I cannot imagine living with snow all the time. It must get pretty old. Of course here, we would just love to get some of the pretty white stuff. But having it every day for weeks must get depressing.
I'm with you LL, bring me some sunshine!! I'm ready to wear my shades!!
Thanks for stopping by my thread.
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
------------ This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!
omg yes!! thought I'd take the kids on a super market adventure and get some food shopping done...to realize that sons car seat is still in daddys truck...doh!
oh well so home again we are...
yes things are going well..perhaps for no other reason then I've decided to simply expect nothing from h other then for him to come home at the end of the day...(unless it's snowing) I'm appreciating the little things he does around the house...like emptying the diaper pails and small trash cans throughout the house..letting me sleep in a bit...makin my tea...giving me a hug occasionally...
never ever ever happend before all this crap...I was on duty 2-4-7 while he did whatever he wanted...it's one of his 180's!!
for some reason...my high of everything is going to be fine has ended...don't know why...we'll see what tonight brings..I'm going to meet with the director of the ambulance co..having my mother come over to watch the kids so h can move some snow around outside...actually better that way than had I stayed home...as h has basically not really been here at all the past two nights cause of the snow so it would certainly annoy me to have him outside "playing" around in the bob cat while I attend to the kids...
haven't heard from h since I last called him at 11:30 perhaps that is all it has taken to throw me off..I don't know but I will do my best to act as if...
funny thought I just had...act as if...ya act as if you just don't give a crap!
Quoting lostlove: ... so it would certainly annoy me to have him outside "playing" around in the bob cat while I attend to the kids...
haven't heard from h since I last called him at 11:30 perhaps that is all it has taken to throw me off..I don't know but I will do my best to act as if...
funny thought I just had...act as if...ya act as if you just don't give a crap!
Whatever works so you can let go and not sweat the small stuff...
Quoting lostlove: I'm appreciating the little things he does around the house...like emptying the diaper pails and small trash cans throughout the house..letting me sleep in a bit...makin my tea...giving me a hug occasionally...
LL, Is H maybe showing love to you in his love language? Sounds like "acts of service" may be his love language. Although that isn't yours from the sound of it. Have you thought about that, and does it help you understand him better? Just thought I would throw that out there to see if it helps.
I think that this things are good - glad to see he is helping and let you sleep.
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
------------ This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!
I'm happy for you, LL. It's great your H seems more "present." 
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