Just starting! Need some emotional support! #2

[lost8]

Interested in hearing about the last resort technique. I feel like I have been close to there a few times.

[Stryk2]

That is Steve, you are wise. I don't know what kind of effect it will have. I'm not going to ask.

Lost, I can't afford the program just yet. I don't even know what it entails. I'll do some more research on it.

[Ready2Change]

Hi Stryk2,

I just read all the posts in both your threads.

OMG, every person on this board would be blessed to have your body language reading skills. Use these skills to your advantage.


For clarification:

1) Elaborate on the details of relationship between W and coach. Do you suspect or know about EA or PA?

[Stryk2]

Ready,

It's great for the job but not for DB'ing. It takes a little temp checking to confirm aspects of body language. I'll break down what I've read with both coach and W later tonight. It was a long road and took me a while to become confident something was going on. Once I believed something was going on, I confronted W and the BD happened. Since then if it is still going on, its underground. I believe it was or is an EA.

[Ready2Change]

I'll break down what I've read with both coach and W later tonight. It was a long road and took me a while to become confident something was going on. Once I believed something was going on, I confronted W and the BD happened. Since then if it is still going on, its underground. I believe it was or is an EA.

OK. That was my perception. Just wanted confirmation.


Read this post:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1872336#Post1872336


And this thread:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...ain=47467&Number=2057224#Post2057224

Coach and PDT were amazing DBers.

[ovrrnbw]

Thanks for those links R2C.

Stryk, I wish I would not have confronted just to confront and display my emotion. It did not serve me well. You are older and smarter so I would plan this out. You're getting good advice.

[Ready2Change]

I believe you have multiple parallel paths:


1) Parenting
2) Seduction and Attraction
3) Prepare for divorce
4) Bust the EA


#4 - I would do everything in my power NOT TO SUPPORT it. Any ideas on how you are supporting it now?

[neffer]

Meanwhile don’t wait for the silver bullet! Do work on yourself, with patience and self confidence.

Hang in there!

[Stryk2]

I started breaking down the body language and process that led to BD. I started to get mad so I stopped writing.

[Ready2Change]

I started breaking down the body language and process that led to BD. I started to get mad so I stopped writing.

No need to relive that. You answered my question.