I was trying to find my first posts but don't seem to be able to...
anyways...Just wanted to update a MAJOR thing that happened...
Our 27th anniversary was 3-1....and my H picked that day to say "I love you"...I haven't heard those three little/big words in almost 3 years...but finally he feels safe with me and says that he is going to trust me with his heart and feelings again...this MLC highway was one of the bumpiest, twistiest, topsty-turviest roads I have ever driven...but I feel that I am about to really complete this portion of the journey and get back to the real marriage...the new one for us.....
Thanks to all who were with me on my/his journey...and now it is my turn to give back to others...new ones like I was...let them know that there can be a light at the end of the tunnel...hopefully more will find it....DB WORKS!
I am soo glad that you are still here. YOu do give us hope and inspiration. I am in a tough spot and would like some more advice. My thread is holding on to whatever I can, in infidelity.
Just reading your thoughts brings me to a relaxed state of mind.
P.S. HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Last edited by jamespb75; 03/04/0706:57 PM.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
It was a wet, gray day. I remember having to decide what kind of car to be driven around in that day. It was all small cars, and big cars were gas guzzzlers, and no one had them. I can't remember what we did........ I do remember the emotions that TJ showed me that day. It was a good day, wasn't it? Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
I did get a text message, actually 3. "Thinking about you today." It was unexpected. I guess OW bandaid is not working very well anymore?
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
lol...Well it rained I swear for a month before my wedding...a week before the wedding the roads had gotten washed out to the sight where we were going to have our ceremony and reception...we were able to get our deposit back and had to schedule our wedding at our religious hall...and the reception at my parents home...and call all the guests to let them know!
Imlin, I really need some help from someone who has been there, and most of all someone who has done it. Please help me. I am lost. I'm in infedelity and whatever i can hold on to
Last edited by jamespb75; 03/07/0705:55 PM.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
Congratulations!!!! I'm soooo happy for you. I wish this next half of your marriage a smoother, comfortable road, good memories and a loving friendship and partnership of growing old together.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
