My son called me last night. He said ex is a mess. His financial situation is crashing down on him. He is working around the clock and making OW work with him. My son said that he has tried to talk with ex about everything but he can't handle it. My son stated that ex will hang up the phone on him if he touches on certain subjects.
Is life greener for him? Hell No....
Will this help him make a change, who knows.
I stay out of his way, because I know if he had contact with me all he would do is blame me.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
He is doing ok with all of this. We talk alot about it and it helps us both. I always let him initiate the conversation and control where it goes.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting, I'm very sorry to hear about the situation that your son has been dealing with. I'm very glad he feels comfortable to talk to you about it.
How are you doing?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I am hanging in there Snod. Looking forward to better days and nicer weather.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Those days and better weather are coming. The cherry blossoms are opening up more and more each day. This is by far the most beautiful time in Washington, DC. Mother Nature always does a smashing job here.
I do hope that the weather that we have had the last few days will find it's way to you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
The grass is usually greener because it is seeded over a cesspool....FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Your funny, I don't have buns and abs of steel, but it is a goal of mine and I am working on a more in-shape bod.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
