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Re: What are you getting/looking for in dates? by kat727 @ 05/23/13 10:06 PM

Okay this guy is old enough to be my grandpa! Seriously. When I mentioned that I was looking for someone within a few years of my age range...I still got guys in their mid sixties. Wii, I know you are making fun but really it is a problem for me.

Re: Affair forecast:stormy with a chance of a break-up by uRworthy @ 05/23/13 10:05 PM

Originally Posted By: TakevowsseriousThanks CB and M- man! Not to worry, TVS has picked herself up and dusted herself off I had no doubt you would, my friend. I feel like that memory popping into my mind was a message - that this vacation may no

Re: What are you getting/looking for in dates? by whatisis @ 05/23/13 10:00 PM

You are prudent to stay away from those old guys Kat. Apparently, the elderly have some of the highest rates of STD'S around and nursing homes have been described as "America's new bathhouses". You made a wise choice!

Re: H is back in Replay after a brief period of sanity by Takevowsserious @ 05/23/13 09:53 PM

Hi Linda, I like my alias too - I was pretty down and distraught when I chose it, but it means even more to me now that I'm in a better place. Who could have foreseen this "worse" in the for "better or worse"? Not me. The minds

Re: we own a business - pt 9 ... its about me! by waitingformagic @ 05/23/13 09:52 PM

ok.. so now he just texted me... "sorry for upsetting you, I do know you try to do the right thing" I just remembered too, that I was trying to say to h that I dont get "mad" at him.. I get upset for him being "mad" at

Re: 11 month, still here… by LindaM @ 05/23/13 09:49 PM

I'm a nurse and a lawyer Bright, but do not practice real property law. Your rights on the house and other marital and non-marital property depend on the state you live in. Also, whether you just need to be living separately or if you need to be lega

Re: New to this ... by steveh27 @ 05/23/13 09:45 PM

Yeah BD I agree - I was venting. Was feeling pretty down today. Did some shopping for the weekend with my D13. Needed some new clothes since losing about 40lbs and would rather not look like a shlub. Another 15 and ill be at my goal weight. Startin

Re: we own a business - pt 9 ... its about me! by waitingformagic @ 05/23/13 09:42 PM

oh wait... when he was shouting at me, I did ask if he'd like me to pull over so that he could get out. he reminded me that the car was 1/2 his... so I said, OK.. I will pull over and let myself out...is this kind of the same thing as saying don't s

Re: I really think that we can make it, Girl by uRworthy @ 05/23/13 09:41 PM

Originally Posted By: ForeverYoung Once when W was talking about how death wouldn’t be so bad, she said “It’s not like I’m hanging around for anyone.” I said I don’t know if you thought of this, but I’d miss you. Her response: I don’t know why. Tha

Re: we own a business - pt 9 ... its about me! by waitingformagic @ 05/23/13 09:39 PM

I agree MrBond... I agree. Any other comments/suggestions? (small pat on the back for not bringing up R talk... this was a good time where I am sure he thought I would have... but, didn't) Were my tears, and holding back tears bad?

Re: Affair forecast:stormy with a chance of a break-up by Takevowsserious @ 05/23/13 09:37 PM

Thanks CB and M- man! Not to worry, TVS has picked herself up and dusted herself off Just another day here in MLC paradise... Snodderly, you always advise to sit quietly and let the answers come to us. And you are always right! As you guys know,

Re: My mother is dying. XW wants to be my friend. by uRworthy @ 05/23/13 09:35 PM

Originally Posted By: tadpole1025 A few weeks ago, my mom was diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer. Yesterday, she had surgery and was informed that she probably has 6 month to a year to live. Tad, I am so very sorry. XW has been calling and texting o

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Re: Struggling! by jaytee35 @ 05/23/13 09:32 PM

Mrbond, I hear you loud and clear! And honestly, I would wait as long as it takes just to be intimate with my wife again. I have no interest in straying that's for sure. Currently I am doing the LRT. Would anyone recommend if she does contact me a

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Re: Struggling! by MrBond @ 05/23/13 09:28 PM

"how the heck does everyone deal with this part of the DB when your spouse is the WAS and pretty much wants nothing to do with you!" You just don't have sex with her. There are many on here who haven't had sex with their spouse for years. If you can

Re: we own a business - pt 9 ... its about me! by MrBond @ 05/23/13 09:26 PM

It's okay to validate. HOWEVER, in the times that he is wrong or is yelling at you, then you need to look at him in the eye and tell him you do not deserve to be talked to in that way and then leave. Again, it's HIS choice to work that hard. NOT you

Re: we own a business - pt 9 ... its about me! by waitingformagic @ 05/23/13 09:24 PM

and.. i told him how 80% of the time, I feel like I am in his way, and unappreciated, how he is always mad at me for something I have done wrong. How I wanted to quit. I am not the partner he needs. I am not the partner he wants. He then tried t

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Struggling! by jaytee35 @ 05/23/13 09:17 PM

Okay, I have to vent on this thread because I am going through some serious sex withdrawals from my wife. We are seperated currently and the last time we had sex was in December! Some of you already know my sitch pretty well. My question is.......how

Re: My journey... for now. by uRworthy @ 05/23/13 09:12 PM

Ok, for just a minute, I was pisssed. LOL! That was so not cool of them, M. As far as handling not being angry - just enjoy it. Kinda neat - right? You're doing great. Keep going.

Re: we own a business - pt 9 ... its about me! by waitingformagic @ 05/23/13 09:11 PM

ohhh a few other things: - h asked if I ever felt like running away? cuz he does. I didn't know how to answer. - said he was going to enjoy his beer tonight and I should enjoy my wine (has no clue, I don't drink during the week anymore). - is enjoyi

Re: Wife dropped the bomb on me two months ago by BKS @ 05/23/13 09:10 PM

Still on MOD. I did not want to show her my paystub since we are technically separated. She has no intentions, as of today, on working on our issues. I wasnt comfortable showing her. This is an effort on my part to protect myself in the event of

Re: What are you getting/looking for in dates? by kat727 @ 05/23/13 09:06 PM

Correction: I *even* had .

Re: What are you getting/looking for in dates? by kat727 @ 05/23/13 09:04 PM

I just had to comment about the much older guy thing as far as online dating. It seems like the guys interested in me are all older than my dad! I enem had an 86 year old client asking me out. I have gently turned him down. Then he would come by

Re: we own a business - pt 9 ... its about me! by waitingformagic @ 05/23/13 08:54 PM

nope.. not at all, he was "into me" and in our relationship. Although, he has always looked at other women... never hid that from me. Just now it bothers me more "outside" of a rel'p. Journalling today: emotional day & ful

Re: 38 weeks pregnant & husband walked out by 25yearsmlc @ 05/23/13 08:48 PM

Things I did to GAL, including when I had a newborn baby, and lived in the interior of Alaska... Joined a writer's club, auditioned for community theater (requires babysitter for 4 nights a week for 6-8 weeks) and met fun interesting people and tot