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Originally Posted By: alpha99She tried to continue the conversation by asking about the children, who was picking them up, dropping them off for school etc. She was being strangely nice and I found it very, very annoying. PARENTING PLAN. Parentin
Right, but then do I tell H that I've invited X, too? I am getting myself confused here. If I try to assuage any jealousy that he may be feeling (which I have no reason to believe anyway) isn't that kind of pursuit? And I'm not trying to make him fee
Originally Posted By: Mac00" . . . You said you wanted to stay until summer and the oldest is out of school. . . " I would only accept that arrangement if she did the NC and full transparency. Otherwise, you're signing on for four more
Think you may be on to something tho. It could be the 'poor me' reaction to her "soulmate" turning out to be a douche, and her husband apparently moving happily (not really, but GAL is bloody effective) on...hence a lot of the questions reg
This evening has been quite a bit of fun but at the same time very hard emotionally. I have been out with the children. We had a good time. My mother came, she is not very bright, and was more harm than help. Anyway, I took the children back and
Betsey, My STBX is from around the Syracuse area. I don’t know how much of his professed insularity is real and how much of it is a pose. He has actually lived in quite a few places. He went to college close to home – but then at some point his sen
Didn't say anything about working on the marriage. I said to her, "Look, I can't prove you right or wrong when it comes to what you believe has or hasn't happened in this marriage. You said you wanted to stay until summer and the oldest is out o
So far, all I've gained is this:1. she is pissed, and said she's finished, that its ending. 2. She 'thinks' its best for us to be seaparate, as both her/mother think my GAL, and our past (my independance in a computer room) displays my disinterest in
Bing, if you set the boundary then you need to make sure to stick to it. I think she will probably test you, but you need to stick to it and remain strong with your decision. I have seen other situations where people went back on their boundaries an
Yea Starsky, I am kicking myself for not listening to you a year ago. My life might be totally different if I had been more consistent in following your advice. Listen to everything Starsky tells you. He knows his stuff.
Is she willing to go full no-contact with her OM (sending him a letter, the content of which is approved by you and you mail it as well) and become fully transparent with you, and work on the marriage for some defined period of time (no less than six
Originally Posted By: Starsky309Complex, the more I follow your sitch and learn about these interactions, the more I'm convinced that your challenge is more of a "career path" one than a "marriage/infidelity' one. I think if your wife
More movement W seems to be in a bit of pain with her neck. She called late yesterday towards the end of the day in reply to my TM asking if I needed to pick up S or since she was off (and is closer) if she was planning on picking him up. I TM her
Toots- I can't explain how or exactly when I started to get there. I would get so frustrated reading other's posts about how detached they were in such a shorter time than me. I will say the following may have helped me... * I finally accepted that
Originally Posted By: twinmomChange the locks/install an alarm that triggers a call to the police. State "treating this house like a hotel and waking me up is disrespectful, you can either be a respectful person or leave" "I told y
Welcome to the board Sorry you are here but you will meet some wonderful people here and get some great advice. The first thing you should do is be sure to read the Divorce Remedy (DR) book by MWD http://www.mcssl.com/store/mwdtc2014/ http://divorc
Originally Posted By: jobThe "major" driver of MLC is depression, as well as childhood issues. There was a book that I read about depression many years ago that stated that depression is about the past and anxiety is about the future. I a
Change the locks/install an alarm that triggers a call to the police. State "treating this house like a hotel and waking me up is disrespectful, you can either be a respectful person or leave" "I told you there were boundaries and
Okay, good. This information helps a lot. The Love Dare is a ......sweet little book if there is not a WAS or wayward spouse in the M. I personally do not believe it works when you have a WAW. like most men, you were doing what you thought was s