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I am going to give W plenty of space from now on. I will only contact for D purposes. Like I said, however Christmas turns out I will make the most of it. Its just tough when you have this picture in your mind of how things are going to pan out, then
3, what a great and awful post. I love that you are having good times now, and that you watched the movie without H and allowed yourself to enjoy it. But, like I feel with many of the other great people here, it makes me sad (and kind of angry som
D- She clearly wants a relationship with you on some level or else she would not be trying to talk to you and/or say that she is confirmed. So there are consequences. Plus, this really is not about punishing her. It is about protecting yourself.
Sorry you had a rough night. Have you tried a glass of wine before bed? If not sleeping is become a real problem, maybe you should talk to your doctor about a sleep aid. Either that or a natural health practioner if you'd prefer a non-chemical aid.
Originally Posted By: Fartiltre W, You made the decision to brake us up and I don’t want to confuse the children or others about the two of us … me attending a little private birthday might just do exactly that Let's go back to your very first post
D, I still think you are using D as a way to control and/or punish your W. And I can almost guarantee it will backfire. I totally get it that the uncertainty $ucks. I mean, it really, really does. But then I remind myself that if I push my H righ
AT - I read through your posts and I see that you talk a lot about what changes you think that your wife would like to see. What do YOU want to change about yourself? Do you want to lose weight? Do you want to get in shape? Do you want to chang
Good to "see" you! Your update today sounds much different than your previous update. Can you elaborate more with what your W has been doing? How are your interactions? Has there been any D talk? You are still pretty early on in this p
Absolutely - all of those things you said apply to me too, especially the texting part. The consequences of continuing the affair are no relationship with me but when she wants space and hence no relationship/contact with me anyway, there is no real
Dingo, you did exactly what we were talking about in an earlier thread (I think it was Fartiltre's) . . . your W offered you her finger, and you ate her arm off. I know it is sooooo easy to do!! But you have to remember that nothing is going to chan
D - I totally understand the having trouble enforcing the boundary. H keeps saying that he wants to hang out with me, or go to a movie, or just be normal. I would love to do all of those things if OW was not in the picture. But I feel like I canno
AT, I agree with the others about your W not respecting you. Telling you things like, "get over it" are just proof of that. She either doesn't understand or doesn't care that you are drowning in this M. Continuing to complain to her, acc
Thanks for the support 3bm. I felt like I did so well initially. She was talking about how she wished she rented a month to month place but thought that it wouldn't be a problem to get out of the lease if she wanted to move back in. I told her that I
Happy belated birthday, Pud! I don't know what to say to answer your question, but you seem to be doing well in your circumstances. Whatever you're doing, it's working. I know it's not to your satisfaction, but you're not doing or saying things that
Barb, Hope you get some answers on the diabetes thing. My D16 is pre-diabetic, which we treat with a more strict diet. So far it's been very successful. My dad was diagnosed last summer, and he has not taken the proper steps to keep it in check. He
Originally Posted By: TSquared2That's ducT tape Mach...sheesh... Oh.... I guess my Redneck roots are showing... I still get excited at the chance to use DucT tape... : ) Oh, and be careful there, "Preparing the Duck" probably means
AnotherStander, Thanks for the follow up. Your comments make perfect sense to me. W and the OM are definitely in the throws of the "puppy love" phase. She continues to deny that there is anything "real" going on in terms of her f