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Jump to new posts Re: My story so far by Cristy @ Yesterday at 10:14 AM

Hello Chrisz, Are you still with us? It has been a while since your most recent post and I wanted to check in with you. Based on what you mentioned most recently, it appears that your wife is temperature checking you to make sure you are still avai
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Jump to new posts Re: What Should I be Doing (no direction 8) by Coconut @ Yesterday at 10:11 AM

Originally Posted By: CoconutDDJ, glad to hear that your doing well, sorry to hear that in order for things to work out you had to D. I guess the best case scenario would be for a M to work out, for forgiveness to take place and for the MR to thrive
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 2) by ForGump @ Yesterday at 10:07 AM

Man, look on the bright side. She slept in the same bed with you. She kissed you on the cheek. And you have some meaningless sex to look forward to once a week. That's hell of a lot more than what others have going on in their broken marriages. (But
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Jump to new posts Re: Keeps getting worse, 180 not working by doodler @ Yesterday at 10:06 AM

Buxom, You should go to your favorite nursery and buy a large pot or a half of a wooden barrel and get a bunch of beautiful flowering plants and plant them in the pot/barrel. Rinse and repeat as necessary. Soon it'll become an addiction and then y
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Jump to new posts Re: 14 days of sheer hell - to get to heaven by Coconut @ Yesterday at 10:05 AM

DDJ, glad to hear that your doing well, sorry to hear that in order for things to work out you had to D. I guess the best case scenario would be for a M to work out, for forgiveness to take place and for the MR to thrive going forward. Not always p
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: STBX behaviors during divorce by sandi2 @ Yesterday at 10:05 AM

Quote:In 2010 we separated for a year and she had two affairs. The first happened after a month of me moving out. She continued to flirt online and like men to give her attention. Remember this ^^^^^^? I don't think it's all about your porn addict
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: My wife walked out 4 by RSG @ Yesterday at 10:03 AM

Thanks. At least it's nice to know I'm not the only one who doesn't understand wtf they're doing! I don't see her often, but when I do see WW w/S now I see the woman I know and it makes me happy inside. I don't see the one who neglected him for 6+ mo
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: What Should I be Doing (no direction 8) by Zephyr @ Yesterday at 10:01 AM

Nuts, there are many stories in this forum where alleged slights against a wayward were enough to get orders against these women's husbands. I am not qualifying allegations here, just saying it comes down to one persons word against the other. now,
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: New here and separated by ForGump @ Yesterday at 10:01 AM

Originally Posted By: Coly23I feel physically sick.... I'm sorry you're here. I have felt -- do continue to feel -- physically sick myself quite often.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 2) by darknes @ Yesterday at 10:00 AM

Originally Posted By: JRuss(ii) days go by, without much of anything happening, and, mentally, I check off another day gone as we apparently move closer to the day we split. JRuss - I have bad news for you. At some point in your life, you are goi
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 2) by JRuss @ Yesterday at 09:54 AM

Just an update, not so much because anything happened of any import, but more to show how little to nothing seems to happen, and to share how that makes me feel (shameless bid for support). W had to work late last night and came home exhausted. I h
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Jump to new posts Re: Did Not See It - But Should Have by RDS @ Yesterday at 09:53 AM

Thanks guys, I appreciate it. And darknes, rest assured I am not getting any hopes of getting back together because of this. I am worried about. I've seen her in pain before, and sometimes it's intense, but nothing like I heard in her voice today.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 2) by ForGump @ Yesterday at 09:46 AM

JRuss... I have to say... a wife who says is no longer attracted to you and wants to leave but then is willing to stay for 1-2 years while having sex... that sounds like someone who is still trying to sort out all her feelings in her head/heart. It's
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Did Not See It - But Should Have by darknes @ Yesterday at 09:38 AM

Agree with the above. This isnt about a ploy to win her back. in times of health issues, I think you do as a good person would do. It isnt about your R with her, it's about doing well you can to help an injured human. That said, try not to get you
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Jump to new posts Re: Did Not See It - But Should Have by Stormchaser @ Yesterday at 09:32 AM

You're doing great, RDS. You're taking care of your W - this is something she really needs at this time. I wouldn't even worry about DBing at this stage. I'm in the middle of piecing myself. My wife had such a nasty sinus infection, she was literal
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Please Help Me! by BishopB @ Yesterday at 09:28 AM

Originally Posted By: CadetFor now get to step one. Detach. Just be aware that there are more steps ahead. Working on that now. Thanks Cadet.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Did Not See It - But Should Have by doodler @ Yesterday at 09:17 AM

RDS, In my opinion you did just fine. I hope your wife starts feeling better.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Offering Prayer by collin @ Yesterday at 09:12 AM

Quote: I truly think it's because she wants to blame me for everything and if we actually get into them with the Dr - she will have to face the fact that she is to blame too. I believe you just hit the nail on the head.
Surviving the Big D
Jump to new posts Re: Are we there yet? by Underdog @ Yesterday at 09:11 AM

Hey Ginger, I second what Barb said. Well, said, Barb!!! Back when I got a diagnosis on D19, let me tell you it was one of the lowest points of my life. Even though I knew she was different, I held out hope that she was delayed and that she'd catch
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Jump to new posts Re: The start of something... new (again) by DDJ @ Yesterday at 09:11 AM

Hey Betterm, I appreciate your appreciation. I just got off a call with a friend that was with me during this journey since Feb and i told her that i'm in the best place that I have ever been in my entire life. She says, I finally believe you - and
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: What Should I be Doing (no direction 8) by darknes @ Yesterday at 09:07 AM

Originally Posted By: CoconutAs for a restraining order, I'm not that knowledgeable on the subject, but I would imagine my behavior would have to be pretty extreme for that to happen, and I wouldn't need to be extreme to make a scene, just make comme
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Jump to new posts Re: Please Help Me! by darknes @ Yesterday at 09:03 AM

Originally Posted By: BishopBI'm going to try not to from now on. I think with goals like this, you will be setting yourself up for failure. Just say "Im not going to do it anymore". Then dont.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: WHs do come back--Piecing--acceptance & time by Rose888 @ Yesterday at 09:01 AM

Originally Posted By: LiMOriginally Posted By: BluWave C-nuts threads have helped me think about where I have gone wrong. I too am impatient, react on emotions, and feel this strong need to make a decision and take action in some direction. I think i
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Nobody Can Drag Me Down by Georgiabelle @ Yesterday at 09:00 AM

Hi Everyone, Had a mini vacation with the best friend last week. We had a blast at the beach. Weather was gorgeous. Water was spectacular. Sand was divine. Food and drinks delish. We had an epic playlist of songs. Coming back gave me a case of the s
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Jump to new posts Re: The start of something... new (again) by betterm @ Yesterday at 08:59 AM

Originally Posted By: DDJI love your post betterm - yes, life is much more than a cheating, lying, no good STBXWW. yeah, you came in at a weird time for me, I was couped up all weekend with a leg injury, bored, stir-crazy, and lured myself into confu
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