BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3

[cagzmom]

Agreed- how we choose to handle it.

I am in a bit of a funk. Wondering what I am waiting for.. just frustrated!!!

[TRUSTING]

Ex going on a cruise with other woman over Thanksgiving. He seems to be pulling away from his kids somewhat. This is trip number 15 or 16 this year, can we say run run run.

[cagzmom]

good grief!! and this coming from the man who wanted to pay less child supporT!!!

[mandyloo]

Had exactly the same Trusting, they spend spend spend on anything and anybody apart from their children, but I do believe they will regret it someday, mine actually said he cant afford this that and the other and he cant afford to take son out for activities or meals and things that cost money, but him and wifey still partying it up and eating out and holidaying, it really doesnt make sense. xxxx

[ACJ]

T I smiled about your comment about X emailing you. For some reason my XH forwarded me an email today from moneysupermarket.com. The title said it had vouchers for pizza. I'm sure kids will like that but why the hell he sent it to me I've really no idea. I thought at first that he had just sent it to everyone on his email list but only my name appears. Think what is more likely is this:

I'm Alison (insert surname) and his new wifely is Alena (insert same surname). Freudian slip maybe????????????????

[mandyloo]

acj, dont believe it for one sec love, my ex has recently been trying to advise me what I should be feeding son on and wot is healthy for him, think ive managed ok for 15 years and 4 of them on my own, and the fact that ex sends less than a tenner a week for sons keep he is lucky he gets grass to eat, lol, they are losers love

[TRUSTING]

They are so weird. Son is in town from college, ex has not even tried to contact him which is so unusual.

Still waiting for the judge to decide what my child support will be, up or down or the same.

I hope she hurrys up because bills are starting to pour in.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone

[cagzmom]

trusting there are no answers to any of this. what they see as black is probably white. nothing makes sense.

the judge needed info from him...... hmm he is going to be in trouble T. There are some places where tehy have to be held accountable

you will be ok. he can't prove he can't pay..... and there isn't a judge/court out there that doesnt have compassion on single mothers.......

hugs to you

[TRUSTING]

Hope you are right Cagz, we all need alittle compassion...

[forward]

T, I find the amount you are getting unbelievably low. I sure hope it's adjusted upward.