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Hands old dog a home Made snag roll. Lines them up for the other visitors. Is ok I gal with some exercise today! Well I jumped to a conclusion, very easily done. H cousin is getting my son to work for him this week on his farm. When he rings to or
Well. Less bitter than yesterday. That wasn't helped by it being the anniversary of us first meeting which I held as a tradition each year w was never the overtly emotional one so no surprise she doesn't seem to care. There are just days where I thi
[I suppose the thing I really can't get My head round is that she has emotionally detached and the way to save my M is for me to do the same...] Jim, I have the same problem. WAW seems to be a model of detachment. But that's the way it is. Concentra
Boundaries. That's something I really don't know anything about. I enjoy reading your thread gg. Just thought I'd let you know. And now for a joke. How did the hipster burn himself with his dinner? He ate it before it was cool. (Not so) Old Dog
I suppose the thing I really can't get My head round is that she has emotionally detached and the way to save my M isfir me to do the same..... I'm finding this really hard. But I do know that I need to be a good father and get on with my own life.
Jim. Read and digest what Ahoy said. (Excellent advice Ahoy) My DB coach advised me to treat my wife as if she was my sister. Also look up destch with love. The pages about detaching and letting go. (Not do) Old Dog xx
I did well last night. He didn't. I thought we'd had this great date night. We got home after the movie, watched some tv together and then I started falling asleep. So I asked if we could go watch in bed. He said he'd be in in a few minutes. He never
Thanks for believing in me, Bright. Sometimes, I amaze myself! I'm giving W my best for as long as I can... she deserves it. What she does with it is up to her. I'm convinced she's giving me her best at the moment. How could either of us g
Heather, I like job’s advice in sitting back and observing for now. I also agree with her that it will take a couple of months to get settled with your job. I started my job in May and just now I’m starting to feel very comfortable with it. Give your
Originally Posted By: 123Gwen I am posting here to learn more about DBusting techniques in a situation where H is almost 2000 miles away, in the midst of MLC and an A. I am reading everyday and moving forward while trying to protect myself financiall
FY, just catching up on your posts. I’m so sorry about your dog. It brought up the memories of our last dog that was sick and we had to put him down. We both were so devastated. That was before the BD. It took us a long time to recover from this loss
It's get better . So I'm working today and need D and S to go to W for dinner she is staying at MIL and she has told kids they can't because she is going to a works piss up. So much for her I will drop anything to see you both . Anyway kids have m
Thank you Wonka, T2, and job, for the kind words regarding our loss. Surprisingly to me, it hasn't been as hard on us as the loss of our first dog 16 and a half years ago was. I believe one reason for this is that we knew this day was coming for more
Jim; you are getting great advice. You need to focus on your GAL and being a great father for your young children. You can't make your wife do anything. However you can change yourself, which will force your W to interact with you differently. G
Zimmy.. It truly is unbelievable..how could these men love us so dearly one day then the next be totally detached?? I have no answer but I'm going to keep loving my husband regardless of the situation and as long as we have love in our hearts we can
Ok, so as mentioned in Claire's thread and a couple of others I kicked my self in the a$$ and went and filled the wheelie bin. It's recycling this week too. Seems you can save $ real easy if you do have a massive sort out, I found in the book shelf
Thank you FD! She just called. She was just now getting off work and called to tell me how it went and what she planned on doing with the kids tomorrow. Trying hard to not get my hopes up but enjoying every moment at the same time.
Shining, that hit deep with me, too. I am scared of this journey tonight because for the first time since I started DB, I don't think I can do it. I'm always checking Ss's threads because I'm rooting for her, but also because of some similarities in
I came by to check in and think "out loud" a little and didn't even realize my last thread was done - http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2497413&page=11 I don't really have anything profound or