Father's Day here in the UK and so far I have nothing. No card, no gift, zilch. I'm not going to worry about it, despite having given her gifts from the kids on Mother's Day. It's wrong, but I can't do anything about it and it's not worth an argument about.
W has been up all night with her kidney stones. I asked if she was OK this morning. I care. I shouldn't as her response wasn't like 'thanks for asking', more like 'I've taken some pills. If it gets worse, I'll go to hospital'. This is the hard bit. Normally when a husband cares, you don't need to ask to know that your actions are welcomed and expected. Now I don't know if my caring is pursuing. Hmm.
Last edited by Huddy; 06/21/1509:10 AM. Reason: grammar
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Sorry dear Huddy that it doesn't seem like they will do anything for you today. I know it [censored]. Let us hope that a year from now all our stitches look a lot different and we can look back at this and smile.
I've got a hole in my heart the size of Australia and just trying to cope one minute at the time. Stay strong dear Huddy! Our time will come!
Big hug! And happy fathers day from me!
M: 44 H: 43 ILYBNILWY: 7/4-15 Decided to try to reconnect. "This doesn't work, I have no feelings": 20/4-15 Scheduled "talk" :9/5-15 It's over: 9/5
SD came through with a card and some chocolates after she came back from her boyfriends. W has spent most of the day in bed or lying on the couch. She doesn't look well at all. I have asked if she is OK, and she says she is, so I can't do anything until W decides that she needs to seek medical assistance.
W's mobile phone has been left in the living room, open all day. I have resisted the urge to snoop. A lot different from eight weeks ago, when I would have been straight In!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
