Where to start if S comes around?

[Work2do]

How do you begin again?

--Resolve old issues
--Not look at the past? And only to the future?
--Have your wants and needs ready?
--Know your love language and have a good idea of S? Do this
in more details.

I only ask this because if things turn on dime they can come back but maybe not that fast as there has to be a talk of boundaries, expectations, wants/needs etc.

Just looking for some insight. I'm still in a neutral mode with very friendly contact in via text (mostly), phone (some), in person 3 visits in 5 months. Distance is making this a challenge but may be helping also as I've had a lot time to read a good many books besides DB and coaching sessions (4 total so far 2 more too go).

Thanks in advance.