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Good morning. Okay before I reply I want to check in here...got a text from WAW this morning. She told me she has given her notice at her job and her last day is in mid-September. Her move to FL is the end of September. How and when should I reply? S
yeah Turn , I printed that tibit off and have read it several times already . It makes a fella feel like time will pass and eventually she will come back . If she does come back i feel optimistic it can work out . These days shes very messed up . i d
W and I talked yesterday about me picking up the bags and about D7 wanting to stay more at my place. We did it on the phone and then again later when I picked up the bags. We agreed upon me having a day more every second week that is scheduled and t
Dpthght, your situation is so similar to mine. My WAW suffers from depression. I have been trying to get her to be more social for a few years. She started an EMBA program in March and began spending lots of time with a group of students there (or
No! I don't get the impression at all that you are doing nothing! Really. I get impression that you expending a lot of energy looking at the insanity of the situation as opposed to making yourself sane. Keep up the Good Fight Matt. YOU can do this!!
welcome back dawgy- It really is crazy what they say to justify the A sometimes. I can't make sense out of much these days. Don't try to figure it out. Look at what mrbond posted on my thread about being the lighthouse. It is helping me. hang in th
Hey all . Dawgy here . I m still hanging on . Wife has been having a PA and EA for 9 months now . lol so much for being one of the lucky ones when the affair burns out inside of six months .Just my luck . She said something funny to me ( or at least
((((((((((Ats))))))))))) Take care of yourself today. Put your needs first. Don't diminish what you are experiencing. The grief and pain is real and deserves your full compassion. What do you need to take of YOU today?? Pamper yourself and reassur
It's OK Heather, I don't mind "harsh". I've done some of those things. My lawyer told me that unless my D14 tells the court that she wants to live with me, there is nothing I can do about keeping her with me. Unless I can prove my W is crac
The hardest part about all of this is you have to forget about the OM. I know, its almost impossible. I need some vets to back me up on this one. Don't snoop, spy or ask questions. It will only push her away. I'm telling you the day after I stop
Thank you Lois. I asked him why he didn't tell me and his answer was because you don't want to talk about D stuff. "Talk about" no I don't want to but a sentence, I decide to file and my Atty put in the motion today. Heads up would have bee
Thanks bdub, yes she told me there was someone else the day she told me she no longer loved me and wanted out. I had to confront her about what was wrong as she had been acting off and distant for a couple weeks. I'm going to go read your sitch now.
Horrible night. Everyone get your 2x4s ready. I know they are coming. I asked H about doing an in home separation last night. He balked. I was not happy. I don’t understand why he says he wants to work on the M but still won’t fully recommit.
Quote:You have to stop worrying about if things will get uglier, you know they will. You have to stop letting it control and consume you. Has there been and legal order on where your daughter will live? If not then I suggest your daughter at 14 tear
GG, MLCers like to talk babble speak. You have to really listen to what they are saying and sift through the garbage to get to the bottom of the babble. Body language will tell you more about what your h. Be patient, but listen and do not try to r
Originally Posted By: topgunmbWell, since the forum maintenance wiped out my last reply to you, I'm glad to see you made it through the settlement signing without too many bruises. As for what's happening now, that's a tough one. Perhaps she's noti
Long day yesterday. She texted me and told me she misses her best friend, which was me. She said that she wants to be friends because we were that before anything else. This threw me through a loop because we were instantly lovers. Well, it was texts
Hi Matt, You have to stop worrying about if things will get uglier, you know they will. You have to stop letting it control and consume you. Has there been and legal order on where your daughter will live? If not then I suggest your daughter at 14
Small update: dance teacher came by and said he had heard W and I are getting divorced. We then proceeded to have a discussion, during which his advice was to "find the lion" in me (i.e. react, get angry, push back). He had heard this via
Oh gg, Yay for the make up arriving soon, I just signed up for bella beauty box, every month you get new beauty products delivered in a pretty box, I'm all for new girly stuff! how ddid you freak a guy out? And mediation does not sound fun at all, d
Originally Posted By: LisaB... but let's be honest, I'm pretty terrific. All right, now there's a PMA to be proud of. Your WAH may be chasing other women, sounds desperate to me, but how is he getting on there I wonder. And for the last couple of