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Oh zimmy I can tell you're hurting. You're right, our situations are very similar. From how you describe his many pullbacks from getting married, it does sound like he has some insecurity issues. You sound like a real go-getter, and I think you're on
Sounds excellent! I'm no vet, but I would take it a step further: our anger comes from the wrong place. It might just be what got us where we are. It's a continuation of the behavior that lead to the break up, a confirmation through our actions. It'
Wow, I just checked the dating site (haven't done so for a bit) and I've got a really nice message from a lady I messaged a few weeks ago. I'm really impressed when someone answers with paragraphs and actually answers the questions I asked lol. She w
GB Quote:I wonder how h just seamlessly leapt into another R. And if YOU knew the answer – then what? Really…what does “knowing” really do for you? The answer should tell YOU something. Quote:While I'm wondering if I can ever trust again? Can I ?
Hi Zues, thanks for the advice. Good ideas! I have been trying to look different, also known as better! Lose weight, cute outfits, different style. Put more effort into my appearance both when I see him and the rest of the time. Hopefully his friend
Jefe Catching up on your sitch ... looks like you have had a eureka type moment. I would pursue that tattoo removal, do not talk about it .. just do it. Sounds to me like you are on the right path, her talking and connecting with you about the job
Thanks Mozza. The negative interaction the other day really made me think on how I want to act towards W going forward. Here's what I've come to realize... I can continue to express anger towards W, but what purpose does that serve? Feeling 'good' f
I am full of mixed emotions today. On one hand, I sense that my W wants to work on our M (based on all of the thing that I have outlined previously) but I still have no confirmation that she ended the A (which she denies was ever an A anyway), which
rpp--My trip was great! The weather was crappy, but nothing that couldn't be overlooked with good food and a little wine. I kept my travel crap out, because I'm heading back to NY on Wednesday - this time to the NYC area. Quote:What did this look
Hi South just caught me there (Im at my desk working from home on the phone in case anyone wonders why Im not with S, he's taking a rare opportunity to play a video game in the living room while I finish up here) Yes will enjoy being with him, we're
raliced, this too shall pass. Your daughters are working through their grief in their own way. I know it's hard - try to think of it the same way a parent does when he or she first starts daycare and the kiddoes turn on the waterworks. Or the chil
Quote:You might want to check with the police re what is the law in her area. Wii, we Americans put a lot of faith in liberty and the ability to make decisions for ourselves. And as you might guess, it puts a lot of burden on society when people wh
I don't think I know Nate. But Chris is good people. Maybe you can meet him when you pick up. "Folks, I still love my XW. I had a decent cry, decided yet again to hope. To DB, to make myself better every day. I choose to believe, to pray. Some
Quote:I think she is even being colder b/c she says she does not want to do anything to give me hope. Mindreading. Don't do that. Drew. She has told me that she does not want to do anything to give me hope. I just added in the I think she is bein
zed: Some excellent advice you got there from Drew. Originally Posted By: Drewyou can't talk your way out of something your actions got you into. I cried. It's something I only realized when my wife walked out after a week of pleading and begging --
Probably not a novel idea but I'd go with the makeover idea. New hair style. Stylish jeans. Classy shirts. Dangling earrings. I think outfits/styles that are different are good. They look good. They package you different so he doesn't subconsciousl
Cadet, So I am doing the right thing to just move on, be supportive of her desire to run for the hills and pretend it doesn't hurt? It feels fake putting on such an act but DB advises it, and it appears as though a lot of people have had success wit
Edz, You just enjoy the time this evening and tonight with S. I've had a good week and I think it is down to keeping busy GALing like mad and doing things with the kids keeping us all busy. Glad my mum and dad have recently secured a Bach hut which