I do think that's part of it. BF is the way he is and am I willing to accept it or is it not enough? I think I'm still strugging because I haven't seen as much effort that I believe he's capable of. I know he's not the romantic type but he did make some gestures in our early days so I know he could think of things to do but he isn't. He does insist that things are different now, better because we're communicating and we understand each other better. That's true, but I just can't shake the little nagging feeling that it's not enough.
But then I think that I haven't made all the changes I need to make yet either (ahem, job). And life isn't perfect. And I do have high expectations. Perhaps too high?
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g