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A scowl is a upside down back to front smile. A little like the confusion your WAW is in. I really don't get the anger but it makes sense to your WAW. I like the idea of a new home, it will be exciting for D5 to select her new bedroom. Go to it Sad
I don't think that I can break those down into smaller things. I already am doing everything at the same time. If I state, no checking tracker - achieved. No starting convos - achieved. I will not get drawn into an argument - achieved. I will not sat
CWOL, I'm sorry about all of the issues regarding your wife moving out. I think my wife will be moving out at the end of the month or maybe sooner. I'll have to see how you handle things. I'm afraid that my wife is going to take everything that s
Originally Posted By: rd500Hi Sotto , Fogg and lady V. Thanks for posting , it did feel nice to know that she has some regrets but it doesn't change what happened. Lady V. I don't think anything WAS / WW could do anything to return to my life no
Sorry to hear doodler. Like I told cherry, things haven't changed with our WW/WHs, just another day on the soapie, "days of our wayward lives". The cool thing is that we can actually change the script. Very strong of you to walk out when D
hey ofp, i do appreciate you reading my threads. i hope all of my failings and struggles could help someone, because ive made so many mistakes. I think the biggest take away is that this all takes so much patience, compassion, time and luck. there is
The rollercoaster ride continues. H is texting the ow, telling her how he feels the m is a mistake and that he feels he is getting close to pulling out. Only, towards me- although we have very few words. He is doing things to help me without me ask
Maybell, I just wanted to start with a big hug first. I can definitely relate to how you are feelings, on most levels. Last September I restarted college and I started a long distance R at the same time. My life changed ALOT. I saw my friends often
Weekend update... I took Friday off work because of my wife's neck surgery. Everything went well. My wife's parents stayed with us over the weekend so they could help-out while my wife is recovering. Friday, after my wife went into surgery, I tal
Originally Posted By: DDJ@darknes, yes, they are measurable. No. These are not goals. 1 - Detach 2 - Improve myself 3 - Understand boundaries and implement some. 4 - Appreciate the little things 5 - Lose CONTROL Well, I suppose they are goals. B
Monday morning and W is active in trying to meet me. We haven't met since beginning of March. She has an appointment with the school about S and is future plans. I don't need to go as I've already spoken to the teachers involved.She would like me to
You guys are right, and this whole situation seems different in a way to the last time. Last time he would never be at home, ever. He would return early hours- sleep in another room and go to work after an hours sleep. He rarely ate with us. He certa
How long has it been since the talking died down? It might have nothing to do with you. Maybe she's wrestling with things in her own head and that is making her too inwardly focused to engage. My only suggestion is to completely kill the R talk and
H came back from his trip late last night and said he has made his decision--he wants to stay in the marriage and try to reconnect. He said there are some things we need to work on, and he will go to counseling. Being open to counseling is huge. I
Originally Posted By: Irish Mhi Inpain I think you handled that perfectly - No relationship talk (that old relationship is gone) - No expectation (it was a first date) Thanks Irish! Originally Posted By: IrishMI understand why your H wouldn't co
I know some may give you the advice that these sort of messages might cause you to give up, and that is your decision. I would say that believe nothing they say and half of what they do. He may very well be lying to himself through this conversatio
He is choosing to sleep with you and not OW. If he really feels that it's a mistake and dislike you so much, he wouldn't be sleeping with you. Chances are he's cake-eating now. I think you still have to continue dbing. I don't mean to rub it in