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Jump to new posts Re: The lie continues... by CT1118 @ 9 minutes 29 seconds ago

Something happened in me today. I would guess it has been happening and maybe just arrived today. While reading MWD's books, the 180's, this site I had been pondering the concept of "do something different". Clearly above, I tired that with
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Jump to new posts Re: Newcomer: How did I get to where I am today? by Chippie @ 16 minutes 16 seconds ago

ugh. Reading this is like a rock in my stomache. His thing is predominantly emotionally and verbally abusive except for the one time I mocked him that it escalated to him breaking the door and kicking me out. I've gotten very angry as well. And you'r
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Jump to new posts Re: My third post - please be nice by RDS @ Today at 12:31 PM

Originally Posted By: collin I've gotten on this thing now (and I know it seems stupid) but when she says she's going HOME in reference to her apt, I tell her that's not her home. THIS is OUR home. I can't call it her home, I always refer to it as
Surviving the Big D
Jump to new posts Re: Shelob's Lair by Zues126 @ Today at 12:06 PM

Hi V! Yes, my parents are awesome and I am truly fortunate. Juju, you've asked a question that has two parts. What keeps me here, and what keeps me away from those other communities (Voice for Men/MGTOW for those just joining). What keeps me here
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Confessions of a failed mind reader by dream @ Today at 11:54 AM

It's nice to hear that I've been missed. Things were pretty busy in my life for awhile, but I plan to do more posting as well as reading now that things have calmed down! 1- I'm glad to hear you're making your home yours. Packing up random items th
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Jump to new posts Re: Confessions of a failed mind reader by AndrewP @ Today at 10:37 AM

Originally Posted By: Sottoyes absolutely I would pack all her stuff up, put it on the front porch & let her know she can come and get it. You of course will have a GAL activity when she does. I'm just packing it up to get it out from underfoot.
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Jump to new posts Re: My third post - please be nice by collin @ Today at 10:33 AM

Another Saturday waking up past noon. Just don't really have any reason to pull myself out of bed when I'm here alone. I still talk to W on a daily basis. The other day she came over and I cooked us dinner and we went back to her apt and we watche
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Jump to new posts Re: Offering Prayer by collin @ Today at 10:24 AM

Hey Bigybiz, I've been kind of quiet on here because I haven't really had any news to post. But how did counseling go? We went once and I thought it was really positive, but now W doesn't seem to want to go back. I don't know if she's scared of
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Jump to new posts Re: Confessions of a failed mind reader by AndrewP @ Today at 10:20 AM

dream - it's good to see you. I've missed your calm reasoning voice. 1 - I'm making the house "mine". Considering how much was taken there's not actually a lot to remove. The stuff that I'm boxing is stuff I don't want in my house. Her
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Jump to new posts Re: Yesterday's Gone, Tomorrow's not here... (5) by Vanilla @ Today at 10:20 AM

You are doing that which works! What do I know V
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Jump to new posts Re: Abuse Resource 2 (Vanilla and Zelda) D Advice by Vanilla @ Today at 10:13 AM

Vanillas post to chippie A couple of posters have asked me to check in on you and read your thread. Of all of the posters only a small number have exposure to serious abusive behavioural issues in a partner. Sometimes that includes behaviour of in
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Jump to new posts Re: What Should I be Doing (no direction 8) by Coconut @ Today at 10:10 AM

Oh, and posting here and supporting others is part of my GAL, I'm not going anywhere... I realize it's meaningful to let others see how the journey is on this side of it all.
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Jump to new posts Re: What Should I be Doing (no direction 8) by Coconut @ Today at 10:07 AM

Thank you all, your support is greatly appreciated.. I've been planning for this, I was 95% sure something was going on, but I didn't want to give up on M unless I knew for sure, so I suffered through knowing it was likely happening. Sandi, I think
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Jump to new posts Re: wife of 14 years walks out on her family by sandi2 @ Today at 09:59 AM

Okay, I am going to ask several questions, to get a better picture of your W and the MR. Has your W basically had the same personality since you M her? Does she have major mood swings? In order for you to feel you were making your W happy, would y
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: What Should I be Doing (no direction 8) by bigybiz @ Today at 09:52 AM

Coconut: A tough blow. My guess is you have most of the info you need now. You can dust yourself off and move forward on your own terms. Stay strong - our group is an small army who are behind you all the way.
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Jump to new posts Re: Focus on Me and my Boys 5 by Rose888 @ Today at 09:47 AM

Originally Posted By: JimKaodream, If she gets primary custody I will move there and also appeal to have 50/50 custody. If 50/50 can't happen then I will still move there to be close to my boys. So, if she gets primary custody, you want the cus
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Jump to new posts Re: Chapter 3. Let the detachment begin by Rose888 @ Today at 09:43 AM

I agree with SH--I don't see disrespect in your wife's email. It was brief, but it explained the reason for the request and acknowledged that it might be a problem for you and implied (by telling you to let her know if it was a problem) that she was
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Jump to new posts Re: What Should I be Doing (no direction 8) by JimKao @ Today at 09:40 AM

Coconut, I am sorry she was still hiding it from you. The WW is cruel. Keep posting we are here for you man!
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Jump to new posts Re: The start of something... new (again) by hawker @ Today at 09:40 AM

Ugh...that stinks!! Hamstrings injuries are painful and they take a long time to heal....just what you wanted to hear ...keep with the icing!!
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: What Should I be Doing (no direction 8) by hawker @ Today at 09:37 AM

Yes I third that...don't leave us, keep posting!!!
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: Focus on Me and my Boys 5 by JimKao @ Today at 09:30 AM

dream, If she gets primary custody I will move there and also appeal to have 50/50 custody. If 50/50 can't happen then I will still move there to be close to my boys.
For Newcomers
Year anniversary of WW moving out... Pretty surreal. Any thoughts on where I am at currently. I would love some opinions to make sure I stay grounded. Enjoy the weekend dbr's!
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Jump to new posts Re: What Should I be Doing (no direction 8) by Rose888 @ Today at 09:22 AM

So sorry to hear this. Best of luck, and I agree with Sandi--keep posting.
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Jump to new posts Re: The start of something... new (again) by betterm @ Today at 09:22 AM

Well, crap! just after I posted last one, I did some circuit training and ended up re-injuring my hamstring that was already partially strained/pulled from playing soccer last weekend... I took a shower and was hobbling downstairs when my W appeared
For Newcomers
Jump to new posts Re: What Should I be Doing (no direction 8) by sandi2 @ Today at 09:20 AM

(((Coconut))). I'm so sorry to hear this. I gave her more benefit of doubt than any WW I can remember. She was good! Very slick! It enforces the fact that the WW and AP cannot continue to have any type of contact. I think you need to stay as f
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