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PP This is, without question, one of the finest posts I have ever read. I may throw some quotes back later (just taking a 2 min break from work). I was thinking acting, presenting are your destiny, but that was wrong. It's motivation with clarity.
Lou - Sorry to hear that things have taken a left turn. I'd been looking forward to hearing of your adventures in the caravan. It sounds like you are working hard at making the best of your life though and are keeping hopeful. Best wishes.
Yesterday doodler had his first post-divorce date. But first, the backstory... My sons were out of school last Friday for a teacher planning day. The boys wanted to go camping so I took Friday off work so we could go camping. We were only going
Great suggestions from GB. How would you have reacted if you called to talk to kids and she didn't answer for 12 hours? I think validating how she feels when you were the one who didn't answer, is a little weird. Why didn't you just send her a te
Exactly. You are doing a great job. You need to remember this. Kind and caring people are kind and caring. They just are. You are a kind and caring person. Don't forget that. Set your boundaries though, kindly; as people get tend to given treatment
GB, This is a great suggestion and what I plan to execute. Thank you again. Last night xW calls while we were at a cousin's birthday party. I did not pick up the phone. She followed up with a text which I saw later and then tried to call multipl
Two more things I forgot to mention: #1, she's going to "dinner with friends" (as her text put it) tonight. Yesterday, I asked about the dinner while we were shopping (everyone was in a good mood), and she said it's a guy friend; then she
Updates: Everything had been going pretty well the last few days. Friday night, after putting S to bed, we watched some programs together, then went our separate ways before bed. Saturday, I went to beerfest with friends, had a blast, came home, a
PP, it is so good to hear an update from you. I watched your TED talk a few weeks ago (I watched 3x!) and it resonated so strongly with me. I am so proud of you, you are making it, creating a new life, turning your pain into growth, and
Ginger, I was once told "this is not a date, it is a meeting" ...so technically you didn't ask for a date lol. IMHO, it's best to meet early on and not get into a textual relationship etc. They say, and I think it's true, that the longer yo
Originally Posted By: SottoI watched the talk PP and thought it was great - inspirational and heartfelt. You really managed to convey that you understand what people go through and why - and also how another path can be taken. Thanks for sharing that
Originally Posted By: SurferPP What parts of the process and advice resonated so much with you? It really does seem to have grabbed you in a way it does not others..... Surfer. Great question Surfer. Are you a surfer btw? Surfing was a huge par
I haven't Rose, I've been concentrating on much other stuff that I just don't know where to start. Obviously this may be the best place. YES!!! Spot on, my W has refused to talk with me about this for the last 7 weeks. I am trying to give her spac
Totally agree with surfer. Guilt and rewriting of history. There may be the smallest bit of truth but and it's a big BUT. You didn't hold a gun to his gun and force him into an A. Just a thought. Were you doing fun things when you weren't pregnant?
Have you done any reading on pursuit and distance? Were you by any chance pursuing your wife at the time she was being heartless? If someone you are not interested in persists in pursuing you, you tend to feel disgust, not pity. I encourage you to
Thanks guys, yeah I understand this is something that needs to be put across to him. I think my internal battle has gone from how he was the other weekend with the suicidal, I feel like I want to tread carefully that I don't want to slam the door shu
I am seeing a Relate Councillor however have only had one session (2nd one tomorrow). I'm struggling with the GAL as we'd been together since I was 17 and I was all consumed with my family life (W & S). I don't really have any interests or hobb
Yep I'm officially struggling. I don't see how this can have no impact on the kids, I cannot understand his thinking. One week he wants us to get counselling to minimise the impact on the kids and the week after he wants to move things along as fast
Are you seeing a counselor? Mine was great for helping me detach. It really comes down to noticing when you are thinking about her, wondering about her, wanting her there to comfort you, and then deliberately choosing to think about something else.
PsySara, My WW said me 'not being there' was the reason she was in touch with the OM. These kinds of statements are both history rewriting and gas lighting. It is guilt avoidance. There is always a little truth in them - they grab onto the weakest b
Csabo Do you think you are DB'ing here? What do you think you should be doing versus what you are doing. Should you be mind reading? Should you be believing what he says? Should you be attached? Should you be always available like a W or should yo
Quote:On the W confrontation front she got mad bc I put out ads mess this morning without asking W if D should have her Allegra. W got mad bc the washer wouldn't " work right" and I was the last person to do a load. W got mad bc I got D hom
Thanks Rose, yes some great advise and I'd love to be able to just detach - The R we had was a co-dependent one and yes I understand that this unhealthy. I think that the issue that I've been encountering is that I don't know how to stop caring and