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I've had a similar conversation. The way I look at it is that yes there were long standing issues but the OM is her running away from them. If there wasn't OM I think my W would be more willing to work at it. The attention OM has given her has woken
I am right at the 2 year mark. I still get a little twitch of pain, almost every day. Sometimes, I have it really bad. It is just so difficult to let go of history, the memories, the reminders. I think it's normal to feel sadness from lost connection
She insisted that her leaving is independent of the OM, putting all the blame for the affair on me, quoting the old saying: nothing happens without reason. The given reasons: 1.I have changed in the last two years became aggressive, arrogant, lacked
Also Edz - try not to be hard on yourself for finding it so hard....it's one of the hardest things to go through. But keep recognising what helps and do more of it. Keep reading & you'll find more ideas to try and move forwards some more. Sounds
Ok so, i want to get some opinions on this. The following morning after our IC convo, i withdrew from her. I was gonna leave the house without saying goodbye. But then she said by and i responded. Later that morning, text convo went like this: Me-I'
I meant more where did your marriage make you unhappy. What would your W need to change. I find it makes it slightly easier to detach and stop punishing myself. Probably not good advice but it has helped me a bit. When I felt positive it was because
Originally Posted By: dgb60Tears = healing. I've invested in waterproof mascara because I tend to break down when I'm driving, which I do a lot of for my job. I HATE waterproof mascara because it's hard to take off. You aren't alone. We're all in
Thanks, OD. I'm at work now. I have a lot to do this morning, then a 6 hour drive this afternoon. It's parents weekend at my S18's college so I'm going up today through Sunday. Even as I was crying this morning, I recognized the pain as feeling
Back at home. I've had to take a day off to look after the kids while WAW is away for another long weekend, this time at a party in Spain. We're going out in a while to race Scalextrix cars round models of real racing circuits which should be a lot o
Tears = healing. I've invested in waterproof mascara because I tend to break down when I'm driving, which I do a lot of for my job. I HATE waterproof mascara because it's hard to take off. You aren't alone. We're all in this TOGETHER.
I certainly did. No we are not intimate. Her sitting on my lap the other day was the closest we have been in physical contact for months. It hurt like hell. No dates, no quality time spent together at all really. She left when I got home last nig
I also have the uncontrollable sobbing episodes that randomly happen and I also would give anything for someone to hold me tightly and say everything will be ok. I have often told people that you have no idea how this feel unless you have gone throu
Yes I take it out on the water in the swimming pool. Helps to exhaust me so I at least sleep. Different in my marriage, I tried that at the begining when I first started counselling. I can see what could have been different, indeed I can see what ha
My wife and I have been married for over 16 years we are 35 years old. So we got married at 19. We have a 14 year old daughter. Everything was great until a few months ago, but even then I thought we just hit a rough patch and will bounce back sho
Thank you mr bond I will start my own thread soon as I don't want to hijack another's thread. Am in the think like a beginner phase so that some threads like this one are fresh and appealing. The thoughts are clearly adding to DR for me. Will start
I have a FB but we're not FB friends. I noticed he signed up for FB soon after he moved out (that's the extent of my snooping; I can see he updated his photo). I'm FB friends with his sister and so I have been posting the occasional message reflecti
Its alright I'm having a bad couple of days but then I had some really good ones at the start of the week. The important thing is that you focus on what is good. Or if that doesn't work how about answering the question of what would you have wanted
Actually no. No one said you had to be friends with her. It would be good if you could be friendly though. Right now you're incapable of that. And let's be honest. You had a lot of issues before you were even married. You take a lot of your frustrati
Originally Posted By: tadpole1025Well, it came up because we were at a function together the other night and neither one of us said hello. I was fine with that. But....she told S28 that I "ignored" her all night. I was just wondering what t