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I am really trying to not let it bother me and rather almost find humor in t. i really don't think it is funny but if I laugh i don't cry. Yes the eggshells have been for a long time even before bd. I know I need to start being stronger. i was just worn down already when he bd'ed so it was a ride for the last year as well. but at least i can say my kids are happy for know so I am trying to just give it some time. but if he leaves again i do not believe i will be waiting around any longer. that is where my head is for now anyway.
You can't imagine the strength that comes from being strong first, and allowing the chips to fall where they may...
And if you aren't strong for you, then you can't be there and be strong for anyone else.
Kind of like the oxygen mask on a plane.
You are told to put yours on first, before you help others...
I see that in your posts too...
You are very focused on what HE is thinking, doing, acting....
