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Morning all Thought I'd post an update. Got V2 of the divorce papers, XW has made some minor amends but left stuff in that's simply not true. And for those who read my early posts you know how ready I am to blame myself. I sent her a long text af
Hi Sunny. I get a lot of what you mean and no matter how I rationalise it, its still unpleasant to see my son giving OM a hug or hear my kids talk about the stuff they do (I simply can't compete financially with all XW and OM do with the kids). Bu
Originally Posted By: AvantiHello Mars As you are only beginning to realise, you are on a voyage of discovery that you didn't ask to be part of and may grow to see what in some small way a blessing, as it will illuminate a path towards self improvem
Hi Gg. Great to see you back and it seems like things are going well for you. I think that list is a good one. It's easy to take what they say to heart no matter how unfounded. I've found looking at the lies my XW is clinging onto in the divorce
I’ve been reading many posts and have finally got the courage up to tell my own story. I’m 47, have been married for 17 years and have a 15 year old son. I’m English and went to work in a European country around 25 years ago. I meet a local girl an
Thank to you also as! You have been a huge help lately also. I TRY not to let either extreme get to me. It is hard at times but I think I'm getting better at this. Maybe that is why I got the hot/warm treatment today because she feels me leveling
A rough night out here in DBland. Got some info from my L that W is trying to push D through as quickly as possible. I don't really want to, but I also don't really know what the point is in holding out and saying that I am going to require this to
You handled it well. Just be prepared that the next time she may lay into you. My W has been just fine all this week, even extending conversations. It's like she never was seething with anger. We are also supposed to meet to have another negotiati
I don't have a lot of wisdom to contribute Mahhhty, V and Asitis are my go to's around here. However, I did learn a lot from reading your letter as well. The part about owning your own feelings was important to read. The letter also upset me as I f
The best advice I can suggest is the "be distant/detached" approach. My WW will ask me what I am up to and even now I rarely tell her much. It's just a habit I got into, which is fine with me. The hot/cold treatment does not bother me
Such a great quote you ended with Mutatio. It's so true. The law of impermanence tells us that all relationships will come to an end at some point either by separation or death. It's a law of nature. How we deal with all of that is the true measure
Azzork it's not easy. I can't stop fighting with myself. It's true. I see that cartoon too. Plus my friend who dbed says that too and says I'm not doing anything. She's right. I Suck at this game... I opened up to one of my family members she's goi
Avanti thank you for these thoughts. I am improving myself with constant adjustments in attitude. My current struggle is the same as Photokas. Asitis addressed it perfectly on her thread today. Roiste thank you for your support. As you know, in a d
Originally Posted By: JulieHEyetie I'm not making any judgement. ( if I found out my husband was with other women I would feel and probably react very similar as you). But my question is, do you think there is a difference between how you view yo
Saw this in vise82's thread. It is pure gold. Thanks Sandi! Reposting in my thread for posterity. Heck, I think I will print it and paste it inside my eyelids so I can see it when I sleep. Originally Posted By: sandi2Quote:What do you mean confident
Wow Sandi! That post was very high yield!! I have read most if not all of your LBH/WW threads and this post so aptly summarizes what/how a man should be. I think every LBH, especially the "nice guys" should read it. I hope you don't mind if
That list of ten was my xh2 list of complaints against me. Add crazee and mentally ill. But his actions he assaulted my son, his step son. With no reason given and made me the bad guy in that. If you read behivours that signify abuse he checked
Was looking back through my old text messages trying to better understand how we got here. Sadly, I wish I had known of this site months ago. In mid August, my wife had asked me for some time and space. Like most LBHs, I didn't understand the situati
Thanks for the support eye! I really appreciate your time buddy! It's almost like it happened natural for her. Nothing seemed fake or forced on her end of it. Now tomorrow she will most likely be cold and distant and it will appear forced? That see