True, Kerry, I realize she hasnt asked to come back so it is hard to invest in what she says when she lives w/OM still. I just meant the fact that she even acknowledged her part in this at all, and that she regrets her actions and their impact on your life....
It was a nice letter (except for the bad grammer) and I am contemplating acknowleging and thanking her for it.
I still dont know whether I would accept a hug from her when the signing day happens. Right now, I have a hard time just looking at her without having some contempt. She now dresses very high class like and she either drives the $60G Caddilac SUV or the $90G BMW convertible of OM's. I wonder if she will ever get back to driving the $14G Hyundai hatchback that was the vehicle she got from our split.
Right now, I have a hard time just looking at her without having some contempt. She now dresses very high class like and she either drives the $60G Caddilac SUV or the $90G BMW convertible of OM's. I wonder if she will ever get back to driving the $14G Hyundai hatchback that was the vehicle she got from our split.
She will find this to be a pretty hollow basis for living the rest of her life. I suspect she will go from being unhappy living a modest lifestyle with you, to unhappy living an extravagant lifestyle with ED. On the other hand, you can hold your head up high and move on happily.
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Talked with the kids and W this morning. They are now living in the new home which was an unfinished abandoned (foreclosed) home further out in the country. She says it is still not done but far enough along for her and the kids to live in. She also says it may be temporary and that she has tried to get an apartment for herself and the kids. She does not know what OM is doing with the existing lake shore posh home. I feel that this is all a ploy to negotiate on the spousal support - if her mouth moves, it most likely is a lie.
