Over the weekend W asked me if I wanted to go to dinner with her and the boys on Wed. I told her I would check my schedule then this morning she asked again and I said sure. So, the four of us will go out to dinner tonight for the first time in over 10 months, we'll see how it goes. My actual birthday is Friday.
Me-44 WAW-42 (ILYBNILWY) S-16 S-14 M-10/17/1992 T23 Met OM 10/10/08; Bomb 12/27/08; Moved in with OM 01/27/09 Me stronger and happier everyday!
ppenton...I so admire your patience and persistence. My W just told me yesterday that she's going to move out & I'm questioning whether I ever want anything to do with her again...besides matters involving our S4. Then I see you GAL'ing & hanging in there months after W moved in w/ OM it's amazing. I hope I can be that strong. I'm not so sure right now.
Best of luck to you.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09
ppenton...I so admire your patience and persistence. My W just told me yesterday that she's going to move out & I'm questioning whether I ever want anything to do with her again...besides matters involving our S4. Then I see you GAL'ing & hanging in there months after W moved in w/ OM it's amazing. I hope I can be that strong. I'm not so sure right now.
Best of luck to you.
Thanks!! Believe me time and faith has been my biggest assets. I was not this strong in the beginning. I do have my down moments, they are not as often and not nearly as deep or dreadful as before. GALing and support from this site and family/friends have been a tremendous impact. I’m reading Divorced, Catholic, Now What? Which has chapters that deal with prayer, anger, healing, forgiveness, etc… Also, my boss has been a great resource and even told me early on in my sitch to get more involve with projects at work to keep my mind occupied which has helped me. Not only in my career but to keep my mind off of my current circumstances. In addition, I have faith that God will return my W but I’m not sitting at home waiting my the phone
Eat well, exercise and know that it will get better. I didn't believe it last winter/spring but it does. You will even laugh and have fun again!
Boy, I hope you're right. I've lost 12 lbs in the past month since I've been on the "so stressed that I can't eat or sleep" diet. That needs to change, and quickly.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09
Eat well, exercise and know that it will get better. I didn't believe it last winter/spring but it does. You will even laugh and have fun again!
Boy, I hope you're right. I've lost 12 lbs in the past month since I've been on the "so stressed that I can't eat or sleep" diet. That needs to change, and quickly.
It should I lost 35 lbs in about 6wks; since then have gained back about 10. Glad I lost some weight but not the best diet in the world
Dinner went well tonight. We went to Applebee's and enjoyed ourselves. W commented a couple of times how much fun she had and was glad I could make dinner with her and our sons. I am glad I went and I did have fun conversing with her and the kids. After we got home, W left and S16 went and picked up his girlfriend and the kids did homework and I baked Triple Chocolate cupcakes
Me-44 WAW-42 (ILYBNILWY) S-16 S-14 M-10/17/1992 T23 Met OM 10/10/08; Bomb 12/27/08; Moved in with OM 01/27/09 Me stronger and happier everyday!
