Ok, I have another thread about my DB progress. But there is something that’s starting to gnaw at me. I’d like to know what to do in this instance.
I just got off the phone with W and it seems she spent the weekend at the house...alone. No visit to OM. That being said, I’m wondering if OM came over. Only thing I can think of that can lend credence to this is that W asked me to help get the house cleaned from top to bottom, which I helped do. She then took all of the stuff that would cause messiness, and put them into my room and closed the door. Based on past history, she usually does this when we have guests over. A few times, she just wanted the house clean, which I get.
So...crazy thought...should I ask her if she had “guests “ over? Or keep my mouth shut and play dumb?
I havent read up on your sitch, but dont expect her to tell you the truth. Expect lies, more lies, and when they run out of lies, expect them to lie some more. If you ever have proof they are lying, expect them to become extremely defensive and turn it around on you.
So i would guess keep mouth shut would be the best option??
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof
