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dang igit. ever hear of having a vacation from drama? haha. It was really strange for your W to be angry at you for being the perfect dad, perfect husband, etc. She seems angry that in her mind, you are in a better mental state than she is. I wo
And, I can't forget to include this classic, that almost got lost in the update: Probably should have kept this one inside, but, oh well. Texts H: You're quiet Me: Am I? H: everything ok? (One of those speechless moments where I could say so
raliced, Thanks for the input and alternative perspective. I know there could be a million reasons why she keeps me away. And while some may be more likely than others, it really does me no good to speculate. I do think it is interesting what you
Friday, September 19 Reply from job: I am very sorry about what you had to deal w/today. Signing papers and doing walk thrus are difficult especially when a marriage is on rocky grounds at the time. Your h has a long ways to go and until he fig
Ok, in keeping with the journaling of events and progress, here are a couple of posts that disappeared from the update last weekend: Friday, September 19, 2014 House papers are all signed. I'm sad. At the same time, I don't want the house. I know t
I feel for you. It sounds like your kids are older. At least I dont have to deal with D2's pain. She quickly adjusted to the two households and has continued being the happiest little tot I've ever seen. Thank God for that girl and her joy. Also, tha
Well its been 8 days of NC. We have a company meeting in a few weeks, I might try to blow it off(truly making it NC). The problem I have now is I still have a few of her belongings. Do I break NC to get these back to her or wait till she asks for the
Keep in mind as you look through the various signatures on these boards that 8 weeks (which is almost the exact length of my situation) is nothing (although I can attest that it feels like forever). Whatever our various Walk Away Spouses are going th
Yes I started Db last jan and at first things were going real well right off the bat, but after only two weeks he said I was fake, a liar, and that he doesn't believe that the change was real or that it would last. And I do struggle with re
Well, lookie here...I'm smilin....good on you, sweetie. My neck of the woods, huh? Hmmm. So wish we could meet up... And yep, best not to let your mind wander to what he is doing. I can almost guarantee that it isnt anything at all what you are i
feeling lost tonight. hard to love someone and not show them for fear of losing them. Loving that WAW wants to help me with anything I need, but waits for me to ask, as she wants to not be pushy or bother. On the other hand, I don't want to ask her f
OK, apparently in the DB website update my new thread got deleted. Restarting it.... This statement resonates with me right now- I can be the lighthouse but I'm not jumping into the water to drag him back to shore. I'm standing and strong, but her
Wow, Mighty. I think the name really suits you! Following and hollering at you? Following you to to and from Lawyers office and texting you? All because HE got some young thing knocked up? Wow, now that IS crazy! As for the fact that "..she is
Seem to have lost my last response. Here's the shorthand version: Detaching: Without D2 is no problem. Salsa dancing on Monday's, kickball on Tuesdays. Gym 3 days a week. Trail running 3-4 days a week. And those are just the weekly activities. The p
Thanks for the reply Raliced.. Yeah I know PMA is a big thing, and the roller coaster is still happening (I'm not quite 8 weeks in yet), but it seems like every minute is another step further away.. Yep, I'm having a down couple of hours but I'll p
Go, Shining! Dang, girl... you are hitting your stride. You sound great. I get the, eh... not so much up for stuff. But then when you do something you like and get out, you realize how much you enjoy it. You know... appreciation of the little things.
Life, I think your candor with the parents was commendable. I also wanted to clarify that I wasn't insinuating this was your W's fault (I speed type on my phone) . I was trying to say your D being pregnant was the issue at hand and hopefully your W
One more update before heading to bed, 'cause my journaling impulse has been all bottled up the last few days. Managed to do my circuit (8 km/5 miles) in 58 minutes (basically 58 minutes exactly) tonight. That's a new record for me, having shaved o
Well, I lost several posts during the update...I saved them, tho. I may repost later. I spent the weekend fairly quiet. I read a TON, journaled, did some introspection, but I also made myself get out. <<<<< For the record, I did
What's up, Cali?! Thanks for poppin' in. Hmmmm.... temp check, you think? You know, in a way, I feel like he does wonder where I am at. I do think that he thought I would always "be there." The longest he has gone since nuke on July 7th is
I am now seeing some posts that were posted recently only a few hours show "Yesterday 11:15 PM"...that is more than a day out of whack. Something ins't right with the time stamp on the threads. You'll get some homemade velvet cupcakes s