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Jump to new posts Train, are You OK?? by Starsky309 @ Yesterday at 03:38 PM

Train, I was going to bump your other thread and see how you were doing, but I see it's locked. Please give us an update when you can; I'm concerned about you! thanks, Starsky
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: my chance = HIS chance by Smurf_SMR @ Yesterday at 03:38 PM

Well silly me for interpreting wrong As I said in my 2nd post >>>>> your threads are full of people offering advice, just to be rebuked. I don't intend to be another.
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: How HER crisis changed ME by MrBond @ Yesterday at 03:36 PM

Let's be honest here. BOTH of you contributed to the downfall of your M. While you are not responsible for her A, you had a hand in it's demise. No one said that you had to be friends with her. But you will ALWAYS be bound to her because of your chi
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Jump to new posts Is this normal? by elltee2 @ Yesterday at 03:35 PM

My wife and I were married in February of 2014. We wanted all of the same things in life; kids, a house, dogs and agreed that divorce simply wasn't an option. She was very steadfast in her belief that married couples need to work their problems out
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Jump to new posts Re: Blindsided but finding my way (6) by rppfl @ Yesterday at 03:27 PM

I just had a fascinating e-mail conversation with H about revisionist history and three being a crowd. It was an entirely kid-related conversation, I just found it totally ironic. And I'm sure he doesn't see it at all.
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Jump to new posts Re: Shall hate be fairer lodged than gentle love? by Jefe @ Yesterday at 03:26 PM

Call Chris B over at CRDN. He'll take care of you. Based on your description, I know exactly who the office was that assisted you. Sorry about that. If we had taken care of you 7 years ago, it would have been smooth sailing.
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Jump to new posts Re: Am I on the right track? (2) by Cristy @ Yesterday at 03:26 PM

Hello, You are on moderation due to a violation in the forum agreement. In a different thread a specific seminar/program was mentioned. Per forum agreement, please do not mention other seminars, programs, authors or books. I'm glad that you are fin
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Jump to new posts Re: my chance = HIS chance by makingmagic @ Yesterday at 03:26 PM

Houston (smurf)... we have a problem. I am not trying to make you wrong. Your reply would be accurate if you had the story straight. Starsky... am I supposed to not set the story straight? The corrected version would be speaking the truth &
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Jump to new posts Re: Maybell XVI by rppfl @ Yesterday at 03:25 PM

Originally Posted By: MaybellWhen H told the kids he was moving out, he left the door open for coming home. So at the moment everything is "for now." If we divorce, I won't stay in this house, I'll move into one that is much more manageable
Piecing Our Marriage Back Together Again
Jump to new posts Re: Rebuilding 1 step at a time by 123Gwen @ Yesterday at 03:19 PM

Praying for you Heart14. Sound like you have both made some great strides and are working hard. Thanks for sharing.
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Jump to new posts Re: my chance = HIS chance by Smurf_SMR @ Yesterday at 03:16 PM

I am sorry, I truly do not understand >>>>He also asked if I would pick him up (his convenience) and then go pick up another vehicle out of town... this would require that I drop all that I am doing. 180. "no sorry.. I am deep in ot
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Jump to new posts Re: Intro and Thoughts by 123Gwen @ Yesterday at 03:15 PM

You said you want to help her because she is not the best planner. I think helping her move out is a mistake. Talk to your coach but separating is a huge step and it might possibly lead to more problems. Do you think this is more of a MLC or strictl
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Jump to new posts Re: Trying to stay patient- part 6 by shodan @ Yesterday at 03:13 PM

Tar It does appear that she needs time and space to think and process everything. As much as it would hurt, she may need to go through a D and find herself again before she could come back to you. Or perhaps just staying separated from each other an
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Jump to new posts Re: Fresh separation - trying to play by the book by Mozza @ Yesterday at 03:13 PM

I'm in a good place this morning. After reading the amazing list of GAL activities from 25yearsmlc, I decided to start my own. I just have a few ideas and I'd rather have acted on them before sharing them. Also, after repeating to everyone here th
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: my chance = HIS chance by Starsky309 @ Yesterday at 03:12 PM

Originally Posted By: makingmagic I am sorry, if many of you feel that the questions I ask are the same over & over. I see it differently. Of course you do. That's a key part of the issues you have, and what you need a good IC to help y
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Jump to new posts Re: Depressed WAW 4 by Card29 @ Yesterday at 03:11 PM

Originally Posted By: AhoyDon't respond! She's not worth your energy or attention. She's just trying to absolve her own poor choices by saying that to you. My H did the same thing. Just know that you're the better person, and you won't have to live w
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Jump to new posts Re: Keeping it real by shodan @ Yesterday at 03:08 PM

Zeus, your attitude sounds right. Focus on you and doing what is right for your family. If this jolts your W back into reality, awesome. Or it just prepares you better for a new and better life. All of us had a hand in our Ms and where they are tod
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Jump to new posts Re: Need help. Scared, confused pt 3 by Jefe @ Yesterday at 03:07 PM

Thanks, CG. I will continue to Journal and post the communication back and forth. I seem to get more clarity that way and you guys have been a wealth of information since I started doing this. Thank you all. Text log 11/21/14 AM 6:42AM W: They n
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Jump to new posts Re: my chance = HIS chance by makingmagic @ Yesterday at 02:58 PM

Hey Sunshine.... where can I read your story? Where did you get the help you needed? IC is not available to me just yet. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I am sorry, if many of you feel that the questions I ask are the same over & over. I see it diff
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Jump to new posts Re: Depressed WAW 4 by Card29 @ Yesterday at 02:57 PM

She is a good mom. I do think she has been emotionally detached from D2 somewhat. She's always been insecure that she isn't a good mom. Even now she is not your typical mom. We split days with D2 fairly evenly, two handoffs per week. Most moms would
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Jump to new posts Re: Maybell XVI by Maybell @ Yesterday at 02:51 PM

When H told the kids he was moving out, he left the door open for coming home. So at the moment everything is "for now." If we divorce, I won't stay in this house, I'll move into one that is much more manageable for a single mom. My kids ar
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Jump to new posts Re: Is it too late? by 123Gwen @ Yesterday at 02:48 PM

MrBond - I moved over to MLC thread. Of course I feel deceived because after never mistrusting my husband for a day I have just found out he has cheated. I mean I discovered OW less than 3 months ago and it was after he left our home. I am mentionin
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Jump to new posts Re: Shall hate be fairer lodged than gentle love? by Shakspr @ Yesterday at 02:46 PM

Gunn's - awesome. My Serv-Pro experience - less so. Your assertion of individual ownership makes sense. Their work was fine, but the experience was not so cool. Mainly because my case manager loved using my personal goods $$ as an opportunity t
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: my chance = HIS chance by Smurf_SMR @ Yesterday at 02:46 PM

>>>>One of my questions to all is "how" I am not valuing myself? (please be as specific as you can)... OK you asked....e........ How do you get from this? >>>Tonight, he offered for me to come over & have pizz
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Jump to new posts Re: WAW-MLC vs LBS .... The turtle and the hare. by CaliGuy @ Yesterday at 02:44 PM

Thanks AJM .... I feel like that drunk guy at the bar and you all are forcing me into your car .... I know its for my own good and its the safest way home .. but man I just want one more drink...lol So Update: Not Much .. Journaling really So yes
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