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Thank you for the reassurance I'm doing the right thing. I've repeatedly told my lawyer I don't want to put the screws to her, I just wants what's fair, but the STBX has been nothing but unreasonable since almost the BD. So it goes.
I moved into my own apartment on the weekend. Wife & kids went north for the weekend so I took advantage of them not being there to move. It would have been too hard for me to see my kids watching daddy move out. I never heard from them since S
Great day in the morning. Ever have one of those days where you want to throw a brick through a plate glass window? Oh yes. Driving to work, I notice my tire is low. Great. Sigh. It's times like this Ben g married should come in handy!! Oh well, ro
Ok, I just read/reread Sandi's list of dos and don'ts.... So, I only can realistically do this in my heart....this bunch will have to go to the girls at work....:) Damn it's tough learning to have to live and love detached
Hi Linda! Always nice to have someone stop by! Originally Posted By: LindaMHaving no contact must be harder in some ways and easier in some ways than trying to remain detached while living in the same house as your MLCer. Are you able to block him
One more thing, T^2, you were clear with me last fall to give the message to my H it won't be "the same, only D". My L said the same thing. He frowned at me when I suggested my H could still have visitation at the house. Would you norm
This is how divorce lawyers make their money. They go for the big guns on the spouse that doesn't want the divorce or just wants it over with. I absolutely DO NOT recommend giving her what she wants for the sake of reconciliation. This is your fut
I'm definitely do not need daily contact. But I need my contact to be clear. I really don't feel like sitting there wondering IF there will be a next date. I also most definitely expect contact the day after a date. I need some clarity these days
T, I am so sorry to come here and read your posting. Do what you need to do for you, not as a wake up call for her. Someone will need to sit down w/her and advise her that things are going to drastically change if a divorce should go through, i.e.,
Oh, T^2! No 2X4's from me! I'm so sorry about this new and painful revelation! I too clearly remember the back-and-forth thing from last fall! H's continued insistence upon D (signing over cars, having documents drawn, financial accounts....ev
I hope I'm not stealing this, but I need some guidance on this as well. State law says 30% of net for child support for 3 kids. We are splitting custody, and that translates in places I've read to 15% of each income, the difference being paid from hi
Originally Posted By: AnotherStanderOriginally Posted By: PatientManWell now you got me all excited. What's the last resort after the LRT? Well there's letting go and then there's letting go. Some people say they are letting go, but they are reall
Quote:This guy is extremely intelligent and interesting. He's warm, open, fun, and thoroughly engaging in social situations. I could go on. I can see why his very demanding W picked him. Thanks for telling us. Maybe it helped to be around people wh
Im trying my best to not contact WAW but really want to. Just to keep line open . but i do not know what to do just yet. So I will wait till tomorrow. I guess I just feel lonely and just want to be and do things with her. But i guess now is not the
Thanks everyone!! It feels good to be where I am. After reading Kate's thread, I really started pondering what has been the greatest "shift" that has allowed me to find peace. I believe it is that I have no expecations. I don't do thing
Originally Posted By: steveh27Bad weekend - this is going nowhere. A friend mentioned to me that the W had friend-ed the OM on FB on 5/6, the day after her admitting EA to me ... and also "liked" the restaurant he works at a couple days ago
Tiny heartbeats...woo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So exciting!! You are going to have ups and downs. Expect them. There were days long stretches that I was just MAD I was pregnant. Not happy about having a baby...AT ALL! At first I beat myself up. "
I met with my OM twice post BD (I knew him prior to that). I honestly don't know how you haven't approached your OM by now, but the other people's advice is probably good so I won't offer anything contradictory. My encounters were just to set the r
Well folks, things have changed... Seems like she was making escape plans and biding her time. Can't go into the details, but what I glanced at was pretty clear, and very recent, very sneaky, and in her "mlc" handwriting style. I don't wa
Originally Posted By: jp787 Funny just before I came here just now I was trying to figure out how to see my strengths and talents. Guess what? Ha yup that's right I don't see any. That's bull [crap] and you know it. Set some time aside and start l
labug, why aren't I done? The only thing that's hitting the uncomfortable meter is that I have a little anger in my decision. I am clearly reacting to hurt and frustration and would like to clear away anger and bitterness in my heart. I was doing m