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For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Elsa in Piecing (knock on wood) by Maybell @ Yesterday at 12:51 PM

Happy Thanksgiving! How are you spending it?
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: MLC W Dates, Part VI by Wet @ Yesterday at 12:47 PM

A little self-observation from my dealing with W's telling me she wants the divorce on Monday, and that "I owe her". It's amazing how much I wanted to give her what she wanted, even if it was a divorce that I don't want. I do the same thin
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Elsa in Piecing (knock on wood) by ganb8te @ Yesterday at 12:43 PM

Elsa, this may or may not help but... The main difference between 2 and 4 seems to be who you spend time with, no? So if it comes down to those, you should feel ok doing 4 over 2 if that's what you prefer. Either you are with your family or you are
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Wife having emotional affair part 4 by HPoirot @ Yesterday at 12:35 PM

That really s*cks that happened. It must have been very hard considering things were gong kinda well. Good that you know you put your foot in mouth. With her first "why did bro call you" question... What if you had said "you're probab
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: A New Day by Lifes Twists @ Yesterday at 12:30 PM

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone, I am sitting here right now finishing a cup of coffee. My three daughters are upstairs sleeping. I am getting set to prepare the big meal. There will be eight here for dinner. I baked two pies yesterday and I am about to
Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy
Jump to new posts Re: Married young, W had affair w/ coworker Pt.2 by UpperCu @ Yesterday at 11:55 AM

W is moving out on the 1st. We discussed the final distribution of assets and debt and reached an agreement we both can live with. I'll be working with the atty to draft up an agreement next week. After her saying a couple days ago she was changing
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Moving Out but moving on? by edz @ Yesterday at 11:29 AM

Back on the PC so catch up on what’s been going on. Well, working from the new home today, started off sunny today. So I'm moved in, new broadband is now up (after some fun with Virgin Media but they resolved that) next is the remaining paperwork on
Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy
Jump to new posts Re: Married young, W had affair w/ coworker Pt.2 by UpperCu @ Yesterday at 11:12 AM

Hi justbob, thanks for the post. The immaturity, partying, renouncing Christianity, etc. is mostly a new set of behaviors for my W that has risen to the surface following her affair. Her parents are very upset about the sitch and disapproving (obvi
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Shakspr #5: I fear and hope, I burn and freeze by bravo61 @ Yesterday at 11:07 AM

Hey shakes, Haven't seen a recent post. Any updates? I'll be joining the D crew soon. Any signs of your XW thawing or facing reality? Praying for us.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: my sich by Cadet @ Yesterday at 10:18 AM

Originally Posted By: T-MomOh, and here's a good one: he wouldn't consider it cheating now, because he has told me that he wants to have sex with other women. LOVE that. Yea what man wouldnt want to have sex with another woman? It really is part of
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Help - I want my sparkle back by beatrice @ Yesterday at 10:18 AM

There are no times lines for MLC, and no expectation that they will make it through. Some do and some don't. And frankly while we can make things 'worse' arguably, we cannot make things better, All MLCers seem to say they have been unhappy for yea
LRT
Jump to new posts Re: LRT transition by Cadet @ Yesterday at 10:04 AM

Originally Posted By: T-Mom... and what is tbh? tbh = to be honest Abbreviations http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2183063&fpart=1
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: MLC for crazy making!!! by Cadet @ Yesterday at 09:56 AM

Welcome to this board. The first thing you should do is be sure to read the Divorce Remedy book by MWD, Divorce Busting is also an excellent book. Sorry you are here but you will meet some wonderful people here and get some great advice. You may b
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Newcomer Living in Hell 2 by bravo61 @ Yesterday at 09:47 AM

She really doesn't seem to care at all and doesn't seem to be struggle with the ending of our R.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Newcomer Living in Hell 2 by bravo61 @ Yesterday at 09:45 AM

It seems from the threads on here that a WAH is more likely than a WAW to come back. Anybody see any hope for the W and I reuniting after D? Really struggling for hope right now. I am resolved to allow her to put on her BGP. It's gonna be a challeng
Surviving the Big D
Jump to new posts Re: Landlord Adventures by WenikiTiki @ Yesterday at 09:16 AM

kml, I was thinking about you. The book I'm reading has plenty to say about money and how to handle those problems. My X has been nothing but nice and supportive to both our kids. My X was around for Thanksgiving with our friends while we were do
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Help - I want my sparkle back by LouR @ Yesterday at 08:47 AM

Just read back over some of the links Cadet sent to me at the start - My judgement and thoughts were challenged today by a friend - I know she is looking out for me and my wellbeing and interests, but it made me question if I am being a mug, or just
THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE
Jump to new posts Re: Talking about sex starvation by Wearyfr @ Yesterday at 08:38 AM

Hi ssmguy To be honest my H is very loving in other ways.....loves a cuddle, a kiss, a play fight to be honest after reading other peoples stories almost made me feel ungrateful. Its the sex that lacking and to be honest the other things have waned
Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy
Jump to new posts Re: Train, are You OK?? by Train @ Yesterday at 07:50 AM

It's Thanksgiving. And I LOVE Thanksgiving. And as long as the good Lord's willing and the creek don't rise, I'll be sitting around a table with my mom, my brother and his family, my sister and her children and my husband and all our babies - inclu
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: New to DB - Need Help! - Pt 3 by Train @ Yesterday at 07:37 AM

One thing that drives me bonkers (yeah, so maybe this is about ME more than it is about YOU, Razr) is the impatience of people who are sitting relatively pretty in their positions around here. Dude, chill. Take a deep breath. And count your blessin
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Busting this Divorce - Standing Firm by 25yearsmlc @ Yesterday at 07:25 AM

3 things....(and Happy Thanksgiving too!) First, I don't believe in seeing the parent of my children as the enemy, even if they are divorcing me. I just don't but that it helps the situation, although that's not to say you shouldn't do all you can t
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Wife moved out of house by bboy80 @ Yesterday at 07:12 AM

To add, the deadline didn't work, so I took a difference standpoint, Sandi2's 37 Rules, although I have slipped up on the do not tell her I love you out of habit, I have been following it. We actually had a dinner tonight and it was really great, did
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Happy Thanksgiving by Train @ Yesterday at 07:06 AM

Happy Thanksgiving to you, Rick.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Wife moved out of house by bboy80 @ Yesterday at 07:04 AM

Thank you all for the help, I have been working on my self, and having fun, I forgot how the single life was!
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: New to DB - Need Help! - Pt 3 by Rzrback @ Yesterday at 07:04 AM

I'm not sure I'm not done with her already. She won't cut off OM, she put pics back on her phone after making a big show of deleting them. She wants to go to MC to get "clarity", but I just don't know how much I believe her commitment to
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