Then why in the heck are you in ANY contact with her? I mean, having an interest in her would be worse, I GUESS but the thing is, you must be testing your wife or trying to annoy her or help your fragile ego.
I don't get why you'd be in touch with ANY woman at this moment in your m! No excuse for it.
What are you trying to prove? Your neediness? Have you NO friends to talk with? You know, MALE friends or female relatives?
Geez....this is ANOTHER example of something she'd never be "allowed" to do without you having a tantrum.
But you do it and expect her to have no response OR you want her to be jealous.??..and you seem to be hurt/pouting that she's not jealous. Hey buddy, you wore out the whole "jealousy" thing with your wife years ago. If she were the jealous type & didn't adapt to your reality (e.g., the escorts) - she'd have gone off the deep end long ago.
Sheesh....
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Wonka, I was being a little cheeky with that. That^^ is Not what I'd call it. You were painting her horribly, but that's NOT how she said it at all. Why not say, word for word what she said and not put any spin on it?.
Also, the mind reading and projecting is tiresome for me. I keep having to remind myself about how you assume the worst of her based mostly on your own past behavior, which is SO unfair. You assume she's doing what you did to her, scheduling the trysts and all.
As Dragnet man said, "just the facts please".
The truth of the matter is, she approaches me somewhat cautiously whenever she tells me of her plans to spend time with the OM, and she never actually mentions him. so the "fact" that she's with OM is actually IN FACT, just your assumption? Oh Good grief...she 'never actually mentions him"....! How can you keep this game of victimhood up so well??
For example, she recently said "I'll be spending the day in the city and will be staying overnight because it will be very late by the time I come home". I know it's obvious who she's spending the day with.
I don't. Just Stop it. If you cannot see what YOU are doing here, I can. At worst, she's having an A-- but she is NOT throwing it in your face which you have made her out to be doing. I ASSUME you do this to make you look like a victim and her the worst of all cheaters...but I really don't know.
To me, She seems to be TRYING to get along with you.
She's giving you the truth about where she's going - and showing you her calendar to prove it, so you can check it (not that you should) and that is why SHE is being transparent with you!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
25 - Please see my newer thread. I'll reply to your last post there. Thanks.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
