I hope so. I made an appt with a lawyer she told me to listen to what he says on Wednesday but don't agree to anything. She will advise what I am actually entitled to. I just hope I can remain calm and not cry or lose my temper. I will just need t
A thought for today: if not now, when? Are you waiting for a sign? Are you waiting for the perfect conditions? Are you thinking there will be a better time? So if you have a goal and don't do anything about it, guess what it will still be just a
Good for you MLP . My name is Mike . Whats yours ? So i dont have to call you MLP . Its great to get some good news when everything looks like its getting crapped on in your life . I feel im at a bottom right now but maybe not , things can always get
Pilot, as the wife of a very successful man, I'm just going to say that I would much rather he had been somewhat less successful and a lot more present in our marriage and family. All your arguments about your wife getting the benefit of your hard wo
If she is a true friend she should be just as happy for you as we are. Plus you are giving a good amount of notice. You went into it knowing it was a temp job. She helped you get something when you needed it. This time be aware that there will b
It is only wrong based on your intent. Are you only looking for friendship? Or are you hoping and looking for more? Some people seem fine dating while seperated. Personally,you are married until you legally are not. Everyone has to look at their
Ok here is my story sorry beforehand if I ramble....... My husband and I have been married for 15 years been together 16 In Sept of 2012 I had corrective surgery done from the effects of stage 3 bladder cancer I had in 2006.
Oh dear, that could spice things up. I had a bizarre time at funeral yesterday. In laws. Being nice and taking the high road cost them a huge amount of stress. I have no real idea why? H really looked mlc to me in a jacket that was the wrong age
Woke up this morning with the bad taste of last night still in my mouth. I didn't sleep well because I suspect there's a vagrant sleeping in one of the outbuildings on my property and last night one of my friends, who lives down the alley from me, co
My house is utter chaos. Got back from vacation and spent all day Monday cleaning up from 3 days of H the older boys and the dogs. Now 3 days later h has set off another grenade. There is literally trash and food on the floor in the kitchen. I can'
Thank you. Thank you:). I really thought getting this job was a long shot, but apparently the team and manager think I'm a good fit and have great potential to be successful at this job ( this is what I was told) 2 funny things. One I thought was a
Thx Peter . Your right she is still home . Im a terrible person for the glass being half empty . I do for my own sanity have to live in the moment and keep the glass half full . I worry alot about the future and I likely project that out there . So t
I know people like to hear advice from more than one source, but I see where it could become very confusing if you have too many. They aren't all going to be on the same page, which can leave you wondering what direction to take.
There is a lot of things not right here, ox. She's still having an A, just so you are clear. She is spending majority of her time with him. She rushes to be with him. She moved out of your bedroom while she was here ( this was not out of respect
Originally Posted By: claire7I'm confused as to why you are even entertaining the idea of going on dates with your wife or being physical with her when she is still at the very least spending time with OM. Are you comfortable in an open marriage?
Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlcOriginally Posted By: EmmaBBut when OM leaves he will still be her boyfriend in another country. Everyone don't lose sight of the fact that OX has made every other post of his about OM and his W. FINALLY he's making
Originally Posted By: Starsky309Originally Posted By: Oxford1Originally Posted By: Starsky309Gee, ya THINK??? Actually she gave me a big mushy kiss tonight and said, wow you have been amazing I see a really different Ox and I am going to tell the
Originally Posted By: PeterV2Quote:So this was forgotten In that brief interchange above Duh. Yeah. Let me repeat it so you can get it through your skull. 2x4 time: Ox, I recommend you stop all mention of OM. Don't think about him. Don't talk about h
For six weeks now since the BD, I have been heavily invested in 180s and focusing on ME. I made drastic changes in my life, was more present for my family and W and planned fun events. My W noticed these changes (she told me). So if I had not disco
What she is doing is giving you "trickle truths". The WAS will often do that because they can't give the whole truth all at once because it's too hurtful or sometimes feel that they don't want to do more harm to the LBS. Twisted, I know, bu
I'm not exactly sure what kind of response you are expecting. You found out about things that happened in your past. That's great. But they aren't going to help you right now and definitely isn't going to help get your W back.