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So sorry you are facing these challenges. When you bring up the topic of affection as one of your needs (affection and not sex... for a lot of women, affection not related to sex is important & is what helps build their desire for sex) what does
Originally Posted By: Zues126I can't believe I still harbor this naive belief about the world but I can't help but think that our pain will be followed by some really good times ahead. I think so, too, Zues, but I have to say I felt that more strongl
I really wish XF had a better relationship with my parents. On days she has S4 I meet her to get him and take him for my mom to watch him while we are at work. Same thing after work... It just makes it tough seeing her twice a day, every day that
I understand the tone thing as well. That is something I've worked on for myself... if I am upset about something, then I don't say anything. I wait until I am calm and ok, then I say something. Otherwise, my tone is bound to betray me and push H awa
When he left I told him he can get them every other weekend..he has had excuses his past few weekends not to come get them..20 more days until court and I can't wait until everything is decided by a judge and in writing..i understand what you're sayi
Originally Posted By: Abe31Quote: Yep. Not much choice in this matter. That's why its best to turn your focus inward. So you posted a lot of words on your M. Let's talk about you: what do you believe you contributed to the downfall of your M?
Originally Posted By: Lost08I'm not ready to approach a L yet. Where we live, the law is "no fault" and regardless of what your spouse has done (short of physical abuse, I guess) everything is split 50/50. Its never a BAD idea to get more
One last post before work. Last night while looking up flight, accommodation etc for wedding trip W stated she thought we could not afford to both go. I Reacted badly as I took it as her not wanting to go. I was disappointed and immediately asked i
Originally Posted By: Smothy What if H never does? I know that it wouldn't of been so easy for him to let me go if it wasn't for his daily fix from OW. He might. He might not. But thinking you have any level of control over it will drive you cra
Raliced, sorry your D is having a hard time right now. I agree that some of it is just normal kid stuff, it does happen, they just get the weepies for no apparent reason. And I know that you are there for them day in and day out. You are a great m
Thank for coming to my thread Jenny. I have not had contact with WW for 3 months except by email through a third party and only about the kids. We have a mutual restraining order. Her attorney, for some reason, believes that this play will help he
Originally Posted By: RAIThanks Bravo. I actually softened my approach and outlined the reasons why going makes sense, and W acquiesced. RAI, this is good. When my kids are sassy, I tell them they can say the same thing and still get their point ac
JB, there are crazy cat ladies everywhere. I think I'm in the running for that, too. I currently have three kids, two cats, one dog, and no H. As the kids grow up and leave, I think I'll just replace them with more cats...
Originally Posted By: barbie7*that will make 8 weeks since he has seen them* I think you are focusing on the wrong thing. I get that OW isnt someone you care to be friends with or really even meet. But SHE is not the problem. She is a symptom of
SPD - Its time to at least consult with a lawyer. Find out what your rights actually are. You dont have to agree to anything she proposes and theres no sense in fighting with her bout it. Talk to a lawyer and see whats reasonable.. And I think yo
Sorry, Zues. How frustrating it must be to have an incompetent L for such a life-changing event as D. I hope the conversation goes well and that the L sees you are serious and shapes up. But I'm with Jim, maybe replacing her wouldn't be all that ba
Seems like one okay night of sleep is followed up by an anxiety filled night full of tossing and turning with hot flashes. I believe I've taken every OTC and natural remedy known to man with very little success. I'm tired, and when I am tired, I just
Hi Rysin, that sounds fair enough to me. You dealt with it in an authentic way, and with integrity & respect for her. Really the message was - hey, it just doesnt work for me to be text-chatting daily (like close friends or spouses) when you are
I still think he may have picked up something in Mexico and because he's not feeling well, he wants his mommy TLC and the dog there for comfort. When in doubt, do nothing. Yes, you are learning to choose your battles. I really do hope he feels bet