I agree ^^^

And another reason why I asked you those questions the other day....

Now is NOT the time to be weak about your convictions with yourself...

Boundaries are essential...



I would also say that walking on eggshells doesn't play into what is best for you either...



From my perspective...

It seems that you are walking a razors edge line between being the person that you want to be, and the person that is willing to allow him to come home and pretend that nothing ever happened...


One of those things keeps you stuck in limbo...

The other will allow you to live your life, and be okay whatever way this works out...




Be the lighthouse in the storm rather than the rowboat...it's a much smoother ride