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Hellllloooooooooo (man, that's a loud echo. need to get some carpeting)

Here I am at the new digs ....

Doing the Italian thing for new homes: bringing a loaf of bread, olive oil, salt, a candle, honey ...

Here are 15 traditional housewarming gifts and their symbolic meaning. I wish these for all of you:

Bread. Meaning: “May this house never know hunger.”
Wine. Meaning: “May you always have joy and never go thirsty.”
Wood. Meaning: “May your home have stability, harmony, and peace.”
Broom. Meaning: “May your house always be clean and free of evil spirits.”
Coal. Meaning: “May you always be warm.”
Honey. Meaning: “May you always enjoy the sweetness of life.”
Bluebird. Meaning: “May you have happiness and good luck.”
Knives. Meaning: “May always be protected from intruders.”
Sugar. Meaning: “May your life be filled with sweetness.”
Rice. Meaning: “May the love in your home multiply.”
Olive Oil. Meaning: “May you be blessed with health and well-being.”
Plants. Meaning: “May your home always be filled with life.”
Salt & Herbs. Meaning: “May there always be flavor and spice in your life.”
Candle. Meaning: “May you always have light through the darkest times.”
Coin. Meaning: “May you dwell in good fortune.”


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"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver
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Hello Bttrfly…fly…fly…fly…

Oh, that is quite an echo. Lol!

I like the gifts and their meaning. May you be blessed with all as well.

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And an in-ground 40 foot swimming pool.


Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.
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and a fire pit ...

Holy Moly Batman --- We have a working edit button!!

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Originally Posted by bttrfly
and Brad Pitt ...
I saw it before the edit!


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
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except he's a little too short for me ...


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Originally Posted by bttrfly
We have a working edit button!!

So out of curiosity is the edit button working on this thread or the entire forum?
It has had a time limit in the past too. ?


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I'm using Chrome as a browser

Edit button works in Newcomers and MLC

Edit button does not work (never has to my knowledge) in Surviving, not that it matters if that's going away.

I think it's a setting per section rather than universal right now.


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"Someone I loved once gave me
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That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver
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Welcome bttrfly and R2C! This is a work in progress and any "glitches" that you discover along the way, please let us know.

I saw this quote by an "unknown" this morning and thought of all of us and how we talk about looking back in the rearview mirror.

"There is no reason to look back when you have so much to look forward to."

BTW, thank you for testing some of the functions for us. The testing helps a great deal in trying to fix those issues that have lingered for quite some time.

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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Originally Posted by job
"There is no reason to look back when you have so much to look forward to."
The reason you look back is to ensure you dont repeat stuff.. So, its a double edged sword.


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Mach40,

I agree.


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Nice place, bttrfly. It's a bit quiet though.

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Originally Posted by Spiral
Nice place, bttrfly. It's a bit quiet though.
No news is good news?
I think the forum needs to get more people on the forum, via word of mouth..
This is a rare place for people, as it is has some exceptional experience. And the Author of DBs books has given the marriage world a gift, that many dont know about.


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It's quiet right now because people are working behind the scenes to get the updates done as quickly as possible. Also, some posters are may be waiting to see how all of the changes shake out.


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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Originally Posted by Mach40
I think the forum needs to get more people on the forum, via word of mouth..
This is a rare place for people, as it is has some exceptional experience. And the Author of DBs books has given the marriage world a gift, that many don't know about.
I have passed out many copies of the book IRL as I meet LBS's.


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Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Originally Posted by Mach40
I think the forum needs to get more people on the forum, via word of mouth..
This is a rare place for people, as it is has some exceptional experience. And the Author of DBs books has given the marriage world a gift, that many don't know about.
I have passed out many copies of the book IRL as I meet LBS's.
Its the same with me. Its not enough.. People need to want it too.


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Hi BF

What’s new with you? Spring showing any of its colors around where you are?

Rockon


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