WAW is listen to her depressed younger so called friends. She says I can't give you a second chance cause I can't go backwards in life? WTF 17 years of being by your side being faithful not perfect but seriously not a second chance? A persons true character shows when they walk out the door and leave the other one hanging in life. She might as well just spit in my face. She has a attorney draw up a dissolution that is so freaking one sided it laughable. She makes twice the amount as I but everything we own is due to my credit which is fuc'd now since she left. I have took a hard look in the mirror and have changed for the better which WAW can see but says sorry I can't go backwards in life? Backwards is doing what your doing now IMO. Glad your so called friends or whom ever can BS in to thinking im worthless. How do you handle this? I've GAL still not working. I refuse to use others to get her back. I know I could have just about any woman I want. What should I do?
Give her the impression you don't care... let her go... something in her enviroment caused her to walk away... that has to change first... and you have no control over that...
Me: 37 W:33 S: 2 M: 9/5/09 Suspected: 1/7/12 Confirmed: 2/10/12 Served: 3/29/12 W moved out 3/30/12 First court 5/17/12 HELP!
It's hard to believe nothing of what they say when it's staring you in the face in writing. Even when is so one sided it's full of [censored]. Who in their right mind would let the WAS walk away free and clear while the LBS gets fuc'd to the 10th degree? I'm talking house, credit, insurance, family, and so forth. If they want to walk away shouldn't a lesson be taught saying if you want out it comes at a price?
It's perfectly appropriate to protect your rights and ask for what's fair. IMO, asking for an exit price for the D would just be punitive and destructive.
If there was justice in this world all they would get is their clothes... unfortunately not the case... be strong, get legal advice fast, be prepared, don't get steam rolled.... in the end you will earn respect for that, if not love...
Me: 37 W:33 S: 2 M: 9/5/09 Suspected: 1/7/12 Confirmed: 2/10/12 Served: 3/29/12 W moved out 3/30/12 First court 5/17/12 HELP!
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
