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Hhhmmm....

Maybe you should call him if you think it possibly could be an emergency.
Where are your boys right now?

BUT

On the other hand, if you were to call him and it turned out to be more spew you are going to be kicking yourself.

You could just call to set your mind at ease, and if it turns out to be spew, cut it off immediately.

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My boys are with my Mom so it can't be that kind of emergency...

He probably wants me to relent and allow the oldest over and by getting on the phone he will throw me a bone or two and think all is ok (because I don't have a backbone where he is concerned.) crazy

If I do call (which I haven't decided to do or not to do yet) and he does spew, I have a hang up button. wink


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I think that's giving him too much credit. Was he there when you had the legal trouble with your son? (oh yeah that will look good in court)

He wants to talk now because he's not getting his way. Amazing what setting boundaries can do. He knows what he needs to do to see the boys, it his choice. It's all about behavior.


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I'd go with what Coach said! wink

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I love you guys...

I feel so empowered today...

Coach if you were here I would hug you so tightly (with permission from Greek) smile


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I've been out of commission for the past couple of days, dealing with the worst flu I've had in ages. So I'm trying to catch up.

(((Serenity))) and I hope that you can get things worked out.


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((((Trent))))

I hope you feel better and I am glad to see you back online...

I am doing wonderfully today wink


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(((MJ)))

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Amen my friend.

((((Rocked))))

You are wonderful as well my friend - Thank you for your kind words.

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Coach ~

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Was he there when you had the legal trouble with your son? (oh yeah that will look good in court)


No he wasn't...

He sent me a text that morning telling me to let him know how things went -

Though he was off work he still couldn't be bothered to show up.


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I like because it reminds me of one of my favorite comics:

http://www.vachss.com/mission/behavior.html


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