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OMG, I must be having a bad day. I just re-read my last post and realized why this week seems to have gone so quickly. I said about tonight being the school visit - it's not, it's tomorrow smile. I've been sitting here all day thinking it's Wednesday - duh confused

If I didn't ask H if he wanted to come to the school with us, I'd have gotten an earful about not including him when he found out we'd been. At least by telling him and giving him the option, he can't say he wasn't told about it. I'm not about to give him any excuse to moan, whine or complain.

Speaking of "whine", I guess that thinking it's a day later than it really is counts as a good reason to have a nice glass of wine later smile . I've got a bottle chilling in the fridge at home.


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I'm having one at the mo smile A spritzer smile My H doesn't care whether or not he misses an appt, I think he'd rather I didn't ask him. He won't go anywhere with me! I can count the number of time we actually were seen out together, lol.


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OMG, I must be having a bad day. I just re-read my last post and realized why this week seems to have gone so quickly. I said about tonight being the school visit - it's not, it's tomorrow smile. I've been sitting here all day thinking it's Wednesday - duh confused


Haha! I do this a lot, and get so upset when I think it is Friday and it is actually only Thursday!

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Speaking of "whine", I guess that thinking it's a day later than it really is counts as a good reason to have a nice glass of wine later smile . I've got a bottle chilling in the fridge at home.


Yum! I hope you enjoyed it! smile And hope you are having a good week so far. Happy Hump Day!


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I do this a lot as well smile My hump day doesn't count as it's my last day at college for the week on Weds smile It will be soon when I start working the rest of the week which will be fairly soon smile


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School visit went well, except now I feel old - a lot of the teachers look too young to even be out of school. S13's English/History teacher and his Math/Science teacher both explained that they have a system in place where he can excuse himself from class for a while and go to see the guidance counsellor if he starts to feel overwhelmed for any reason. It was good to hear that, and that so far he's only had to use the system twice - both times when the class was working on a project about their families.

S13 still finds it hard to believe that I went to that school when I was his age. Must find my yearbook and show it to him. I'm sure it will turn up when I eventually get to work the decluttering - I'm pretty sure it's in one of the boxes in the bedroom closet.

H is coming over on Sunday as usual to visit S13, and has said he'll spend part of that time sorting out what he's taking and what can go. He's then planning on one or two evenings next week to actually box the stuff up and get it out. All being well, I can start seriously decluttering and re-organizing the weekend after - at least that's my goal smile .


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Well hopefully he'll keep to his word this weekend and then you can get on with your decluttering smile I'm hoping to bag up some more of my H's stuff that he left behind and then get him to go through a bag on Sunday.


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MH & TTD180, just so you two know, my iPhone is playing up - think its the new software update and it's not letting me download the Goodreads app to my phone. I did however google Goodreads and found that they have a website so I've registered that way - I'm Nq63 and I've sent you both friend requests.

Told you I hadn't forgotten smile


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Yeah smile Just added you as a friend smile


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Got it smile. And guess what, my dad isn't as Black Country as I thought if your location on Goodreads is where you're living and it's not classed as Black Country - that's where he was born in, at least according to his birth certificate.


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Me, too.

So, since I was feeling a bit unwell, my chore activity has fallen off a bit - the dishes were piled up, the yard wasn't mowed, the... <sigh> But then a flog of birds and a bunch of mice and stuff came and helped and then a fairy godmother.... oh, wait, that was Cinderella. Sorry. wink


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