You need to speak to at least one other lawyer. From what I've read, you're entitled to alimony, child support, etc. Do not think for one second that if the situation were reversed, your W wouldn't go after it.
You may want to get this over with as quickly as possible. But the decisions you're making right now are going to affect you and your kids for the rest of your life. No offense, but you've got much bigger things to worry about than your cat.
we dont have any children together. ive actually talked to 3 different lawyers and they have said about the same thing.
Ok, I misread your opening post.
I can't believe you're not entitled to alimony. What does she do for a living? I know the family courts are extremely biased against men, but still.
