacy but he didn't hold my hand until 15 mins before he left. Lol When he left we hugged and had a quick kiss. I feel like we could have connected a bit more earlier and maybe I would feel more chemistry. He texted when he got home and thanked me for a good night. We shall see I guess after another date. Hopefully not so long a gap! Lol
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
Haha well some guys are just a bit more careful, or more shy. Dont rush it or him. Take your time and enjoy it. See where it goes. Im living vicariously through your dates so keep me informed haha.
Me: 36 Him: 36 DD: 3y DD2: 1.5mo Together: 5y Married: > 3y D: April 1st '15 after 1y of affairs
Oh I'm fine with going slow. I think last night was a get reacquainted night since we hadn't seen each other in almost three weeks. I'm just thinking we need to kiss to see if there is chemistry. Our work shifts are opposite for the next but so it's going to be more challenging planning another date. I will keep you informed though! Hahaha. He did text last night saying it was great to see me and we texted briefly this am. Time will tell the tale...lol
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
