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RSG, I'm not sure I completely understand your response, what does the number of minutes have to do with cutting all non-essential contact?

Maybe her "idea" was to get updates so that she could control you, make sure you were there when she called, etc. just a thought.

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Originally Posted By: Coconut


Maybe her "idea" was to get updates so that she could control you, make sure you were there when she called, etc. just a thought.



oh, and by having you call her at sons bedtime, she could keep tabs on what you were doing at night, and with who..


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Or maybe she liked the idea of Facetiming at bedtime better than she likes it in practice.

I think it would make it difficult to really be present where you are, if you are always keeping an eye on the clock.

I live with my kids, and I am not there for every bedtime. And when I travel, I don't talk to them on the phone every day.

I have regrets as a parent, but these facts are not among them.

The expectation is unrealistic.


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You scream about how S is the most important thing to you, 5 minutes (maximum) can be found. Sorry. It's nothing compared to what she's done in the past. I will not address this again.


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