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Hi Sep! Thanks for the support. \:\)


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i had Jody as well- im sure yours is great too. i had one session with someone else but i asked to switch. i just didnt feel connected. make sure you feel a connection.
you are ready now- thats all that matters- no looking back...its all meant to be in the right timeframe. if you pushed yourself before- maybe you wouldn't have gotten what you need to get.

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Hi P

I've read great things about Verneta so I expect it'll go well.

I'm so looking forward to the session tomorrow.


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holy sh*t Jen I leave for two hours and now look at you!
Now do it.


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I'm feeling the push to do something for me and I think I've come so far since Thursday. I guess sometimes it takes a backslide to kick me into 1st gear agian.


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Always leave 'em wanting more!!! And sometimes, less is more...(Lola)



Hey Jen,

Another tidbit out of that book;

"You never want to be like a dog that waits at the door. An animal will wait for you because it makes its day. If you become like that, you'll become disinteresting. But if you always explore new things, and he can see you are growing independently, he will respect you. There's nothing more attractive than a woman who is passionate about her own life and discovers new things. He'll work to be part of that, and he'll work to keep himself just as interesting."


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I think I've come so far since Thursday


It looks like you have!

The coaching sessions are a great idea, it's a good addition to all the other work you're doing.

Love & Luck,

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Hi Sunny! Thanks for the post! I need to see if I can find the book or at least some exerpts on the internet \:\)


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So I was cleaning the bathroom tonight (lucky me!) and I took down a towel to clean the tiles. Underneath the towel was this black creature. When I looked closer it ran down the wall, under the door, and out into the hallway. When I realized it was a small black lizard maybe 4 cm long!!! Big problem is now I don't know where it went! So tonight we have a house guest.

I spoke to XH about D for tomorrow and told him about the lizard...he thought it was funny I did not \:\) I asked him how to catch it and he said I needed to clean.

Anyone out there know how to trap a lizard?


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The lizard was in the bathroomand is was black?


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Yes it was a black lizard on the bathroom wall \:o Coach I'm serious!!!

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