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For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Moving Out but moving on? by edz @ Yesterday at 01:36 PM

So S's bed turned up, all set up in there now. Got a bedside table from Argos last night and built it ready. Let's see what excuse I get from W next!
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: New to DB - Need Help! - Pt 3 by Okabe @ Yesterday at 01:19 PM

"I have no doubt I'm codependent." -Try reading "Co-Dependent No More" by Melody Beattie if you haven't. Might be helpful.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: New to DB - Need Help! - Pt 3 by Rzrback @ Yesterday at 01:06 PM

Originally Posted By: VanillaAre you too obsessed with OM? Absolutely. OM is a symptom not a cause,. This particular brand of moral bankrupt is distracting you from dealing with you. I counted the number of times he was mentioned against a couple o
LRT
Jump to new posts Re: LRT transition by Cadet @ Yesterday at 01:02 PM

Originally Posted By: T-MomThanks! :o) ... and please, with me... always be honest! Obviously you dont know too much about cadets, they are required to be honest. It is part of the HONOR CODE!
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: my sich by Cadet @ Yesterday at 12:55 PM

Originally Posted By: T-Mom I just know that we never really have resolved the SSM thing, and I certainly tipped that first domino, (unintentionally and unknowingly)so I always keep in mind that all of this is related and I bear a huge part of the r
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Confusion is getting better, I think... by Okabe @ Yesterday at 12:44 PM

On the upside I do have some GAL progress. Although a lot will wait until after the holidays. - Started a blog. 3 posts so far and will start promoting it at some point. (need to get my own laptop) -Going to start bowling with my best friend on Su
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts MLC = my last chance by 123Gwen @ Yesterday at 12:37 PM

Old thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2496987#Post2496987
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Going Down Hill 2 by ganb8te @ Yesterday at 12:28 PM

Sorry Zed. That sounds really tough to endure. I'm not up to speed on your thread but I agree with HP - don't send the text unless she picks things up in a similar vein. If you do send a text - maybe try something a little lighter like "Happy to
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: MLC for crazy making!!! by 123Gwen @ Yesterday at 12:24 PM

Hi BBlove, So sorry you find yourself here as well. Just wanted to say hello and let you know you have lots of support. Hang in there.
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Jim0987 #5 - working on cat like readiness by jim0987 @ Yesterday at 11:34 AM

So i got into a relationship discussion with my wife this morning. it was spread out over a bit of time and i certainly couldnt give a complete transcript but heres the general stuff it might be a little jumbled in ordering. There was no anger in my
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: MLC for crazy making!!! by Cadet @ Yesterday at 10:32 AM

Originally Posted By: BBloveOh cadet... After reading MLC for dummies I'm sure H is in the depths of a full blown mlc but there was a link to a thread on another older post for mlc vs was. Do you still have it? Just would like to read more about that
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Confusion is getting better, I think... by Okabe @ Yesterday at 10:09 AM

Thanks. It was impulsive. I was thinking about it. While it was tolerated it is still not what I need. I need her to want that from me, not it to be tolerated by her for my sake. I am so (lots of emphasis on so) used to being the person who takes
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: New to DB - Need Help! - Pt 3 by MrBond @ Yesterday at 09:50 AM

Hmmm it appears as if someone from the MB site has been lurking in the shadows here reading my situation and rather than ask about it here mrwondering's gone back to MB to attack me there. Some people just don't have anything better to do with their
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: New to DB - Need Help! - Pt 3 by Vanilla @ Yesterday at 09:48 AM

Are you too obsessed with OM? Absolutely. OM is a symptom not a cause,. This particular brand of moral bankrupt is distracting you from dealing with you. I counted the number of times he was mentioned against a couple of other threads, try this you
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: New to DB - Need Help! Pt 2 by MrBond @ Yesterday at 09:46 AM

Hmmm it appears as if someone from the MB site has been lurking in the shadows here reading my situation and rather than ask about it here mrwondering's gone back to MB to attack me there. Some people just don't have anything better to do with their
Surviving the Big D
Jump to new posts Re: Landlord Adventures by WenikiTiki @ Yesterday at 08:01 AM

Thanks job. I was thinking about you the other day, too. I was puttering around my own house. And thinking a few years ago I wouldn't have seen it happening. I always appreciated all the kind words and advise from this forum. Aloha!
Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy
Jump to new posts Re: Need help. Jefe wants to change himself. Pt 7 by Hope414 @ Yesterday at 06:52 AM

Jefe, I think you have done a phenomenal job. All people need to do is read your first post to your last. They will see how you have learned not to take the bait, give your wife space, and when something will result in an unnecessary argument you ha
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Inside my chrysalis 7 by Ss06 @ Yesterday at 06:20 AM

Thanks, Cali, I definitely didn't ask for this. I also think H thinks everything will just always be how it has always been except we won't be married. Well, he's in for a rude awakening. Although, I will say, D was super upset that a bunch of p
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Inside my chrysalis 7 by CaliGuy @ Yesterday at 06:02 AM

Ss .... I get it .. .but you should not feel any guilt, you did not ask for all this ya know? Maybe they just missed you because they had no one else they could ignore .. KIDDING Holidays seem to sugar up the Drama-llamas for whatever reason ... t
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: THIS is where the MAGIC happens. by CaliGuy @ Yesterday at 05:54 AM

Wow Shining .. handled as well as one could in my opinion. Reading and thinking aloud .. the "fix-it" issue ... it just hit me, I wonder if we do this more for us than it ever was for them ya know? I realized today I could have so easily he
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Inside my chrysalis 7 by Ss06 @ Yesterday at 05:52 AM

So 18 years of thanksgivings together. 18 years of spending thanksgiving with H's parents, who are NOT the most fun people to be around. Critical, complaining, bickering, high maintenance, unwelcoming, cold, unsupportive and I've basically had to b
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: MLC for crazy making!!! by BBlove @ Yesterday at 05:46 AM

Oh cadet... After reading MLC for dummies I'm sure H is in the depths of a full blown mlc but there was a link to a thread on another older post for mlc vs was. Do you still have it? Just would like to read more about that. Thanks!
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: MLC for crazy making!!! by BBlove @ Yesterday at 05:44 AM

Thanks cadet!!! Starting reading so tonight and LOOOOOOOOOOVE both the lighthouse story and the MLC for dummies. mLc for dummies like scary right on down to exact verbiage. Wow! Thanksgiving was good. Spent the day at an amusement park with my sibli
Midlife Crisis
Jump to new posts Re: Staying Focused by BrightFuture @ Yesterday at 05:37 AM

Hey Mighty, I’m glad your S17 calmed down a bit. I know what it is like to have a rebellious teenager. My son was the one when he was 16-17. I think I grew a lot of grey hair during that time. I hope you son will figure it out. It is a lot handle fo
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: 2 weeks to destroy a marriage by justbob @ Yesterday at 05:32 AM

Hope you had a good Thanksgiving. Please take everything I say here with a grain of salt (or more!) You are living your situation and I am far removed in many ways, now. But I think I had to deal with some of these same type issues almost 50 years
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