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Re: Going In Circles by Fartiltre @ Yesterday at 05:06 PM

Hi SIS Thanks for your kind post in my thread! I will keep the hope and so should you! I am not a VET and please keep that in mind! I hope one of them will drop by soon and when they do I am quite certain that they will ask you: 1. To read Sandi2 l

Midlife Crisis

Re: Still Struggling and need help #3 by CharlieBrown @ Yesterday at 05:03 PM

Today I had to give a speech/presentation to a room of 200 executives, including my boss and 6 other members of our leadership. I don't mind public speaking, but having my boss in the crowd upped the ante quite a bit. It went AWESOME! I have you a

Midlife Crisis

Re: H is back in Replay after a brief period of sanity by Cadet @ Yesterday at 05:01 PM

Linda and BriteFuture, Please be careful posting outside links here as it is against the TOS. Although I can not find where it specifically says that, lets just say that the powers in charge don't like it. Glad you are reading all the old threads a

Midlife Crisis

Re: Crazy little thing called MLC by AJM @ Yesterday at 04:52 PM

I hear ya. Can I make a suggestion for future conversations? Have you ever wondered how, in casual conversation we suggest to people that success=happiness? Have you considered that happiness is not all it's cracked up to be? Watch the people's t

Midlife Crisis

Re: Behind Blue Eyes... by AJM @ Yesterday at 04:48 PM

As for a next thread, perhaps Pinball Wizard? You must feel like a deaf, dumb and blind pinball player by now, no? Peace, AJ

Surviving the Big D

Re: Mediation paperwork by kml @ Yesterday at 04:45 PM

When I went through mediation, we both met together with the mediator. The mediator was there to facilitate us working things out between us. he and I each had our own separate attorney on the outside that we would run things by, then we would meet

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Re: Going In Circles by shouldistillhope @ Yesterday at 04:42 PM

I think i am like everyone else here just hoping for some last minute miracle that maybe all this will work out before the D is final, but i am not counting on it. I still have hope but i also know that i have to change myself before anything else c

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Re: Still Living, 23 months by sandi2 @ Yesterday at 04:41 PM

Does he talk to others the way he does you?

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Re: Going In Circles by shouldistillhope @ Yesterday at 04:38 PM

I am working pretty hard on GAL. I am taking my 2 boys camping with me this weekend, but it might be pretty hard on them since W is going to tell them about our D before i leave with them. I will be the best dad i can be for them during our time to

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Re: Going In Circles by shouldistillhope @ Yesterday at 04:35 PM

She also asked durig that same conversation if i thought it was a good idea to take the insurance off her wedding ring. I told her she can do whatever she wants but my opinion would be to just leave it insured in case anything happens to it. She sa

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Re: Going In Circles by shouldistillhope @ Yesterday at 04:32 PM

Wife and i had a bit of a talk last week. I told her that i was letting her go. I said she was correct in the fact that this marriage wasn't working. She said she was relieved to finally hear me say that. I made all the classic mistakes but a b

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Re: Still Living, 23 months by Accuray @ Yesterday at 04:31 PM

Adinva I don't buy the abuser of convenience theory, and I would spend no time thinking that being abused is the victim's fault. It's true that we train people how to treat us by showing them what we will accept but there are of course limits. If s

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Re: Husband about to leave by MrBond @ Yesterday at 04:29 PM

Well that certainly is on the path to recovery. HOWEVER, just FYI, it's not uncommon for there to be several "false starts" when it comes to R. See if you can get the two of you into C. That is vital. Do not sweep the problems under the ru

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Re: DM45 LBS 4 by Dm45 @ Yesterday at 04:26 PM

Thought id check in... Thanks for that link. Read it. Several times. All I can say is I'm NOT there yet... It's been a week since contact, other than I forward status of my grandpa to her. Is text. We're still on wait list for her C. So I asked h

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Re: My Dilemma! by Cadet @ Yesterday at 04:26 PM

Welcome to this board. The first thing you should do is be sure to read the Divorce Remedy book by MWD, Divorce Busting is also an excellent book. Sorry you are here but you will meet some wonderful people here and get some great advice. You may b

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Re: Husband about to leave by sandi2 @ Yesterday at 04:24 PM

Wow! What changed his mind?

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Re: One step forward, two steps back! by sandi2 @ Yesterday at 04:22 PM

When reading about your "maybe's", it reminded me of how my mother would say "yes" to me when I was growing up. I never remember her giving me her permission by saying the word yes. She would say, "I guess so". Well,

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Re: New to this ... by Tallula @ Yesterday at 04:20 PM

Im just getting up to speed on your sitch...holy geez...your sons play soccer together?!?! Good lord! I'm so, so sorry. Sadly, I have a friend who's H did the exact same thing. They have reconciled and her H can no longer attend the sons games.

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Re: I am at a loss on what to do anymore. by RealityTrip @ Yesterday at 04:20 PM

I hope you are feeling better Stung! There is nothing worse than being sick and feeling alone!! Hang in there! I'm sorry you are feeling sad and missing you H. It's VERY difficult when they are right beside us. You have been doing a good job fro

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Re: Husband about to leave by bluebird @ Yesterday at 04:19 PM

Well, things have gotten dramatically better. My WAS/MLC H figured it out in one night away with his OW and is coming home immediately instead of 9 days from now. I know we are not out of the woods but the fog seems to have lifted. Thank you DB an

Surviving the Big D

Re: Mediation paperwork by JustStunned @ Yesterday at 04:18 PM

She filed, I counter filed and then there were the hearings. Mediation was out of the question. I don’t think it was better or worse. The final documents served to solidify the event. I remember the surreal aspects of the remainder of the day. It was

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Re: Less lonely, not scared..low on patience by Mtnman @ Yesterday at 04:13 PM

A dog! Brother you just traded in one ball and chain for another one. Please don't let it be a puppy, please don't let it be a puppy..... Just playing with you man. What kind? (Just FYI, I don't think of my W, or wives in general as a ball and c

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Re: First posting by sadinbc @ Yesterday at 04:09 PM

I am very proud of myself for giving her lots of space, not contacting her, making the replies to her emails short and to the point but still being friendly. The last time we met (5 days ago) she looked me in the eye and said "you are a good man

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Re: DBing European Style, part 2 by sandi2 @ Yesterday at 04:07 PM

She should not be telling the kids you will continue to be at her family functions. Part of it is trying to soothe the kids and give them some type of assurance that things will not be that different after the D. She doesn't want to appear to be th

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Re: WAW / ILUBINILWY / CONFUSED! (Thread II) by Fartiltre @ Yesterday at 04:02 PM

NEW GOALS AFTER COACH SESSION I just ended a coaching session and again DB-coach is telling me to increase the pursuing part – in most aspects except ML (That will be quite easy since none of this is going on here) I fear that in my storytelling to

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