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Hi Heavy, just caught up on your sitch last few days. It does seem to me that things are shifting somewhat and that you have become more powerful within the sitch. Your W does seem to be feeling some regret and reaching out a little, acknowledging so
Also I have been studying the 37 rules daily. How we with a ww who filed for divorce do these really still apply in my sitch? She seems too far gone. I'm second guessing everything and it's hard to believe she en has the slightest hesitation about
Bringing this over from Cal's thread. AJ wrote: Quote:Not carrying anger nor resentment doesn't require forgiveness. It does require acceptance of what happened and a decision to not carry that anger and resentment. But to me, forgiveness does re
Holy Shid AJ...YOU just made this do-able for me. I CAN DO THIS ^^^ Acceptance + CHOICE...There's what I've needed to hear. I NEED to feel the CHOICE in the matter because I've had too many things done TOO me without my consent. This last step is M
Latest iTunes down load 'Don't want to miss a thing' Aerosmith. Not even his genre of music. I am reading far too much here. I am hurting so much thinking it is for the OW. A message for me? Mind reading and wishful thinking! :-(
Thanks Guys!! Added more info to my Mint.com. Looking at numbers and facing the debt. It's not as bad as some, I know. Still pi$$es the living end outta me. I swear, I think this Rat Bastard coulda screwed his way through an army of skanks and it
Quote:When I'm feeling this way I find myself thinking things like "there are couples that are able to use porn together and still be functional, there are woman that would indulge my desires if in return I was accepting of their shortcomings&qu
Nothing wrong with continuing to try to put your family back together. I'm trying the same thing - to put my marriage back together. Nothing wrong with the intent. However, it doesn't seem to be working. Looks to me like nothing but cheeseless tunnel
And sandi yes, she did file for divorce and again mention her lawyer today. However, what am I supposed to do? You make it sound like the divorce is enevitable at this point and I just need to accept well be divorced and move on. Winka and others hav
The DB coach is right. And in terms of your porn use, I would have your computer blocked if you can't control yourself. Get rid of any magazines or porn items that you have at home so you're not tempted. Again, have you ever had sex addiction therap
First off, I want to thank all of the posters that have supported me and helped me on my journey. Equally I appreciate the positive comments for those that have said kind things about the progress I've made and that some of my words have been helpfu
Zephyr, you are doing well. Maybe you should try what my IC suggested for me. When I find a thought going through my mind when things are going well (like he's here but I think he's lying to me), that I should acknowledge the thought and then visua
Wonka, I have to say you're a bit cold on this one. Quote:It seems to me that you are stuck/hung up on the 'requirement' that true forgiveness equates to being asked for it. Why is that for you? I am just trying to understand your POV here. People h
Charity walk was good. S4 pounded out those 3 miles like a champ! Lots of fun and games at the starting area as well. Afterwards, we went to the restaurant my stepmother works at for lunch. After an early start to the day, both of us are in need
Zephyr and Cherry, I’m sorry I haven't responded sooner, but I was away on vacation with my son. I have to say that both of your posts made me cry (in a good way). I have been feeling so down recently and confused and you both had points that remin
Will do wonka. Sandi, we haven't had dinner she told me before she even started which is why I told her the speech. Right after she asked me to pick up food for her and told her no. Felt she needed to know why and my boundaries. From reading all ur p
Originally Posted By: ESOEDWell, after asking her today if she still has hope for our marriage, she said, "Not in the same way that you do." She just said that she isn't considering reconciliation or divorce right now and that she is focus
Heavy, You're are most definitely on the right track! I think that W crying to you and getting emotional is the first stage in looking inward. That is a very good sign. What you've been doing is WORKING. I wouldn't rebuild a friendship with W
thanks MCS I have the book to read through soon. Funny thing is that I have seen how easy it is to have an affair, as all I have done is stopped the very clear I am married and happy, to I may be interested when chatting with (eg mums at the school
Sandi, This is the first time Rip has said the not willing to live in an open M speech to his W. Rip, Well done. Now you go dark and GAL. Let your L do all the paperwork and communications on the legal stuff. Don't do family activities wi
Well, after asking her today if she still has hope for our marriage, she said, "Not in the same way that you do." She just said that she isn't considering reconciliation or divorce right now and that she is focusing on getting herself bett