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Thank to you also as! You have been a huge help lately also. I TRY not to let either extreme get to me. It is hard at times but I think I'm getting better at this. Maybe that is why I got the hot/warm treatment today because she feels me leveling
A rough night out here in DBland. Got some info from my L that W is trying to push D through as quickly as possible. I don't really want to, but I also don't really know what the point is in holding out and saying that I am going to require this to
You handled it well. Just be prepared that the next time she may lay into you. My W has been just fine all this week, even extending conversations. It's like she never was seething with anger. We are also supposed to meet to have another negotiati
I don't have a lot of wisdom to contribute Mahhhty, V and Asitis are my go to's around here. However, I did learn a lot from reading your letter as well. The part about owning your own feelings was important to read. The letter also upset me as I f
The best advice I can suggest is the "be distant/detached" approach. My WW will ask me what I am up to and even now I rarely tell her much. It's just a habit I got into, which is fine with me. The hot/cold treatment does not bother me
Such a great quote you ended with Mutatio. It's so true. The law of impermanence tells us that all relationships will come to an end at some point either by separation or death. It's a law of nature. How we deal with all of that is the true measure
Azzork it's not easy. I can't stop fighting with myself. It's true. I see that cartoon too. Plus my friend who dbed says that too and says I'm not doing anything. She's right. I Suck at this game... I opened up to one of my family members she's goi
Avanti thank you for these thoughts. I am improving myself with constant adjustments in attitude. My current struggle is the same as Photokas. Asitis addressed it perfectly on her thread today. Roiste thank you for your support. As you know, in a d
Originally Posted By: JulieHEyetie I'm not making any judgement. ( if I found out my husband was with other women I would feel and probably react very similar as you). But my question is, do you think there is a difference between how you view yo
Saw this in vise82's thread. It is pure gold. Thanks Sandi! Reposting in my thread for posterity. Heck, I think I will print it and paste it inside my eyelids so I can see it when I sleep. Originally Posted By: sandi2Quote:What do you mean confident
Wow Sandi! That post was very high yield!! I have read most if not all of your LBH/WW threads and this post so aptly summarizes what/how a man should be. I think every LBH, especially the "nice guys" should read it. I hope you don't mind if
That list of ten was my xh2 list of complaints against me. Add crazee and mentally ill. But his actions he assaulted my son, his step son. With no reason given and made me the bad guy in that. If you read behivours that signify abuse he checked
Was looking back through my old text messages trying to better understand how we got here. Sadly, I wish I had known of this site months ago. In mid August, my wife had asked me for some time and space. Like most LBHs, I didn't understand the situati
Thanks for the support eye! I really appreciate your time buddy! It's almost like it happened natural for her. Nothing seemed fake or forced on her end of it. Now tomorrow she will most likely be cold and distant and it will appear forced? That see
Thanks mutatio Your support means more than you know. I do dinner most of the time and taught the kids to thank who ever makes dinner(that was before bd) So I do at least hear thanks from the kids every night. Also like I said the kids laundry and
HW, in every relationship there is a sense of what you will or won't accept. MLC or not. I don't know what was in the letter, but it seems to me that he says mean things and then tries to make up for it. Kind of like job mentions: like a two year
I was in a spot where I made things easier for ex because I thought it was best for our daughter. But I had to stop. It was draining me and it wasn't sustainable. Ow as becoming resentful and that' wasn't good for anyone. Eventually I knew my dau
Eyetie I'm not making any judgement. ( if I found out my husband was with other women I would feel and probably react very similar as you). But my question is, do you think there is a difference between how you view your marriage right now and ho
At some point the kids needs outweigh proving a point to the wife. I have to cook dinner every night now because my wife works late. I don't mind any more. I now cook well enough that I get the occasional compliment. Some of the things your facing
Originally Posted By: GgrassOriginally Posted By: EyeTieOriginally Posted By: OhGreatITie is doing ok, but is it really DB? Going out and getting some isn't really dbing right? Unless it is, in which case, I got some calls to make. While my situat