Thanks No Code, Well I put my wedding ring back on today. First time since Feb. I am letting comments from wife bounce off of me. I am sure I am taking them the wrong way. They probably mean nothing but In my mind I turn them all around. I am leaving work early tomarrow. I also went on got the 68 mustang out of "storage" and am going to drive it in to work. It is going to happen. I can't beleave it. there is no stopping now. I will log on Friday but then go dark. I am not going to bring my lap top, I want to devote all my time to fixing this mess. a year ago I was making "snales" for her to eat,I gave her a annaversery gift that I spent weeks choising just to get a thank you back. I have come a long way baby............ well I am going to take a dip with son in the pool so see ya all later.
Oh Yea I have an "informational" interveiw tomarow for a job that could lead to more money. alot more money.
bye
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Just wanted you to know I am thinking about you and will be doing so all weekend. If the ONLY thing you come away from the weekend with is better communication skills with one another then that is still a HUGE achievemnet ; I think you will come away with more though.
Be strong.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
I am not going to bring my lap top, I want to devote all my time to fixing this mess.
Haha!! You'll find there is NO time for anything other than focusing on the weekend. They really keep you busy from the time you get there til the time you leave.
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Oh Yea I have an "informational" interveiw tomarow for a job that could lead to more money. alot more money.
bye
Good luck with both the weekend and the interview.
Good luck on both fronts, H! Here's to new beginnings.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Good luck this weekend H! My thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Luv
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
Update......... Strange, Wife is really quiet, keeping really busy. It feels like we are preparing to go somewhere that we know we need to go but don't want to. You know that relative that really bugs ya but invited you over for his B-day. You know you have to go to be nice but you really would rather not. I wish I had a back bone. I wish sometimes I could be a real a$$. I am so pitiful I feel like if somebody stabbed me I would apologies for getting my blood on them...
Here is what I am leading up to. I started feeling sorry for W. She has not had you people to talk to. She has no idea what we are in for this week end. I do think she knows what she did was wrong. She must think that somehow it is going to come up this weekend in front of people. Now I know this is not true but she does not. She has to be nerves. She has to be a little scared of what people will say or think. She is not in total Fog anymore. Maybe a little but she has not been acting like she has done nothing wrong. I am trying not to feel sorry for her. I am trying (for lack of better words) Enjoy this. Enjoy her finally feeling some of the feelings I have felt this last year. I guess its 1 last 180 for me. To not always try to make things "better" at my expense. I will tell you what. I am not her and I have never cheated. (Thought of it.) Maybe even fantasized a little but never cheated) If I were in her shoes right now I would be thinking to my self. What the hell was I thinking? That little time of pleasure is not worth the stress I am going through now. It's time to pay up...
Waiter bring me my tag....
Later H
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
It's OK for you to feel some sympathy for her, Dr. Love. You're a good guy, with a good heart. I can tell you're a bundle of nerves right now. I think this experience will be really beneficial. Can't wait to hear how it goes.
Will be thinking of you!
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
