It's a part of our history that we close, remember and learn by. We use everything we learned here and post a million DB and life Yellow Post-It notes in our brain to make sure we never forget the lessons learned. We use those notes to make good on our next R and to ensure we don't repeat mistakes.
Going back to old ways is insidious. It is NOT easy to undo 30-50 years of programming, yet, me must.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
So true Faith, I look forward to my next relationship when all my healing is done. I am going to be an awesome companion due to so much wisdom gained. I will never forget it.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Daughter showed me pictures of their trip. Of course there were some of OW in it. I almost threw up. There is nothing worse than seeing your family with OW in it. The family that you made and nurtured. It hurts like hell.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
so very painful.....it makes me think wow they are in big trouble with God...who would do that to their family....and mother of their kids.... so very sad
so very painful.....it makes me think wow they are in big trouble with God...who would do that to their family....and mother of their kids.... so very sad
Don't look at the pix next time. Why did you torture yourself? FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
