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WAW is angry and filing divorce

WAW still behaving angry and moving to divorce

WAW still angry, moved out, D on the way?

WAW moved out, spewing anger, trying to detach

WAW,still angry, am I indifferent or detached now?

“Hope is like the sun, which, as we journey towards it, casts the shadow of our burden behind us. ...Hope sweetens the memory of experiences well loved. It tempers our troubles to our growth and our strength. It befriends us in the dark hours, excites us in bright ones. It lends promise to the future and purpose to the past. It turns discouragement to determination.” -Samuel Smiles

I am looking forward to a brighter future for me and my baby girls. The path may lend its challenges, but we will prevail and experience joy and peace in our journey.
May my STBXW find the peace and joy that she seeks.
These things I pray each day.


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D final 6/1/2017

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Originally Posted By: Phoebe
"Angry jungle felines"?!?! SH, you made my evening with those words. Wonderful.

It's late so I can't write much more, but I just wanted you to know that I am proud of you, and that I I loved reading you post. There are so many good things in what you say, and so much positive change and progress. You're a SuperHawk!

((((((SH))))) I hope you sleep well, my friend.


The circus just seems to get bigger. Maybe that is why I can sit back and enjoy it more as opposed to fear the weirdness that it demonstrates. wink

I hope that you slept well dear Phoebe. I am guessing that you did as I do not see any early morning posting from you. My fingers and toes are crossed that you did. sleep
I thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of your support and for staying connected with me. I am feeling better and with much hope. Still a lot of work and trying to not let myself become detached form making progress. I stress easy, but I am avoiding it of late and rolling with the flow for now. But there is much to come and I know the waters will have rough spells, but I plan on coming through on the other end better for it all. smile
We switched up plans a bit and went and saw Tarzan today. D17 needed some clothes so we were able to do that for her. Now just relaxing this evening as we have a full day for the next several days, but it will be fun.


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D final 6/1/2017

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I adore the circus analogy.

I am adding pink elephants!

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Make that dancing pink elephants blowing their own trumpet.

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Can we add Heffalumps and Woozles, too??? smile

Welcome to your new thread, SageHawk!!!


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May I add a dancing pole? Or perhaps vines a la Tarzan would be more appropriate now?

I will throw in some wax (for dehairing) too.

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Hi there, SH. Just popping in to see how you're doing and to wish to s good night's sleep.


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I am doing great!. Full week of activities.
Just got back from a wild few hours of paint balling with d17. Had a blast.
We are getting up early and going indoor skydiving. Looking forward to it.
I will journal a recap of a great week over the weekend, but I am having a great time this week.


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D final 6/1/2017

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Hi SH, I always use your GAL as my inspiration. Granted, it's a bit more challenging when you have 3 small ones under 6 but it's do-able. Indoor sky diving sounds really interesting!


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Indoor sky-diving? Id like to hear more about what that's like. I can't imagine throwing myself out of a perfectly good airplane (!!!), but an indoor version might be more my speed. smile

Did you get any good bruises as souvenirs from your paint balling experience? I've never done that, either.

I'm really happy to hear that you've had a good week. It was well-deserved, my friend.

((((SparrowHawk)))))


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16
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