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I sent it as is (both statements you posted)....

How is it that I am not falling apart at this point in time?

No tears, no anger etc...This is a good sign right?


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His response....

I can't say yes or no if she will be there.


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My response...

I have made my stand on this...

There is no place for your mistress in our childrens' lives.

Please tell me of this is good enough?


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"Then the 29th is no good for me."


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His response...

In the near future I will be asking for full custody. Like I said before with the boys performances at home, school, and anywhere else.....you aren't going to win. If your answer is no about C and/or N comming over, let me know.....

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Like I said before with the boys performances at home, school, and anywhere else.....you aren't going to win.


False bravado. He already knows he has lost, this is his chance to get you to back down. Any judge will see the behavior as a result of Dad bailing on his kids.

He already knows your answer. Don't respond today.

Be prepared, you need to start inquiring about attorneys. You are not the first person to be in this situation in your town, ask for help - pastor, YWCA, etc....


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How is it that I am not falling apart at this point in time?


What do you think?


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I have spoken to an attorney not that long ago so I know what I stand to lose plus I needed to have all of my ducks in a row...

What a turn of events....Merry Christmas to me.


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What a turn of events....Merry Christmas to me.


Merry Christmas. smile

You can handle it.


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Originally Posted By: Coach

What do you think?


Because I have grown...

I am no longer that scared little girl who signed up here 6 months ago...

I am no longer weak...

I am no longer stupid nor naive...

I am no longer blinded by "love", I am fueled by protecting myself and my children...

I no longer put him before anything...

I no longer care what he is doing, saying or screwing...

I finally got to the point where I want life to feel great and I want to breath again....

I want to feel like I am home...

I want to love like I know how and I want to see beyond the blurr in my eyes...

I am finally past the point of being a wilted flower hiding in the shadows...

I am ready to be a full blooming flower standing tall in the sunshine.


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May All Who Desire My Ruin
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