25 Years Gone...?

[tadpole1025]

Well Jack, I guess I could:

Rearrange the living room furniture
Have her sit in another room
Don't sit in there with her (act as if and do my own thing)
Am I atleast on the right track?

On another note, W is seeing changes in me but I'm afraid they are changes that she doesn't like. (Although, I don't know why)Ever since this mess started, I've become much closer to my kids, especially my S18.

W made a comment to my SIL the other day that I was trying to become my S18's best friend. She made it sound like a negative thing. Why is that a bad thing? See what I mean? I'm beginning to think that I don't have a chance. Any thoughts?

[Matt-14]

I would invite her in....and be cordial and friendly...like none of this bothers you. Be happy.......be attractive.

At least until she leaves

[Mach1]

I'm beginning to think that I don't have a chance. Any thoughts?

You only "don't have a chance" , if you think you don't have a chance....

If you had a one in a million chance in this...

Would you still take it ?

Would you strive everyday to be the "one" ?







What up Matt ?

[tadpole1025]

I guess I just have to believe. To answer the question: Hell yes I would take it. She means the world to me.

[Matt-14]

Hey Mach ....whats happening?

Not much here...I still check in though from time to time. I can't seem to get any free time between work, the kids and Black Op's.

Matt

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Then be the 1.

If you wear your heart on your sleeve, she'll notice that.
If you're sad, hurt, upset, she'll notice that.

Tad, right now you think DB is all about the spouse, and it is not.

It's about you.

[Mach1]

Black Op's.

Haven't hit that addiction yet....yet

Still killing zombies though.: )







Tad....

Faith

Faith that you will be the one, out of that million...

[Grace_O]

Tad,

Believing is good, the actions we take that allow us to keep believing are better.

HUGS

[tadpole1025]

Thanks everyone. I'll keep you updated.

[tadpole1025]

Is she peeking out of the tunnel?

She just called and wants to take all of our sons out dinner.

When I tried to hang up, she said "what's the rush? I wasn't done."

We talked for about 30 more seconds and finally hung up.

Is this good DBing on my part?

She also made a comment on one of our mutual friends' FB page. She hasn't done that in months. Should I take that as anything?