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Quote:As far as the boundary....will she respect it. Sure the H needs to have this boundary and maintain this boundary but will she respect the boundary when stated. Wouldn't the boundary carry more weight if reinforced by the Pastor? How in the wor
I agree that it's a long process and from where I stand you have a chance. You still have hope and your H seems to show little steps. I know it's hard to be patient. If you are meant to be together you will. Your H needs to go on his journey like you
It could blow up in my face like other things I have done otw... I'm a risk taker by nature (for crying out loud, we race $100,000 cars for fun haha), sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't! The more I think about it, it may just be a test I'm giv
Hello there, Haven't been on here in a while. Fortunately, it was because I was really preoccupied with GALing and work travel... However, I think I suffered a bit of a set back this weekend. I was doing so well and actually feelin great and all of a
Originally Posted By: Spiff69Journaling/venting/ranting/crying/etc time But I am most scared for the children - S6 is a little on the sensitive side and really loves us and our family. I am so afraid of what this will do to him. I will fight to my d
Hi Azzork. Yes I have rekindled old friendships and started getting back into sporting groups I used to be in. I have a retro cycling group I ride with once a month. Every Sunday morning I take my old 56VW beetle out for coffee with three VW friends
Hi Pho! Quote:But things have been improving, so what if they continue to improve but are still not where I want them to be? At what point do I decide that its enough. I guess I should take that thought off the table for now, because I am not there
There's no 100% right or wrong answer. [censored] I know. Take the statements below with a grain of salt. I haven't read your sitch. But just the last couple of posts. I didn't cut ties with family, pbut picked and chose what events I did. If it'
Yes Sandi2 you are right. problem is when I do see her I am usually at my daughters house and most of the discussion is about work, they don't really speak to her about social stuff either, they are upset about the things she is doing too. She dose n
Had a good weekend considering the circumstances. On Saturday we had a little photo shoot for my D3 in my home country's dress which celebrates rite of passage. I let H know he is welcomed to come see her and take pictures. H showed up late and spen
Taking my ring off was hard for me. I wrote about all the interactions of the weekend I stopped wearing it on 11.16 if you'd like to read through it all. But in summary. The verbal abuse had become unbearable. She made another negative statement
Welcome Tamjakr, Sorry to meet you under these circumstances, but we're here to help. I have a few more questions. Do you have any children together? Were you remarried or living together after the year apart? Oh, and please don't date it's not fai
Journaling/venting/ranting/crying/etc time As I was out in a little break this thought occurred to me. In our last session, my W accused me of trying to use the kids in our situation. She said something to the sort of me using them to try to steer t
Thanks! I did think up one more suggestion. Make a plan early. Make decisions ahead of time and not in the heat of the moment when the emotions get going. Update it if necessary when things are calm, but otherwise use it. I stuck to the plan during
Originally Posted By: SciDadOriginally Posted By: phoI am a little slow on the uptake here, but it just really crossed my mind that I might be better off without H. Really, what am I holding on so tightly for? If he doesn't want me, he should g
Thanks all for the advice. I am away from home but actually returned tonight close to my home town to do my GAL activity - salsa dancing. W thinks I am 100 miles further away. I had to reset her FB password using a joint acct so I could access it.
Ghost, I have to agree with all of the above people. My W would have a conversation (we would only talk/text/see every few months) and I would try to make it as positive as possible. It meant nothing. Even after having a request from the W to have l
Originally Posted By: NDYDISCLAIMER. I only googled this 5 minutes ago. I'd verify this but listening devices are legal in the UK IF it's a public place or your own home. I don't think your W's car falls into that category but I'm not an expert. And
Originally Posted By: phoI am a little slow on the uptake here, but it just really crossed my mind that I might be better off without H. Really, what am I holding on so tightly for? If he doesn't want me, he should go. That is starting to sin
I think he is struggling, I think he is struggling in a way with dealing what he has done himself. He's just crawling up into himself and not saying anything. Yeah it was a bad habit I realised I had slipped into, so from my point- I know a few thi