I did call my H to give him a courtesy call about the support increase. He flipped out. He has now blocked me from his Facebook and twitter accounts. Why is he so upset with me? I didn't ask for an increase! The domestics office is going after his arrears. I'm not sure what to do now. We were doing so well, and now it's even worse then when he originally left. The only thing I can think to do at this point is go dark. Any other suggestions?
Me: 33 H:33 M: 11 yrs S: 3/8/13 H came home: 3/10/13 S for second time: 3/16/13
I'm seriously depressed over this. My IC says that this will last at least 3-6 months. I'm only 6 weeks in. I need some help on how to detach. I can't get off the emotional roller coaster. This is a consequence of his decision to leave. Why do I have to be the bad person?
Me: 33 H:33 M: 11 yrs S: 3/8/13 H came home: 3/10/13 S for second time: 3/16/13
I am still struggling. If it wouldn't be for my babies, I feel like I'd be doing something stupid. The Ativan doesn't seem to help anymore. Finding out about an EA is torture. The wondering if it will move to a PA is the worst.
Me: 33 H:33 M: 11 yrs S: 3/8/13 H came home: 3/10/13 S for second time: 3/16/13
So today my WAH decided to spend the whole day with us. It was our towns annual festival and he wanted to be there with the kids. I was mostly pleasant but not extremely open. Not sure of that was the proper course to take, but it at least made the day enjoyable for the kids. Just wondering where we'll go from here
Me: 33 H:33 M: 11 yrs S: 3/8/13 H came home: 3/10/13 S for second time: 3/16/13
I'm trying to live my life with no expectations. It's just so hard when you have a great day. However, yesterday I barely heard from my H. Just to ask me a question about his time with the kids this weekend since its Mother's Day. I'm trying to let him come to me. It's taking everything I have to not contact him. I'll see him tonight at soccer practice. Wonder how that will go.
Me: 33 H:33 M: 11 yrs S: 3/8/13 H came home: 3/10/13 S for second time: 3/16/13
My H showed up today to pick up some supplies that I had gotten for our cats. He decided to stay a while and watch some TV with me. I just wonder if he isn't cake eating. He gets to go home and be a single guy but he has his family when he wants us.
Me: 33 H:33 M: 11 yrs S: 3/8/13 H came home: 3/10/13 S for second time: 3/16/13
Today my H claims that he's filing for divorce because he found out that I have contacted a lawyer to make sure I'm protected if he filed for divorce. Claimed he can't trust me. I'm so hurt. What do I do now?
Me: 33 H:33 M: 11 yrs S: 3/8/13 H came home: 3/10/13 S for second time: 3/16/13
