BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3

[peacetoday]

T
It is hard to mot lose respect for the mlcer
and in reality we can not trust a word they saey
they are moody and unpredictable
stay with your plan
if ypu x is still spending , then chances are the money is still there
take care of yourself and your kids
everything is so expensive and they help out so little
dent they realize we are the ones raising these kids
they dont care..and it doesnt seem fair to me
I guess I still have some forgiveness work to do
hang in
peace

[ACJ]

T I've said many times that our sitches are scarily similar. Your H is now doing exactly as mine has been for last 12 months. We got our final court order yesterday and his manipulation of the children cost me an extra £10k.

Peace my H continued (and still does) to spend and spend even after he took a massive pay cut (seemingly voluntarily). The money isn't still there as I have seen his accounts due to being in court. The only way it will be is if he has managed to hide it somewhere and not declare it. Debt does not worry these men. They just expect thier Xs to pay for it so they don't have to suffer the consequences.

[forward]

Trusting, Again....

He's not happy w/OW.
He needs to escape but really can't afford it
He's lost his family
Reality has intruded.

[TRUSTING]

Forward,

Sometimes I just need to hear that.... thanks.

[forward]

And Trusting--he is desperate.

[cagzmom]

Trusting - you are right to be gaurded. His timely "niceness" is oh so conviently close to the up and coming court date.

Forward is right -
He is a mess... and you are growing.

Keep going friend...

[TRUSTING]

Not really much to report, ex keeps calling at least once a day. Sometimes I answer, sometimes I don't....

[forward]

Wait til the court date is over and then answer if you try it.

[TRUSTING]

Hope everyone is surviving this mess.

Ex has stopped calling, all is calm.

He seems to be trying to convince my 15 year-old to move in with him. I will fight him to the end with this if she decides to.

Ex is very lenient with the kids since his MLC.

Kids know this. I am the strict parent.

Ex offers them a lot of freedom.

I will cross this bridge when I get to it.

[forward]

Trusting, that is because he is cool and hip.