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Originally Posted By: CrimsonLong time no see, Mach....I am grateful as always for your post and advice. Truly. I think I am exiting the anger stage sort of and entering general sadness -- I guess that is part of the process as well. The hatred tha
Heather, I'm sorry you are ill...but...I'm very happy that you finally bit the bullet and met w/a lawyer. It's time to get this show on the road and mean business. As for your h, oh poor little boy and he might not have rent money...too darn bad.
Okay, I've been trying to keep my cool for so long that I'm second-guessing just being ME for once. I don't want to hand over my power, but I feel I'm losing my cool composure today. Finally texted H back during lunch and said: "Let me know on
Thank you AJ. I had another brainstorm when driving into work this morning. I thought about my mother and my stepfather and H's interactions with them. And I started to connect the dots. Whenever my mom or stepdad would have a close friend come ove
Just saw your post, Bug.....I am trying. And yes, I am riddled with fear. And it is embarrassing - I want to be naturally stronger, braver than I really am and often I hate myself for not being able to flip a switch and just not care anymore....abo
Jaye I am unbelievably proud of you. Wow Portia! Thank you for that. It means a lot to me. Thank you again. You are in a situation that you do not like and you are making an effort to change it. Yes, definitely not liking the situation. It has to c
AJ, What do you mean about the FIL? I, initially, thought it was a good thing. It was Smokey that dragged his feet when it came down to it. I don't think he wants this. But, that's me and I'm doing what is necessary to protect myself.
Like MrBond said, be careful now. I have a "nice" (most of the time) MLC W but man when she goes off, she goes off! Worst is that before she even goes off she will get angry and do things like open a secret bank account first, THEN she will
Originally Posted By: labugHelp me out. I was searching to find your writings about her ?EA/PA. Can you point to it? It is probably scattered so I will rewrite it. At BD she said that we had drifted apart and she was done. She had been talking to
He just called me. I had a bit of my say when he cried about how he won't be able to pay his rent. "Yes, that would be horrible for you, wouldn't it?" He is angry and very scared. I could hear it in the fake bravado in his voice. I told
Long time no see, Mach....I am grateful as always for your post and advice. Truly. I think I am exiting the anger stage sort of and entering general sadness -- I guess that is part of the process as well. The hatred that I had two weeks ago has kin
Thanks FY, scooby and TVS! Helps to know I'm not alone. My W goes up and down and all around when it comes to what she is willing to talk to me about. Some days she wants to hide everything (like changing the passwords for the email we shared for 15
Can I suggest that you're doing exactly what you need to do? You're processing the events of the past several years. Something you've put off for a long time and now you have the time and safety to do so... As a suggestion - keep doing it, but bre
Originally Posted By: NLWOriginally Posted By: LaBugWhy did you go? It seems you knew it was going to drag up a lot of stuff? I agreed to their invitation because it was the right thing to do. This "family" situations are difficult, are
Heather. Something to know in these situations. As soon as one or both of you have representation (whether a lawyer or FIL or other) then there will be drama. That's not really a question I'm afraid. It's not like you two parted on good terms. T
So here is how my evening ended. Went home and laid in bed for an hour reading before I was going to head to my parents for dinner. W called and I let it go without answering, usually answer when she calls. Waited about 5 minutes and called her back
Feeling kinda scared. Hit the ground running, so to speak. Sitting in the attorney's office. I felt sad, a little shaky. I know that's to be expected. I will plow through it. I still have feelings for this man, I guess I WAS a bit afraid to take th
Originally Posted By: 3boyzmomUp - I think that it is great that you have recognized that you need additional help and have asked for it. Even though we try to be supermom, it is impossible to do it all alone unless we start sacrificing ourselves.
Up - I think that it is great that you have recognized that you need additional help and have asked for it. Even though we try to be supermom, it is impossible to do it all alone unless we start sacrificing ourselves. I have found that when I am sl
Thanks bug! I am really trying to stop fighting this journey and stop trying to control how this all ends. A lot of the fear is starting to fade away as milestones pass and I am still standing and finding happiness again.
And, we already have drama!! I texted Smokey and asked him to send me the tax return and his W2's. Well, he's really pissed off about the child support enforcement being on his tail. He wants me to tell them that the mortgage payments are support pa
Welcome to the club. But we're in recovery, right? I'm going to challenge you a little more to think about what you're teaching your daughter (she's learning a lot right now about being a woman) I think you're doing great. This just takes a long t
Truly hit rock bottom today, damn it hurt a lot, just wish I had a big OFF button today. I'm exhausted, totally & utterly exhausted and it's finally caught up on me and I've admitted defeat. H's been very supportive today although clearly found
When I read your thread a few days ago, I thought of the same story lostinscared quoted. Crim, you're keeping yourself stuck and I would guess it's because of fear. You're holding onto everything so tightly that there's no room for change. You're ho