Sir -- sadly I think if you open your eyes you'll find OM in the mix. Your WW will deny, but all the psycho-babble she's directed at you indicates something not good is going on. Take care of yourself, guard your finances like a junk yard dog, and avoid becoming her doormat. Best of luck.


BS (me) 57
WW (her) 51
M - 27+ years
Sons - 34/21
daugh - 32/26
D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08)
Status - minimal contact (me)
living with OM (her)
Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09