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It's just business to the lawyers - they don't have the vested personal interest that we do and they are coordinating multiple cases. I was surprised by that too - they are by far the slowest part of this. Glad to hear D 14 is a little better.
More tears from D14 last night, but not as many. We both got a better night's sleep. Tomorrow I meet with H to fill out affidavit. I'm hoping this will speed up the process -- why does it take so long for the lawyers to coordinate everything? I reall
Thanks Sandi. Your feeling is right. I am testing out tactics and she knows it. No action and no conviction. And I'm not even doing the tactics correctly. Step 1: I read DR cover to cover and learn everything i can. I've done enough damage talking a
Believe it or not, I do understand, Alpha. Remember, I went through all of this too, and I STILL get triggers every now and again, almost 8 years later! A certain song on the radio, maybe driving by where OM lived or where the divorce mediator
I'm getting nervous about OM coming into town. She hasn't told me that he's coming in yet. I won't say anything to her until after he leaves. I'm trying to be very patient, but it really bothers me that she has shown little to no remorse for her A
W has a few days at work from tonight onwards. That might make little contact easier. I'm experience 'the fear' right now that stepping back might lead her to get over things quicker. I know since I've read the books this is what I need to do at t
I somehow feel a little funky today and also very determined that I want to save my M. I don't think I was able to a few weeks/months ago. But I just feel like I got what it takes now to do the rights things. For myself and DB. I don't know if I was
Here's another details from the spout from my WAW The last time I saw her she said later via text - you may remembe this is the coffee shop encounter where she literally ran away. I am tired of hurting and tired of you hurting me, all I am left
You guys are right. Thanks for being my voice of reason yet again! I *know* logically I can't have any clue what's going on in his head and thinking he doesn't care is mindreading. I also know that other things could be going on in there that he's
Sandi2 Thank you so much for the tough advice. As much as I don't like hearing it everything you say is correct. I received my DB book today and have read 2 chapters so far. Considering we are getting crushed by snow and I will not be able to go
You should see her in a dress BA...whew! I wouldn't say she's entered my life...she's on the outskirts looking in lol. I have no intention of letting SDA lady back into my life, my days of playing caregiver are done. That said, there was real affecti
Been trying to post to other's threads. It's time I gave more back, considering how much help I've gotten here. It's also helpful to me to read other's sitches. I'm in very good shape in my sitch compared to many others. Perspective helps. Still
Z ((())) I think the most important thing is to know, right now, you don't have to make any choices. You can continue to live life one day at a time. I think in order to move down the path towards D, you need to be absolutely certain, and know tha
Originally Posted By: alpha99I have listened to all your advice. I feel like I'm doing well personally. Reduced time with kids is hard though. I suppose I have to give this more time...but.I'm caught between how to proceed. I think you do know
I have a coaching session booked with Amanda for next Tuesday. I'm a little stuck at the moment as my last post suggests. Ah this thing can drive you mad. Although things aren't getting worse I do feel like the reduced face to face contact has mad
I absolutely agree with what kml said. Quote:It seems crazy, but sometimes the WAS seems compelled to re enact their childhood trauma. My ex left just when our kids were the same age he was when his mom left. My xh has married someone (not the orig
Quote:I mean there are days that it feels like we made some great progress (now I still stay lovenly detached)but then the next day it's like im the damn antichrist. I try to stay in an upbeat mood and try not to let her get to me. when she does I l