I just read your thread. I think you are doing well, and good job not drinking.
This is a great place for support. I was around your age when my sitch went down. That was about 15 years ago. It triggered my continuous focus on my personal growth.
My 2 cents:
1) Everything that works is counter intuitive. Everyone has a difference definition of "What works". Saving yourself, saving the marriage, making positive changes to your behavior....
2) Focus on your personal growth. I was enhailing 2-3 books a week. Always making positive change to my behavior.
3) Learn about and understand the differences between seduction and attraction. Make positve changes to the way you interact with all women (as well as men), and especially your W. Again, this is counter intuitve because we have lots of subconsious behaviors that may not be the best way to be.
4) Read the quotes threads I have created. Lots of collective wisdom.
