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Jump to new posts Re: Been awhile.. by Jeack @ Yesterday at 09:42 PM

Touche'. Nope, all it did was confuse me now. by design? who knows. Do I bring up the D with her. Let things settle for a few days?? Because now i'm feeling a little bit played for a sucker.
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Jump to new posts Re: And around and around we go... by Jeack @ Yesterday at 09:31 PM

Glad to see things are on the up and up with you C
Surviving the Big D
Jump to new posts Re: on and on and on by kml @ Yesterday at 09:30 PM

Quote: I'm at gabbys therapy and the therapist believes she is more OCD than anything I've got two kids and an ex-husband who have OCD; believe me, I've read a ton about it. The best book to start with is called The Boy Who Couldn't Stop Washing, b
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Jump to new posts Re: Not Torn any more... by MrBond @ Yesterday at 09:28 PM

Too bad. I can tell you that they all act like this, and your M can be saved and made better, but that is up to you. We'll be here if you need support. Good luck.
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: To Russia, with love by snodderly @ Yesterday at 09:24 PM

Hi Linda! It's time for a new thread. Your thread filled up quickly with a lot of good information.
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: New light on MLC? by snodderly @ Yesterday at 09:23 PM

Hey Bea! Should we continue this discussion on a new thread? This one is chock full of wonderful information, but it's over the 100 posting mark.
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Jump to new posts Re: Its tough; getting tougher by amy1982 @ Yesterday at 09:23 PM

H was home for dinner then left for a nearby town to "kill a few rats". That was the excuse he gave to his employee one time when in reality he had spent 6 hr w GF. The thing that's killing me is to know how to balance taking responsibilit
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: To Russia, with love by nero @ Yesterday at 09:15 PM

you sure have alot of guts & gumption. i have no choice but to "let him go" do whatever too. i'm not particularly gracious- i'm not whiney either. i'm just slowly plodding forward. i hate it- he knows it- i'm still standing - he's
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Jump to new posts Re: Not Torn any more... by xj29 @ Yesterday at 09:14 PM

This will be my last post on this site. Read on, and you will understand why... Seeing everything change in my house since my husband is in the midst of packing up to move out has made me sad and depressed. After all we DID have some good times in
Divorced, But Not Done
Jump to new posts Re: Divorced-not done-But wondering ? by JJAC2005 @ Yesterday at 09:14 PM

Can I ask you if you are still holding onto hope?
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Jump to new posts Re: Been awhile.. by MrBond @ Yesterday at 09:14 PM

So your original intention didn't go through either. It's too late to do anything about it now. But from here on out you can't be too accommodating.
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Jump to new posts Re: No more games- suckerpunch by MrCAS @ Yesterday at 09:03 PM

Just read your last post... I have an anniversary coming up. My W's B-Day just passed. I used to make her a mime for her FB page for her B-Day. I still made her one this year but sent it to her phone instead. It tells her that I was thinking abou
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: "What a Long, Strange Trip it's Been" by Takevowsserious @ Yesterday at 09:01 PM

Hey girl! I had this great long post, and then I lost it - uggggh! I loved the picture of you and H playing soccer in your yard, then a campfire and some quality family time later on - sounds like a perfect evening! Sorry that your MIL did not c
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Jump to new posts Re: No more games- suckerpunch by MrCAS @ Yesterday at 08:59 PM

I don't claim to have all the answers. What I can tell you is that you need to kill these inner demons that control you. There is something that fuels the anger inside you. My anger was like a constant pilot light... It could turn something that sho
Divorced, But Not Done
Jump to new posts Re: Divorced-not done-But wondering ? by JJAC2005 @ Yesterday at 08:55 PM

well.....I'm doing pretty good overall I feel that this has always had an air of MLC to it...and she is in a very long distance relationship that places them together only a few times a month....its all ok....we are divorced, she is an adult, and she
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: New light on MLC? by Kaffe Diem @ Yesterday at 08:53 PM

Speaking of water on witches... Bea, I do hear what you are saying, although at first blush, I would think that your X isn't in Kansas, anymore. That said, I had forgotten if you'd mentioned it earlier in this thread, although I'm sure it's be brou
Surviving the Big D
Jump to new posts Re: What are you getting/looking for in dates - Part 2 by whatisis @ Yesterday at 08:48 PM

Originally Posted By: kat727Oh you do pay attention! Good job wii. I long for your every post and hold your every need close to my heart...unless there's a football game on, of course.
Surviving the Big D
Jump to new posts Re: What are you getting/looking for in dates - Part 2 by gabbysmom23 @ Yesterday at 08:47 PM

Betsey, I missed your update! I was wondering how things were going with mr. Sweet stuff. Having feelings for him, huh? I remember the first time I " missed" someone post D. What a scary, yet thrilling feeling at the same time! I'm sor
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Been awhile.. by Jeack @ Yesterday at 08:46 PM

I originally just sent the message to break the ice, in hopes of getting her to move forward with the paperwork and stop stalling. And she has still yet to answer any of my questions regarding the D or anything.
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: we own a business - pt 10 ... making magic for me! by Kaffe Diem @ Yesterday at 08:39 PM

Originally Posted By: committedalwaysI'm not sure of your whole sitch. Have you posted elsewhere? I am wondering how you are keeping it together and also some of the advice you've gotten. hi committedalways. wfm's first thread begins here: http
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Been awhile.. by Jeack @ Yesterday at 08:39 PM

Dam, I guess your right. So how do I change that?
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Is this cake eating 14 by NLW @ Yesterday at 08:29 PM

Hey KP, Thank you for stopping by. I appreciate your suggestions and support. I am mostly concerned about my kids these days. Interacting with their father has become an ongoing trauma. Arguments inevitably occur. We all need to work on doing thing
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Been awhile.. by MrBond @ Yesterday at 08:29 PM

Well in your message you pretty much accepted blame for everything bad in your M and that you'll be there for her no matter what (even if she has OM). There's no reason why she'd be mad at you. Sorry but it sounds like you gave her an open invitation
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Crimson.....Holy smokes, I'm piecing, by MrBond @ Yesterday at 08:23 PM

"I have found that in times of crisis we tend to seek out opinions, beliefs, and points of view that already comport with what we already believe." Not really. Look at DB. It's not "natural" and doesn't conform to what we automat
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Been awhile.. by Jeack @ Yesterday at 08:23 PM

Well I went with my gut instinct. I sent the email to her unedited just as I wrote it. I was extremely surprised to hear back from her. here's our text conversation. W:? Why are you being nice M: Tired of Fighting W:....I don't know whether to bel
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