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No no no - do it through an electronic transfer. That's how I send my spousal support.

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I would send the cash in cents..

In an envelope

What a divot

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Twelve dollars? He's making a point of telling you he sent you and additional $12? OMG! It's his daughter too. In this day and age...what is $12??? I could see if it was $100 or so...but $12? What a putz!


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OMG, I love the idea of giving it to him in pennies! We do all electronic transfers, but it would be worth the extra $12 to give it by pennies.

Job, he is ridiculous with money. When he pays, everything is down to the penny. What drives me nuts is that there are so many little things he is responsible for half of, but I don't go around asking for it. It's truly a pain to ask fo rthose things and kind of degrading. So, I just pay it. So you would think he would let $12 slide.

Mind you, while I do make more money than him, his wife is a lawyer. I think I make more money than her though...... anyways, he is not hard up, he is simply cheap. He always has been and he always will be.

To top it off, I didn't get paid this week. Somehthing got messed up in the payroll when transferring my position. Now I am in the negative in my bank account, and my rent is due.

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Ginger, I'll pay your rent and then you can just pay me back when you get paid... Lol, see I am a rescuer smile.


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HELP!!

I booked my very first spin class since injury for this sunday with a friend. The instructor is FF's sister. She asked us to come to a class so I signed up for this one, I feel almost ready. So I paid and reserved a bike, but I didn't tell her.

Well, I look at her IG story and she tags FF in coming to her class on Sunday. WTF?! He's done ONE with me when she taught at a different place and we were dating. It's not really his thing, but his dad is going also, so he is probably going to support her.

So, what do I do? Cancel my class? I was really looking forward to going. Will it be too awkward? The GF wasn't tagged..... I don't know.

Why does he have to mess up my plans!?

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UGH!Even stranger coincidence. Sunday is a year ago he broke up with me.

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Cancel - go to another class later.

Or to a different class elsewhere.

Or out for margaritas with your girlfriends.

Just don't go there.

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I agree w/kml...cancel or reschedule for a different class. You do not need to put yourself in a class where he and his father might be.

I know that you were looking forward to this class, but there will be others. Please do not go to this one.


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I know I should just cancel. Mostly because it's her friends and family and I want I to be a nice day for them.

The weird thing is she can see who is signed up. She probably knows I am going. I wonder if he found out?

It doesn't matter. Maybe this is a sign from God that I am not ready to spin yet.

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