I feel like I've been the leader in our marriage, always making the decisions. My H is now starting to take back the reins and even though he lives apart from me he is starting to tell me what to do. This is definitely a reverse to what he did before, but I don't like being told what to do and I'll probably be stubborn and do what I want. I'm like that with all relationships that I have, if I don't want to do it then I don't. I'm sure that you feel the same way about your W and I'm pleased that your MC/IC is helping you with this.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Incorporated hugging and kissing cheeks again. No I love you's just yet. also, she made this comment:
"Thank you for putting in so much effort and trying"
I made a simple response: "More to come"
We've been doing really great. No more not staying home either. Sandi's 37 is a great summary of the books I've been reading from Davis. Will definately be re-reading and keep growing.
"Do what you can With what you have Where you are" - Theo. Roosevelt
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Keep it up