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#2137106 03/04/11 07:26 AM
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Update....

W and I exchanged texts all day. My flight to Buffalo was at 4 p.m.

I'm not going to detail the conversation .. it was light and there was joking around about some problems that I had with my luggage...

I have never liked flying. Anyway, I always used to call or text my W to let her know that I love her before my plane took off. Today this is the text exchange with my W that I had right before my plane took off:

Me: "Getting ready to take off.... Hey, in case my plane goes down, I just want you to know that I ..." [text sent]

[wait sixty seconds to send rest of message]

Me: "Think that you're sexy as hell!!! shocked "

[wait another sixty seconds to send 3rd text]

Me: "And that I love you and SS very much..."

W: "U will be fine... me too" (yay for me smile )

Me: "I know."

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arrived in Buffalo at 11 p.m. W and MIL picked me up. We drove to W's late grandmother's home which family still owns. They got my sleeping arrangements settled. W is sleeping on the couch and I am sleeping on a blow up bed in one of the bedrooms.

After everyone went to bed, W and I hung out for about 90 minutes. We sat outside (and damn cold in Buffalo btw) while she smoked. We talked about her memories of Buffalo as a child. She spend a few summers here.

We went inside. W said her back was hurting. I offered to massage it for her. We sat on the couch. I massaged her back and legs for about 45 minutes. She eventually fell asleep. I covered her up, kissed her on the forehead, told her goodnight and went to my room.

Now I'm here! smile

So far so good!

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M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce
Denver_2010 #2137108 03/04/11 09:29 AM
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Awesome!


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Resilient #2137113 03/04/11 11:11 AM
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Bravo!


I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?
Busting Mode #2137126 03/04/11 01:28 PM
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nice start to what i hope is a great and productive few days for you both

keep it up denver

we are all proud


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grr #2137132 03/04/11 01:59 PM
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Outstanding Denver, keep posting, but only so long as it doesn't detract from the progress you are making.


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Ditto on everyone's responses!


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T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
zengypsy #2137168 03/04/11 04:04 PM
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Denver,

You have been the one that keeps me motivated that this will work for me also. I really appreciate it. Keep up the hard work!


Togther 10 yrs Married 2/6/2009
Me-29 W-26
S-5 S-2
Bomb 12/10
Separated 1/11
D filed 2/11
downandoutintn #2137174 03/04/11 04:30 PM
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Great start, Denver!


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
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sparks14 #2137193 03/04/11 07:53 PM
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This trip will be huge for you.

Keep the progress going.


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Wow, so great to read all your progress! I knew you'd get here. smile


Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11
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