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I would say no to the letter - unless you write it to yourself and put it in a drawer - and yes to showing you are moving on (which I think you are doing already.) Sometimes doing nothing is the best option I think. Take care xx
From what you are telling us, it seems that there might be a chance that you could salvage your M. You are talking with your H, he doesn't seem to cut short the conversation. I also can see it will take a while to get there, but I have every faith in
Originally Posted By: AncaireI have no proof he ended affair...but his devastation and anger are easy to see. I dont want to rain on any parade, but I am curious. Do you know that HE ended it? Or is there some chance that she did and now he's craw
Originally Posted By: DefactoI guess my intent would be to make sure XW knows that I am okay with D and am moving on. I would think that your actions to date already show this. What added purpose does the letter serve?
First of all - don't move out of the house or the MBR. Let your spouse do that if they choose. Success stories - read the resources in my first post. Mozza's thread has links to some of the current ones.
Ok, any tips. So the lovely ww has been acting better. Today not so much. She leaves house then calls as I'm meeting w friends (I didn't tell her) just to say how unhappy everyone in her life makes her. That she wants to run away and leave kids w me.
Draft your letter. Then wait X number of months. Then give it to her. Responding now is similar to a form of pursuit. Draft something you firmly believe in and then when the smoke clears give it to her. For an example of the power a letter can ha
Hi all. Just journalising. Good weekend and got the grass cut , after 3 weeks, I was expecting g to meet a lost tribe in some parts , the grass was so long !!!!! D14 and I went shopping and on the way back we went to a local parkland and D14 took
Tough day today. Didn't sleep much last night and had to take off work. I keep wondering why I fight this battle. I keep wondering if it's worth fighting for someone who has a history of putting themselves at risk for EAs. I'm her second marriage so
Originally Posted By: photokaI think if I look at this as an experiment it will help me detach. And I promise I am not spending too much time on this, just being a little more observant and watching my words and attitude which is what I should be doi
Originally Posted By: 123michOhGreat, I witnessed and know she gives and gives unconditionally; it makes her happy. Relate this to our R. She shared she gave and gave to our MR and I did not reciprocate (only NOW I see my downfall); now there is no
Thanks Gmum. And I am sorry for you too. I am wondering now if it was the subject matter, I was talking about D because he asked what was up and I said D was trying to convince me to let her get her nose pierced. I am going to do a little exp
H came earlier and left later,but there was hardly any interaction between us. I'm glad he is spending more time with the kids, on the other hand I wish he'd think about saving his M. Eldest girls asked him if he could stay to eat and have a family
Sorry that I am not more helpful on being an inspiration. The things that I do right, are usually luck or I have learned from another's mistake. I'm not sure why, but I am becoming a little excited feeling (butterflies in the stomach,etc), like the
WhyUs, You know, to be honest, I guess my intent would be to make sure XW knows that I am okay with D and am moving on. On some level, I feel like the email is an attempt to solicit some kind of reaction from XW. So, yeah, I probably shouldn't send
Originally Posted By: OldDogIt's hard for me to believe many men don't lose interest in their wives physically, EVEN if there are no relationship issues. Am I a pervert? I think that it more than likely happens a lot more than is advertised, however
Defacto, Have been in and out of your thread so I would not know how to answer this. I do want to say that our timeline and ages are very similar. You seem to be way abead of me in acceptance. The letter sounds nice. Is it truly what you want and
Hello, I have been battling severe depression for the past couple days. I am emotionally exhausted. Nothing in my sitch has changed but for some reason this ever present feeling of hopelessness keeps leaning on me. I don't want to scare anyone her