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WAW is slowly draining me of my will to continue. We are at 9 months separated. She can hardly look in my eyes when she talks to me. She is friendly to everyone but me at family events.
Talks about vacations the family is taking knowing that I am not invited. Only talks to me when she needs to do something. Otherwise cold. Feel like it s gotten progressively worse and I have been implementing Sandis rules. I feel like I am dying of a slow death. I think my WAW needs to be on anti depressants and is not happy. So I feel I am the scapegoat. When does this end? It seems like a never ending mind game and test. I hope she realizes that we ll need to have a good relationship to co parent. She s not helping here


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Sorry you are still having issues, please post a very short message that you type in to a computer to test this out.


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I am being emotionally blackmailed.

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WAW is slowly draining me of my will to continue. She can hardly look in my eyes when she talks to me. She is friendly to everyone but me at family events. Talks about vacations the family is taking knowing that I am not invited. Only talks to me when she needs to do something. Otherwise cold.

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Why does she not just file and get it over with?

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Why does offer for me to stay at siblings house if she wants divorce?

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Why not just file and get it over with? I already said I would not fight it.

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Originally Posted By: black8
Why not just file and get it over with? I already said I would not fight it.
Well in a MLC the operative word is CONFUSION.
And it appears her confusion is being transferred to you.


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Thanks. I am beginning to feel that even with Sandis rules applied, she won t be happy. It s just she can be so vindictive. There are times when I wonder if she is just trying to slowly lay me down or test drive a divorce at my expenses.

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Is it trying to let me go slowly so she thinks it will be better for me?

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