As for me, I took a lil break from the bb to get my head together, and work on the life that I have. I took a lot of pic over the weekend of the blizzard. I also did alot of pushing of other peoples stuck cars...
Ok, back to the sitch. When we were married, we hired a photographer that was getting back into the busniess. He screwed up most of our pics. Some came out real well. Needless to say, he never fullfilled the contract. All he has ever shown us is the proofs. Some of the pics that he took were of my stepdads (I will call him pops) mom who is now deceased. Since my parents did pay for our photos, and they were talking about the pics this weekend (I over heard the convo) I guess I will need to call my w and ask her for the potographers phone number. The funny thing is, she was talking about getting the pics back in Dec. I guess we will see what happens.
I have not decided when I am going to make the phone call. I might do it tonight...
Well kids, off to work I go... Them 3 day weekends are killer...
After 2 weeks, patiance, no contact, and some dumb luck on my part, I finally have heard something...
Im am silently celebrating here!!!
Ok, here is what happened. I am notroious for forwarding emails... I try to keep it under 3 a day. This morning I acidently on purpose sent included my w today. It was a cute one with pics of puppies and kitties.
Well, she responded to the email. She said "I liked the kittens. Take Care B"
WOOOOOO HOOOOOOOO....
The silence has been broken and she still is thinking bout me.
Back to going slow and steady!!!!!
PMA is at a level 8... I am thrilled right now...
This makes up for all of the tortrue I have been going through since dinner...
Good for you, Will What's your plan now - give her a little more time, then maybe a friendly phone call about the photographer, then maybe extend some kind of invitation?
Dance away Will! You deserve the celebration. You deserve to feel wonderful.
I don't want to put a damper on things, but before you speak to her; a word of caution. As quickly as W can send you to the ceiling with a click of her mouse, she can send you spiraling downward. My advice to you is to set your expectations low. I have tons of hope my H will come back, but no expectations of him day to day. Don't get on the roller coaster. Stay on steady ground, climing slowly uphill.
Thanks for visiting my thread. You are wise to enjoy the fruits of your labors, but to keep focused and move on to another days work. I guess I should move over here now too since I am D now, but I kind of like the old thread so I might wait awhile.
