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Thanks for you 2cents because I was feeling that I had made a grave mistake. When I have been around my H lately I haven't even acknowledged the A. This I guess is my form of detachment. Rightly or wrongly. I really appreciate your help- please c
Feeling antsy, with a crazy urge to make something happen, not necessarily related to H. Just something. I'm trying to use the energy to get my house in order, and maybe I'll throw a small BBQ or go for a run this afternoon, but it feels like not eno
I brought up the finances issue this morning. How this year she had paid very little into our joint account, missing five months including nothing in the past three months. I said I had always trusted her implicitly but felt like I was beginning to
My wife is is taking twin boys to her new church today. What a great role model. Have an A, leave your church of 9 yrs because you don't like people there any more. Then show kids it's ok to change churches especially before a D.
Ok, my W has the same two LL. I think you can give gifts in a way that isn't pursuing. Think about little things he likes. Not the big, obvious, "I'm trying to change your mind," kind of gifts. Just the, hey I though about you when I was a
Two Sided, First, I'm sorry you find yourself here. This board is a great support system. Gotta ask. Why do you want to talk about the R? I'm just curious because your bf says it's done. And your old R is done. So I'm wondering why you think tal
You're right. It appears as if she's trying to punish you. I see no other reason for her reacting this way. I mean, what was the point of telling you how critical he was and then won't give you details or let you see him? She knows how you feel
Thanks GB, My biggest problem with what happened is she just dropped daughter off without knowing if I was here and drove away. What if I had decided to go away? I know my daughter would be alright alone in the house, its just the principal of it. I
You are putting pressure on yourself. It's as if you feel you have to forgive right now.......right this minute.....and resume your life with WAH. I still say you are rushing the process and even though the two of you have good times (which is wond
Journaling: Even having made a choice to move forward, this is tough on me. Living here is hard when I want to R talk and I wish he'd change his mind. Trying hard to let it go and work on me, knowing he's just focused on moving forward without me.
I get a call from Clark 10 minutes later. He's not yelling but asks in the future to let him know if the kids won't be with me. Um no...this is my time (I don't say this, just thinking). I apologized and said I'd remind them to call next time...even
Thank you both for stopping by! G, I am totally like you during conflict -- I need to talk it out and then I need a hug! I've not read the original Mars/Venus book but I have been reading the "Together Forever" edition. I don't know that I
D began not feeling good again, so she remained in the house watching her Disney channel shows. The rest of the family got into the pool and we were having a blast. S asked if he could spend the night at my parents, which they agreed. My sil asked if
LT, I don't think you asked too much, although I wouldn't ask anything about dating . A good rule of thumb is that many people in MLC cannot be alone. However, logic and MLC are things I've found that go together like explosives and fire:-). The
I'm sure waw will want it to seem like an equal decision. I have told myself that I won't lie to the kids about anything. I will tell them that it is not what I wanted but we wanted different things. Her interests have changed and her interests no l
Thanks GB. I want more "time" which is why I want Clark to stay, not really just because it works financially. I think initially, I'm going to be better off financially than he will. I know our m can be saved, even though he thinks it canno
***HELP***. Just got this email. How do I reply? Don't need a specific response, just general concept. She keeps asking where I'm at but isn't volunteering anything about where she's at. "A lot has happened" and "I know where I am
I hope I did not do the wrong thing this morning. Very hard to figure with what MLCers do. Early this morning I am woken up by the dog barking. I then hear a knocking on the front door. I go down and its my youngest standing there trying to get in.
Many of the "old" threads have been locked and/or purged over the years and newbies have not had the opportunity to post to them. So, with that in mind, I found a thread where D. Money had copied my original first posting on pursuit/distan