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A few months ago I was in a really stuck place in how badly I felt about specific behaviors leading up to our separation. I had already apologized for them several times to my H, but I just couldn't get past it. My previous apologies felt like pleadi
" I do however really feel I had to put a lot if effort into playing with the kids because she flat out ignored them while she browsed eBay or FB (this was a really regular occurrence)." That's YOUR perception. She might have thought that
Originally Posted By: jim0987Im vague on some of the details as my memory is very different to how my W seems to recall it. Or in the case of what I said on the day her dad died I genuinely have no idea. I know I was in a bad mood (and i know there i
I think I hit my max amount of information that I can feel emotionally. I am in a weird place. It seems like when I get bad news now, I am numb to it. Is that bad? Here is the weird thing: I feel it physically. My heart gets all goobly and weird and
Claire, If you wish to do so for religious reasons, I can respect that. I want ask you this in an open-minded way: -Do you believe that by taking this action, it will bring you closer to the goal (restored M..drawing H back) in keeping with the
Throwing in my .02, too!! I'm excited for your new beginning in NY!! Hopefully you're recovered (physically) from the heavy lifting.... I'm heading that way for a trip in 2 weeks....NYC, not upstate.....but much closer than I am, now!!
Wonka, I get what you are saying, and just venting on here (and distracting myself with TV) has helped me calm down a lot. The apology letter, in this particular situation, is for religious reasons. This is the time of year to ask for forgiveness
to add.. my DD says he invited us because we are getting along & he thought that I might like to be there. I still read too much into things... ugh Also, his Dad's Thanksgiving event offering is a new thing for this year. His Dad recently brok
Originally Posted By: SeattleGetting together with W tonight for dinner. She reached out on Sunday night to make plans for tonight. ....I hope she brings up something related to our relationship and actually wants to engage (vs. just dropping the D
Maybell, I am not sure writing a letter H is a good idea...even a short paragraph. Obviously if writing the letter is a cathartic release for Claire, then she can do it and BURN it. Or never sending it. For me, I've written several letters to M
LT, just getting caught up on your thread. You certainly have a full plate....I don't have advice...just stopping by as a support. Wishing you the best on your new endeavor, as well. Hopefully, it will keep you occupied and focused away from the
H didn't call today. No surprise there, typical behavior for him and MLC I'm sure. I am on pins and needles waiting to see what he wants to talk to me about though. I go see a lawyer here in my state tomorrow about what I need to do to protect mys
Do you have a parenting schedule? She is not 'free' to do whatever she wants-- she has children that she is responsible for, at least for part of the time. Set up a parenting schedule if you don't have one. It's also a bit strange to me how much y
Mindsin, I am in the midst of confusion myself at the moment, A very good vet is helping me try to understand DBing better. I was/am getting a lot of it wrong. I need to stop what I am doing and revamp. What I think MrBond is trying to say, correct
Hi Eric, The business issues were delayed due to our new business location. It was his comment yesterday to state that he has not forgotten our business deal & we will proceed again soon towards the legal document. I have noticed it on his &qu
Originally Posted By: essjaySaturday afernoon... So off we go, and then from that point on it's back to the ice queen again. Strained conversation, walking ahead of me - you know the feeing i'm sure - i had to really work hard to get her to talk...
Claire, if it's a short apology letter, and you say that you don't have any expectations from it but that you need to do it in order to move on, then I think *in your instance that it would be helpful. You're really not doing it for him, right? But
Originally Posted By: 1WishOk i tried encouraging her to go out and see her friends but she thinks im up to something like setting up a camera. I had a great opportunity to go do photography for a birthday party but she had a issue with it apparantl
Originally Posted By: claire7 As part of my atonement this year, I'm going to send him a handwritten apology letter, taking responsibility and asking for forgiveness for all I've done. Maybe it will seem like it's pursuit or desperation. But I nee