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Hey Sherman, a new voice on my thread. Thanks for taking the time to come by. I've tried the rubber band technique actually and had partial success. I had to use my last one for a bike repair so I'll have to find another. I'm a 'nice guy'. That's a
Thank you all. I really am and will be ok. I know I may have to choose to either live in a house that's for sale or to rent for a year; and if that's the case then I will live in a house for sale and pay my sitter to help with more of the chores. I
Quote:OD - Seems like you couldn't give a flying f*** about me. I just read part of your stitch. You're feeding her ego with these lines... like you can't live without her; which isn't true. You're letting her cake eat emotionally. The point yo
For me I think it is a combination of a need to express myself or speak or perhaps even try to rationalize the situation, and the idea that the next talk would be influential. It was very hard for me to stop expressing myself, and learn the valuabl
Right now I think what's the point, she's gone and I'm sure she won't come back even if I do become the man only a fool would leave. Maybe in the morning it'll be sunny. Sounds very stormy out there now though.
Here's another odd one... Tonight was W's night to pick up S7. She picked him up around 5:30 p.m. I got home around 6:45 p.m. He'd been fed and they were just completing his homework. She was texting almost constantly when I was home and by 7:00 p
Originally Posted By: Old DogYeah I know Claire. I'm so bad at DBing ... still. I don't think I'll ever be able to do it. Um... try to spin that around. the only way to get better at something is to actually practice it, and for that, you have to
So H had my car yesterday and when I went into it today it had the passenger temperature controls on. Just makes me suspicious. Our car has been having some electrical issues too though, so I don't know. I guess I should just stop noticing things
Another gem from this morning's convo. WW - Yeah, clearly you are angry. I know that you are angry, I know that you are hurt. Don’t think ever that I don’t know that you are hurt. Don’t think that it’s not going to stay with me. Don’t think that I’m
OD... sorry you had that experience. But you've got to start letting go. Why would she want to work it out with someone who cuts her off, doesn't listen, dismisses her feelings? If you read this exchange from a different perspective, that's what
Obviously this is just MY opinion as I cannot recall anything in the DB or DR books about it. Before I comment below, let me say that for the most part you sound a lot healthier and less angry. So I found the post about Easter surprising actually.
We are all here for you, Maybell. So sorry just now to read you were crying today. I know. I know. I've never been a big fan of Linkedin, always thought it was kind of lame. I'm only on there because everyone pretty much has to be now for career stuf
Sandi, I have been trying to detach from my wife. It has taken me years to ralize how unhappy I was with who I had become as a codependent person who relied upon a woman to make me happy. My wife had enough of my grumpiness, and all the rest, checked
I'm lying in bed thinking of the convo we had this morning and recalled this. WW - OK I know you don’t want me to be here and it’s obviously too difficult for you to look at and OK, that’s fine but we cannot risk that (me swearing at her in anger -
Quote:Can any wives check in on the complete loss of all desire to be intimate. To me this just seems very unhealthy for her to be feeling this way? I want to shake you and tell you to listen! You are getting the vets, those who have experienced t
Thank you Zeus, I haven't read the book, I thought it was more for people trying to get a spouse back. If they have things in there regarding someone with depression, it'll be a book I get/order tonight. I'm happy to hear you are better! I have li
Originally Posted By: Zues126 I don't think she's evil. We're all human. Trust me, I haven't lost sight of my issues. I consider this whole exchange one of them, it's way more about me than her. So it's not about her being "bad". I'm h
Welcome to the board Sorry you are here but you will meet some wonderful people here and get some great advice. The first thing you should do is be sure to read the Divorce Remedy (DR) book by MWD http://www.mcssl.com/store/mwdtc2014/ http://divorc
Danigirl, glad you found this board. Some good advice will be coming your way shortly, what I can say for now is: -Slow down. Don't look ahead at the next 30 years. Focus on the next 30 days for now. -Read DB/DR. They talk a lot about the depres
Oh, why is it that the tax code is designed to hurt us that are separated from our spouses? Yes, I assembled my tax documents (for self-employed people it takes some time, it's not just looking at a W-2). So what did I learn? You cannot claim the Ea