Hey, J, what frequency do YOU prefer? SHe is looking for you to lead, so why don't you lead with something that you prefer? See how she feels about that? Please don't lose sight of your wants and needs. You don't always have to be trying to figure out what is right for the other person and pretzel into that. Figure out what is right for you too. Have fun on your date tonight. It sounds like a date I would love.
LH, I mean this as an honest question. How did you feel the coach helped and saved you when you needed it? Did he give you confidence with women you thought you lacked? Did he make you feel more comfortable about dating? I don't mean to bash someone that helped you. But now that you got a broad view of dating and women from a man's view, us women are here to help too. A good portion of the things he does say is not particularly applicable to the type of women you would like to date. Grown-up women with careers, kids, ect., aren't going to be captivated by his techniques. Perhaps he gave a nice general approach to kick start, but I think you might end up attracting the wrong women if you use his book like a bible. and his word like a preacher. You seem to be a pretty funny intelligent guy. I know you also like very beautiful women, but I am sure you can attract physically beautiful women who also have their crap together and have such a full life that they aren't going to chase, but sure as heck will date a decent guy.
Your threads click off 100 postings/replies quite quickly. Please start a new thread and link both threads together. Thanks!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
And when is the time right to date again? When you aren't dating for validation and because it is an addition to your already awesome life. ANd you should be pretty much completely over your ex.
There is a poster on newcomers who is clearly seeking validation from women when he isn't divorced, still holds a huge torch for his wife, and somehow all of a sudden pretends like he doesn't care about his wife because some hot professional woman is into him. That is not the time to date.
G,
I think I know who you are specifically talking about. There are also a couple of guys and gals doing similar things over on newcomers. Trauma cases that I think will probably fall into repeated mistakes.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19
