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Not excuses. I am trying to find the best way through this situation where, whether my W and I are ever together again or even friends, my kids have both parents in their lives equally. The only way that may be possible is via a lawyer and a battle i
Also, these "discussions" are tough. Neither of us like to have them (who does?). They aren't light and fluffy for sure but she even indicated yesterday that they probably need to happen every few weeks while we're living apart just to ga
Thank you, very true. He works midnight shift and work has been stressful, so he literally gets only maybe a total of 6 hours sleep in 24 hours. Those hours are usually interrupted. I just said to myself, how would I be interacting if I had to be up
Originally Posted By: Scorp7Mach1, I'm guessing that's the process in the States, I'm in Canada. I wish things were as straight forward here but they definitely are not. From what I've heard, things are much more defined in the process in the States.
It should be less of an offer and more of "what do you need from me to agree to 50/50 time with the kids?" If she tells you you get to work on what she wants. If she doesn't, you get to work with your lawyer. No point continuing down cheese
Sorry Sandi2- in the moment it felt as good of time as any to test the waters. I feel like I regressed this weekend after finding out details of the OM R, but I also feel like I called her out on a lot of stuff that she had been hiding. I read a pos
Bingo. Every day he doesn't have his kids is another day she can hold up to the judge that he's not capable of handling a 50/50 arrangement. Tangible evidence not email requests. Sorry, but things can get ugly. Better to protect now and compromis
Bea, my friend, I am so sorry to hear he continues in this way. All of this not to face his demons. So sad. I do think that he will eventually burn himself out one day. I hope it is sooner rather than later. Thinking of you.
Sandi, I would love you to read my thread and continue this there. Quote:Well, do you believe you deserve better, or not? If you do, then you start acting like it and stop accepting what she's dishing out. I can't compel W to stop A, or to leave hou
Mach1, I'm guessing that's the process in the States, I'm in Canada. I wish things were as straight forward here but they definitely are not. From what I've heard, things are much more defined in the process in the States. Here, a lot comes down to w
Originally Posted By: AnotherStanderI would make that decision 100% based on what YOU want. Don't even think about what it will make H think, that is his burden to bear, not yours. Plus it's just mind-reading anyway because you have no idea what he's
Originally Posted By: Drew You file, I believe for full custody if I remember correctly. She'll respond, likely for full custody for her. Lawyers will set a court appearance. Judge will order you to meditation. Mediator will strongly urge you to comp
Originally Posted By: LITBDetaching does not mean connectingremoving all connections from her. Good Lord. Not sure what I was drinking when I typed ^^^^ this up. It is fixed now. I'll be honest Betrayo. I have done everything possible to save my M.
Hey Tad, so sorry about your friend. God isnt making this stuff happen to you, Tad. It's just life. Sometimes bad things happen. I have had a lot of those. Still struggle with some. The thing is that if I think they happen TO me, then I am a vict
Looking at things a little differently... How long would it take for you to get your affairs in order and move to where your wife is? I'm not saying "go for it", just throwing up a hypothetical. Also, what do you WANT to do with the house
Originally Posted By: DevasteThanks Starsky, In retrospect, I do wish I had called the police. The risks are far too great, and it's my kids at risk. Good advice Just had a question, I've noticed there is huge variation on exposure. I believe t
Your story sounds very similar but we have a 2 year old and I'm 8 months pregnant. Which is a whole nother mess. I just joined and ordered the DB books so haven't read them but have been living by sandis rules and who knows..
Recent development today, W sent me a text asking about paying the bills and rent. Not sure where this coming from or how she knows when they were paid or not paid. Make a long story short I sent her a couple of text validating and emphasizing her f
Hi A28, Sorry you're here. If you can get him to go to Retrouvaille I would definitely do it. I think there's more to gain than to lose by doing so. It definitely sounds like he's having an affair of some kind, maybe an emotional affair at this s
I'll bring up the point that I brought up in your previous thread. You were a serial cheater, the first two which your W forgave you for, but then you had this EA with this third woman. In what way have you shown your W that you are trustworthy? Ho