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Sometime I think I do a passive-aggressive thing with the paying her back... and my dad... because they have given me so little in terms of other support. I know that doesn't make it right. I'm just looking at how I operate. I think I'm angry... no
Keep hearing the same words echoing in my head, over and over and over. One of my H's mentors, someone he admired all his life and finally got the chance of working with last year, telling me last year how very lucky I was to me married to my H.
Originally Posted By: 2ltl2ltI agree that we can't work on our relationship as long as she is working on another one. You're spot on here. It's impossible to recover the marriage while she's pursuing other people. I worry that she may need to be s
Originally Posted By: ddayI hope this doesn't turn ugly Yeah. For sure. But, remember that it wont be because of you. Im sure she is going to fight you on something....mostly, just because she can. This is not about you.
Third day we leave for another theme park down the road. We get there and my S10 points out a boy few years older than him wearing a hoodie with the travel baseball team he played on.. the travel baseball team owned and coached by the OM. I jab at
Hey Sandi, Its hard to believe that she does not feel separated. We have no physical contact anymore, none. The most we have had is when we were decorating the Christmas tree and her finger touched mine as she handed me an ornament. How can she not
Really we are just getting started down this path. IC recognizes the fact that my way of providing for my family was contributing to the deterioration of my MR. I never separated my needs from my family's needs and it put a strain on our MR. W and I
It makes complete sense she would just want you to sink into oblivion. Having you succeed and do fine without her is a reminder of a few things that's goes directly against what's driving her actions. That she knows who you are, that you will never
Job, thank you. You said what I needed to hear from my mom. :-) I need to come up with a plan to pay both my parents back with the help of a sponsor and folks in D.A. I will keep going. Have a meeting tonight. Yep. I have some issues with money...
So, we decided on a nontraditional thanksgiving this year; short road-trip. We hit the road Tuesday after work. Wife offered to drive first leg so that I don't have to drive the entire 6 hours. Kids fall asleep. Three hours into the drive, it's 9
I'm glad Thanksgiving weekend is over! I know we still have Christmas and New Year's and Valentine's Day and my birthday coming up and....oh well I shouldn't worry ahead. Sotto, my H hasn't told his parents yet either. I think he is hoping for them
Had a great interview!!! Now to see what happens with HR. I'm worried about the recent arrest (something I never imagined myself saying!), but one step at a time. I hope it all works out...I really like this company. I got a tour of the entire facili
Just realized I should update you about the rest of yesterday. After shopping for 4 hours she came back with only one item. A new laptop for me. WTF? Was she trying to buy me off? Do I accept it? I could definitely use a new one... She said traffic
PigPen, That's great to hear your W is transitioning! Even though she is actively pursuing the D. She may still be believing the lie that she needs the D to truly appreciate you. Keep on Keeping on....you're making progress. I wish my wife there.
Heather, I'm glad that you and your daughter enjoyed spending time at the Biltmore. It's a beautiful place and has a calming effect on some who visit there. I think it's an excellent present for your daughter. She will enjoy many days there in the
Quote:It hurt me when my W during the argument said that we have not been separated all these months. It felt like all the pain I was feeling she did not feel it. its like she is saying all the lonely nights didn't happen. Vise, when will you accep
Sorry Sandi. my emotional state=lack of details. I feel a bit better after having lunch with some friends. Even though they don't know the situation it feels nice to get out. Quote: How many times has she betrayed you? Yeah, I was being a bit melo
You know I've said before about being apart relieving the stress. Ok when we're still hanging onto the rope that's the last thing you want to hear but when you wake up and see the sitch for what it really is? Not so much. Couple more days dude.
Pho thanks for the reply, I am not in counseling right now. Was for a year, then I needed to change insurance and did not have much time to look into that right now. XH was totally against counseling when we were still married and he is still think
Yes, I see what you're saying bud. I actually think by getting a different address, I'm not complying. I think she really wanted me to sink in to oblivion; you know, homeless; a crying sobbing mess. I think that hasn't worked out for her, so, she'
Focus. Don't worry about finding the most trivial thing upsetting. I went through town today, seeing the clothes shops wife used to take me in. I missed the whole idea of being a couple just looking together. I had to remind myself who she is and wha