Yikes! Maybe both of them should start Dbing before it's too late.
As for you.....you go girl!
Yeah I know, it is hard knowing what I know and all I have learned (reading WAYYY too many relationship books the past 3 years!) to just watch them go through the motions in their marriages.
Glad that didn't come off as slutty or something, Kimmmie. I just can't identify with having a low drive. Quality time and physical touch are high on my list. It doesn't have to be sex, I like holding hands, walking arm in arm, things like that, too.
That's one thing I noticed right away with GG. When we met up at the party last April, he would go get a drink and bring me one too, and when he walked up as I was talking to other people he would come stand beside me and rub my arm, or touch the small of my back. Hard to explain, little simple touches, but made it feel like there was a connection. I like that.
Oh, and on to the good news! I lost two more pounds this week for a total of eight! I have to admit, I did not eat all 5 meals every day, yesterday and today I didn't feel great and didn't eat much. Well, it turns out that of the two pounds I lost, one was actually lean mass according to my caliper measurements... Trainer said that if you do not eat enough, and up your activity level (I exercised four times this week), your body basically feeds on itself, and it sucked away some lean mass.
So lesson learned, I need to eat ALL of the food! Still counterintuitive, to eat more to weigh less, but hey DBing is counterintuitive too...
I had replied with a few suggestions for dining, he replied back 3 hrs later and actually apologized for not replying sooner. Then we traded a couple texts and he just texted me "Sweet dreams, can't wait to see you Saturday. "
So nice to talk to someone who is not guessing my bra size or offering to show me pics of his junk!
