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[AliSuddenly]

Hi Mish.. I tried to catch up but I missed so much !! The long and short of it.. you and Gabe are still together ?? Wow ! Thats an achievement. Anyway...

I like this list !! I did the same.. because we have a baby so doing things we want to do is doubly hard. I made a list for the fridge..
So far I've managed to achieve/arrange most of them! Working on that few days away from Daisy for me and H time
Is it expensive to go on a cruise from GA??

[mishka422]

Not horribly expensive. We go from Florida, any port, it doesn't really matter but we prefer the 'driveable ports' like Port Canaveral, Tampa or Jacksonville. 7 days with taxes but excluding shore excursions for 3 people runs about $2000 for a balcony cabin. Not bad!

Now actually saving that plus all the spending money required....that is the challenge. I don't have 2 nickels to rub together most months.

Yes, we're still together. It's working, mostly, for now. We don't talk about anything having to do with our R.

[whatisis]

Yes, we're still together. It's working, mostly, for now. We don't talk about anything having to do with our R.

Guys see that as having the perfect relationship! I know, I know...but I just couldn't resist

[mishka422]

Exactly Wii. Most do. As long as it's not talked about then it must be perfect, right?

[mishka422]

Of course, they don't want to talk about to find out what could be adjusted or to give feedback before they walk out on you so.........it's a vicious game of cat and mouse.

[SunFunOne]

So - are YOU content with that? If so - then it's all just peachy. If not - then you will never be at peace.

Barb

[JCJ]

Hypothetically, if you were to have a conversation with Gabe, what would you say?

[kat727]

Mish if you going without talking even a bit, I could imagine you becoming a walk away significant other. Does Gabe realize how unhappy you are that this relationship doesn't have a name?

Come on Mish, quit stalling!

kat

[mishka422]

Just too scared guys.

[kat727]

What is there to be scared of? Him leaving? He has done that. He was the one that couldn't hack it without you. He didn't have to come back. He could have moved back to CA. He didn't though.

We teach people how to treat us. Man if I could whip that guy that did this to you... He was not the normal person, he was a predator. You didn't ask for the rape. Now is the time to let all of that stop controlling you. You are letting that scum win by not speaking up.

Take back your life. This is your time to let all of that baggage go. I am here for you.

Kat