well.. I sent him an email today, a joke about football, then I sent him another with the link to the comedian for July and "fancy going !?" and an in joke about it...so we'll see! I'm slightly past caring (ok, not really, but DB be damned etc).
Tonight I am going out with 3 guys for an end of college drink! Ok, two are attached and the other is 20, but hey, its 3 guys!
I also just found our absolute absolute favourite comedian (ok, we have a few!) one my BF aspires to be and even looks quite like him and is very similiar in temperament (melancholy, alchoholic and dead witty!)..he is coming to town in November, so I am going to buy 2 tickets next week for that, and it will make a perfect birthday present for him when he is 35 in August.
And I would hope that he would invite me to that.. I did give myself a year to hang on when this first happened, so thats November, and then I guess I'll be moving on (unless he has met someone by then).
got to go sit a Geology exam now for a dyslexic student! Joy. Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Ali I noticed you made a refernce to astrological stuff on Michelle's thread and I was wondering where you get your info from? I'm interested in it, but don't know anyone with any real knowledge.
Thanks, Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Ali - more info on the Mercury thing please. Do you think I should go NC during this and see what he does??? If it helps, he's a cancer and I'm a libra.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Yay! He didnt say no! He said "sounds good" but he also said, isnt it £40 !? (its £30 and I knew he'd balk at t the cost, eventhough he would spend that on a night out drinking!), then he emailed me to say he had to run, but he'd call me in a bit.
For once, I wont be in..I'm going out to the pub now for the evening. Feel a bit wierd about that.. its the first time I'm not available...I'll have my moby on me, so we'll see if he rings that...
But he said he would call me, so its amazing, we are up to daily contact again. WHAT DOES HE WANT FROM ME !!??? :-) Probably not what I want from him...
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I think things are positively moving for you as well. Just continue to be patient and see what happens.
I'd say look for an opening (like I had in my sitch, but didn't know how to respond) before you say something. If such an opening exists, then you can gently test the waters to see how he reacts and go from there.
Good stuff, Ali. I hope you enjoy your time out this evening, you really deserve it. I'm guessing that it might be a little easier to enjoy and relax into it a bit because you've had a little more solid and consistent contact (and plans!) with your BF of late.
