Went to my either second or third job today depending on how you count these things, saw a couple of mates and was reminded one of em is single and I'm sure h has told him we are finished. No awkward questions yet, but I'm sue they are coming!
Sigh I hate the whole saga.
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M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
Great joke gg, wondering if h would like it, given the ow is a very very peroxide blonde lol lol lol! yes, the saga definitely s*cks the big one. You will handle the award questions because you are awesome! your h has no idea, keep being you, because you rock!!
I still can't shake a feeling that I had no seen that letter ever before.
And that the pen used to write it wasn't sitting in bedroom where letter was found until after bd and separation. I know I had a clean out and throw out near where letter was found, and I'm almost sure I checked under the draws. It was an usual pen, glitter pen. One of a kind. All very odd, yes h could access my place, if he was keen. It's not Fort Knox.
Seeing h then finding letter which Declares love and desperation, threw me on my emtional ar$e.
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M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
You know what I looked at this from the point of view of taking it to mediation, and asking when he wrote it. Straight up. But the chicken side of me just sent an email( with photo attached) saying was this the message you referred to last year?
Just a yes or no answer is required. Gives an out without pressure. Said I require no explanation.
So we see what it brings. Do I expect any answer, I suspect I will get none, it may open up a dialogue. It most likely will not.
It's more wanting to know. I guess.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
You know what I looked at this from the point of view of taking it to mediation, and asking when he wrote it. Straight up. But the chicken side of me just sent an email( with photo attached) saying was this the message you referred to last year
What did he say about the message? Sorry I must have missed that bit.
I can understand completely being thrown into a spin by this. I also found a note.
On a lighter note I posted a joke on my thread just after your detached cat post - which I loved. Sorry I know your thread is the 'correct' place for jokes :-)
You are so right about cats though, she is now my guru.
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
I loved your joke, but you can tell them on yours too.
I'm not that selfish.
I sent the email tonight, I'm not excepting a reply till tomorrow at earliest. I would think the chance of a reply given he ignored 9999999.999999% of everything else I send phone or ask is less than dirt.
It's more than likely a mistake, as he interprets everything as me trying to get him back.
The ic, has made it very clear he's not giving anything back he wants no r! Period. Nothing has overly worked.
As far as I know ow is still on the scene.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
Well that was interesting, I got a reply not the yes or no. 2lines in which the first line said basically indicated he was confused and he had never given s16 any messages!
Well script to make me think I'm crazee! Second line said basically no it wasn't given to s16.
I would suggest done without any thought what so ever.
So like ggg conclusions to be drawn, h was home this am not long distance at ow. I doubt she was there or I would have gotten a nil response.
I think I have in the early stages been triangulated. H always was a devoted son, and father with me being in last place.
I am that rarest of creatures: a "Natural Blonde".
Not that there's anything "natural" about it these days! There are now these pesky gray "highlights" I'm always trying to work with.
But gray---that's almost like blonde, right? ----------------------------
"How do you get a Blonde to marry you?"
"Tell her she's pregnant!" -----------------------
"How do you get a Blonde on the roof?"
"Tell her drinks are on the house!"
And with that, I'm heading to my rooftop, hoping to find some of Wonka's amaretto up there!
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
The quirky guy at works looking for me! he's been helpful as part of his job, so now I've returned the favour a couple of times. Practising on him, I think it's a bit mean in a way, light and breezey jokey showing appreciation.
Seems I'm getting something's tuned up a bit. My confidence is really good. Not even contact via email got me off track.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
