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Jump to new posts Re: Letting Go by Toots @ Yesterday at 07:56 PM

Hi Heavy, just caught up on your sitch last few days. It does seem to me that things are shifting somewhat and that you have become more powerful within the sitch. Your W does seem to be feeling some regret and reaching out a little, acknowledging so
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Jump to new posts Re: Ripken - LRT with Wayward Wife and Divorce Filing by Ripken8 @ Yesterday at 07:51 PM

Also I have been studying the 37 rules daily. How we with a ww who filed for divorce do these really still apply in my sitch? She seems too far gone. I'm second guessing everything and it's hard to believe she en has the slightest hesitation about
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Rebuilding my Castle... by LoisB @ Yesterday at 07:49 PM

Bringing this over from Cal's thread. AJ wrote: Quote:Not carrying anger nor resentment doesn't require forgiveness. It does require acceptance of what happened and a decision to not carry that anger and resentment. But to me, forgiveness does re
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Jump to new posts Re: Separated for a month and don't know what to do by ESOED @ Yesterday at 07:39 PM

Okay. I will try that.
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Jump to new posts Re: Separated for a month and don't know what to do by Matt777 @ Yesterday at 07:33 PM

You can't ask her about her thoughts on the R. She isn't in a position to tell you what you want to hear and anything else will just make you hurt.
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Get married they said .. It'll be fun they said by LoisB @ Yesterday at 07:31 PM

Holy Shid AJ...YOU just made this do-able for me. I CAN DO THIS ^^^ Acceptance + CHOICE...There's what I've needed to hear. I NEED to feel the CHOICE in the matter because I've had too many things done TOO me without my consent. This last step is M
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Jump to new posts Re: In desperate need for help by Smothy @ Yesterday at 07:27 PM

Latest iTunes down load 'Don't want to miss a thing' Aerosmith. Not even his genre of music. I am reading far too much here. I am hurting so much thinking it is for the OW. A message for me? Mind reading and wishful thinking! :-(
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Rebuilding my Castle... by LoisB @ Yesterday at 07:20 PM

Thanks Guys!! Added more info to my Mint.com. Looking at numbers and facing the debt. It's not as bad as some, I know. Still pi$$es the living end outta me. I swear, I think this Rat Bastard coulda screwed his way through an army of skanks and it
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Jump to new posts Re: Memento by Maybell @ Yesterday at 07:14 PM

Quote:When I'm feeling this way I find myself thinking things like "there are couples that are able to use porn together and still be functional, there are woman that would indulge my desires if in return I was accepting of their shortcomings&qu
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Jump to new posts Re: hold on! - 9 by PeterV2 @ Yesterday at 07:07 PM

Nothing wrong with continuing to try to put your family back together. I'm trying the same thing - to put my marriage back together. Nothing wrong with the intent. However, it doesn't seem to be working. Looks to me like nothing but cheeseless tunnel
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Jump to new posts Re: Ripken - LRT with Wayward Wife and Divorce Filing by Ripken8 @ Yesterday at 07:05 PM

And sandi yes, she did file for divorce and again mention her lawyer today. However, what am I supposed to do? You make it sound like the divorce is enevitable at this point and I just need to accept well be divorced and move on. Winka and others hav
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Jump to new posts Re: MY STORY IS UGLY BUT AT LEAST IM LEARNING by MrBond @ Yesterday at 07:05 PM

The DB coach is right. And in terms of your porn use, I would have your computer blocked if you can't control yourself. Get rid of any magazines or porn items that you have at home so you're not tempted. Again, have you ever had sex addiction therap
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Separated for a month and don't know what to do by ESOED @ Yesterday at 07:01 PM

I think I am going to have to. It is driving me crazy. How to do it is where I am struggling.
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Jump to new posts Re: Memento by Zues126 @ Yesterday at 06:57 PM

First off, I want to thank all of the posters that have supported me and helped me on my journey. Equally I appreciate the positive comments for those that have said kind things about the progress I've made and that some of my words have been helpfu
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Jump to new posts Re: Still confused.. Still mixed messages. Pt 4 by Eirinn @ Yesterday at 06:55 PM

Hi Cherry, hope things are going well for you. I came on to catch up with you and see that you haven't been on for a few days. Hope you are on a mad shopping trip!!
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Jump to new posts Re: drop the rope- part II by Eirinn @ Yesterday at 06:51 PM

Zephyr, you are doing well. Maybe you should try what my IC suggested for me. When I find a thought going through my mind when things are going well (like he's here but I think he's lying to me), that I should acknowledge the thought and then visua
Midlife Crisis
Wonka, I have to say you're a bit cold on this one. Quote:It seems to me that you are stuck/hung up on the 'requirement' that true forgiveness equates to being asked for it. Why is that for you? I am just trying to understand your POV here. People h
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Jump to new posts Re: Another WW/WAW, Need Guidance by JAS84 @ Yesterday at 06:48 PM

Charity walk was good. S4 pounded out those 3 miles like a champ! Lots of fun and games at the starting area as well. Afterwards, we went to the restaurant my stepmother works at for lunch. After an early start to the day, both of us are in need
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Put one foot in front of the other by Eirinn @ Yesterday at 06:40 PM

Zephyr and Cherry, I’m sorry I haven't responded sooner, but I was away on vacation with my son. I have to say that both of your posts made me cry (in a good way). I have been feeling so down recently and confused and you both had points that remin
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Ripken - LRT with Wayward Wife and Divorce Filing by Ripken8 @ Yesterday at 06:33 PM

Will do wonka. Sandi, we haven't had dinner she told me before she even started which is why I told her the speech. Right after she asked me to pick up food for her and told her no. Felt she needed to know why and my boundaries. From reading all ur p
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Jump to new posts Re: Separated for a month and don't know what to do by Cadet @ Yesterday at 06:17 PM

Originally Posted By: ESOEDWell, after asking her today if she still has hope for our marriage, she said, "Not in the same way that you do." She just said that she isn't considering reconciliation or divorce right now and that she is focus
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Jump to new posts Re: Letting Go by Wonka @ Yesterday at 06:13 PM

Heavy, You're are most definitely on the right track! I think that W crying to you and getting emotional is the first stage in looking inward. That is a very good sign. What you've been doing is WORKING. I wouldn't rebuild a friendship with W
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Jump to new posts Re: Control sited as to why an affair by StuartH @ Yesterday at 06:11 PM

thanks MCS I have the book to read through soon. Funny thing is that I have seen how easy it is to have an affair, as all I have done is stopped the very clear I am married and happy, to I may be interested when chatting with (eg mums at the school
For Newcomers
Sandi, This is the first time Rip has said the not willing to live in an open M speech to his W. Rip, Well done. Now you go dark and GAL. Let your L do all the paperwork and communications on the legal stuff. Don't do family activities wi
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Jump to new posts Re: Separated for a month and don't know what to do by ESOED @ Yesterday at 06:05 PM

Well, after asking her today if she still has hope for our marriage, she said, "Not in the same way that you do." She just said that she isn't considering reconciliation or divorce right now and that she is focusing on getting herself bett
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